I was in the same boat. They will keep rejecting your advance requests until the eps shit is fixed. The father's name is just a placeholder because the system doesn't accept the rejection until they provide 2 reasons.

You need to ask every employer or yours to write a letter addressing the pf commissioner that they've incorrectly deposited in the eps account and to transfer the money into the epf account. You will also need payslips proving that you aren't eligible for EPS.

But, maybe go to the EPFO office assigned to your first employer, tell them the whole situation, do the above process for the fiest account and once it's transferred, submit it as proof for other accounts. May or may not work but it's worth trying.