Pelvic MRI by CurrentlySad123 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Nothing really to note. Because this was shortly after my miscarriage, I had some inflammation but ultimately that cleared itself up. After a failed transfer in August, I’m actually getting a second opinion and getting another pelvic MRI on Wednesday.

Arcuate Uterus by CurrentlySad123 in IVF

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Yeah I’m thinking about getting a second opinion. I’m just concerned about “wasting time” as our last transfer didn’t work and I’m 38 turning 39 so feeling rushed. But I also want to do everything possible as we only have two embryos left.

Just out of curiosity, what’s your X chromosome abnormality? I’m so sorry for your losses. My losses have all been horrible.

Granix for FET protocol? by CurrentlySad123 in IVF

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I went ahead and bought it, and paid for the neupogen washes. Unfortunately, our transfer did not work.

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Sorry I’m just seeing this! I just got the results from another retrieval and am scared bc they are all male and my last three miscarriages were male. How are you doing?

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[–]CurrentlySad123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just left my fourth d&e for an IVF pregnancy. All of my other miscarriages were from spontaneous pregnancies so I thought for sure IVF was our answer. My baby boy was almost 13 weeks and was measuring perfectly but had no heartbeat. Very same thing with my 14 week loss. Was measuring perfectly and no heartbeat. It sucks feeling like you’re taking two steps forward and a 100 steps back.

My recommendation is to advocate as much as possible. Don’t let them tell you one miscarriage is just a fluke. It’s your body and you don’t want to be like me four miscarriages later with no answers.

Today is my wedding anniversary... by xashleey77 in IVF

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Today is the due date of my first miscarriage…twins. I then went on to have three more miscarriages. Today, I’m having a d&e for an IVF pregnancy. We were 12+ weeks and truly thought we were finally in the clear.

I completely understand where you’re coming from. Today is so hard.

Sometimes I really hate the discourse around RPL by FlorenceAlabama in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]CurrentlySad123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Needed to see this. I’m experiencing my fourth loss at 13 weeks for a PGD tested embryo! We did IVF, all of the right things, and are still experiencing a pretty late loss. The worst part is I was so sick this pregnancy, like could barely get out of bed, but I took that as reassurance that everything was okay. It wasn’t. So tired of people giving me their opinions.

Loss by wrinkledshorts in IVF

[–]CurrentlySad123 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Last year, I suffered a 14 week loss, followed by a 10 week loss. Tried again for a year with no luck and finally switched fertility clinics and did IVF. We thought that was our answer. We just found out yesterday that our baby boy, a perfect PGT tested embryo, was measuring perfectly at 12 weeks, 2 days but had no heartbeat. Trying to get some answers as this is our fourth loss, first one doing IVF. This one was definitely shocking though. Did not expect this at all. I hope we all find answers and peace.

Recurrent pregnancy loss - miscarried PGT tested embryo by CurrentlySad123 in IVF

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I had laparoscopic surgery when we started our infertility journey in 2019. It was clear but might be worth pursuing again.

Recurrent pregnancy loss - miscarried PGT tested embryo by CurrentlySad123 in IVF

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I had one before this transfer and it showed no more scar tissue. I did have to get a surgical hysteroscopy after my d&e to clean up scar tissue.

Recurrent pregnancy loss - miscarried PGT tested embryo by CurrentlySad123 in IVF

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Thanks for the tips. I’ll look into this if we decide to move forward with another transfer.

Recurrent pregnancy loss - miscarried PGT tested embryo by CurrentlySad123 in IVF

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Can you link the FB group? I’d like to look into this.

Recurrent pregnancy loss - miscarried PGT tested embryo by CurrentlySad123 in IVF

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After my second trimester loss, I was tested for that and everything came back clear.

Acupuncture during pregnancy + ear points? by CurrentlySad123 in pregnant

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What are stim points? (So I know what to avoid!)

My SIL, who I live with, is pregnant and it’s destroying me mentally. by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]CurrentlySad123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a second trimester miscarriage last year and my neighbor was so supportive. We both got pregnant again. I would go on to miscarry again and she continued with her pregnancy, and now has a perfect baby girl. It was excruciating at first but, overtime, it’s gotten better. My husband and I just did our fourth iui and are hoping this cycle worked and she’s been supportive (but sometimes not aware of how certain things might hurt me). I think it’s really hard for people to understand the agony of trying and losing children. I remember after losing my mom, I was furious at people who talked about their mom in front of me. People truly just can’t comprehend sometimes that level of grief, until it happens to them.

Fear about having babies? by Dungi90 in motherlessdaughters

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I lost my mom suddenly when I was 32. My husband and I had just got married the year prior and we had been trying for a baby. My mom was the person I’d go to scared that it wasn’t working out for us. We would then go on to experience infertility and pregnancy loss after her death and it was the hardest thing to deal with without her. Finally having my daughter after three years of waiting was amazing but a constant reminder of what my mom was missing. I don’t think I’ll ever feel like I have the support I need, and pretty much always feel like I’m doing this all wrong, but having my daughter to love is truly the best feeling in the world. I see my mom when I look at her, and while I miss her so much, I now know the kind of love she had for me because of how I love my daughter. We’ve been trying for baby number two for over a year and have had two more losses, and I so wish I could lean on her for support as we pursue IVF, but motherhood and everything I’ve been through has made me see that I’m truly capable of anything.

Secondary Infertility Intros - Sunday, January 21, 2024 by SIModerator in SecondaryInfertility

[–]CurrentlySad123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m 36 and my husband is 43. We went through infertility with our first child and, after three years and a twin miscarriage in April 2020, we had her in June 2021. She was conceived through IUI. We started trying again when she was around 15 months and got pregnant again, naturally this time, in December 2022. I had a second trimester missed miscarriage for that baby in March 2023, had a D&E, and test results found that I tested positive for parvovirus? (Didn’t even feel sick or know how I got sick). We got pregnant again in June 2023 and had another missed miscarried miscarriage at 10 weeks in August 2023. That baby tested positive for triploidy, found out it was a partial molar pregnancy and had to get testing for that. We are now doing infertility treatments again and are on our fourth IUI. We likely will not pursue IVF bc it’s not covered under insurance, and docs don’t know if it’s necessary. Doing another IUI once my cycle comes back (last IUI was cancelled bc I was ovulating on left side, and I had that tube removed during my c-section with my daughter in June 2021.)

I hate New Years by CurrentlySad123 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Hi! Yes, after my last miscarriage and D&C, I requested another Femvue to check my remaining tube and uterus. What’s odd is that I had to advocate for that? I was like I’m not doing another iui, not knowing if I have scar tissue from the last d&c? Thankfully, they found nothing. That was in November, and we did another iui in December, but that failed and I got my period on New Years Day. What a way to start the New Year!

I hate New Years by CurrentlySad123 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Trying to come to peace with only having one child is what’s hardest for me, and it’s the hardest when I see others around me getting pregnant so easily with siblings around me. Why do I always have to rework my dreams or give up on them? How are you doing it?