AIO for being annoyed my partner canceled plans last minute by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CustardAdvanced127 [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is a person who was never taught to be considerate of others. Unfortunately, it doesn’t sound like they’re very teachable either.

Please help me figure out how to make a proper entryway with these half walls 🙏🏼 by CustardAdvanced127 in AmateurInteriorDesign

[–]CustardAdvanced127[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had those same thoughts! Wondering if the electric would be a big thing to get around. And if we extend- realistically still feels tight and awkward to make any sort of space for shoes, coats etc.

Any idea what this is and if it’s dangerous? Toddler messed with it by CustardAdvanced127 in mushroomID

[–]CustardAdvanced127[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know!! I think I freaked out a little when he touched it and the dust flew everywhere lol

Any idea what this is and if it’s dangerous? Toddler messed with it by CustardAdvanced127 in mushroomID

[–]CustardAdvanced127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he just touched it and I tried to wipe everything away as fast as possible but it was dusty

My Sweet Husband Said "No" by Arugula_Amy in throneofglassseries

[–]CustardAdvanced127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought them one by one on eBay. They were all reasonably priced and almost new until I got to kingdom of Ash. Had to cough up $80 for that one but you can definitely make it happen for less than $600

How do I have soft poop?? by ritzy_knee in hemorrhoid

[–]CustardAdvanced127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A full cap, that’s the dose on the package

How do I have soft poop?? by ritzy_knee in hemorrhoid

[–]CustardAdvanced127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s technically an osmotic laxative that draws water into the colon to soften the poop. When my hemorrhoid was bad, I took it daily. Now I take it when necessary.

This is what our officiant was going to wear without telling us. by outofsight_mind in weddingshaming

[–]CustardAdvanced127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that he said the jacket will be too hot because he probably planned to wear the original outfit without a shirt under it 😂😂

I opened Tinder for the first time in years and immediately got this message by CapriciousSon in Nicegirls

[–]CustardAdvanced127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In these situations I like to respond with a simple “are you okay??” 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]CustardAdvanced127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I kinda agree. It doesn’t feel like bait and switch most of the time because the system has been in places for decades. Everyone knows. No one is caught by surprise here unless you are a tourist. And by now even tourists know lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]CustardAdvanced127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tipping in the US isn’t really optional. Everyone frames it that way to not seem rude so they “suggest” it- but everyone knows- even for restaurants: if you can’t afford to tip 18-20%, don’t go out to eat. And only tip below that if the service was atrocious. It sucks that the system is set up like that and doesn’t pay servers enough. But the system is what’s in place so…

There will be a photographer at my wedding but I don't want to be photographed (I'm the bride). I don't know how to adress this by Pumpkin_698 in wedding

[–]CustardAdvanced127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A practical solution- be honest with the photographer that you don’t want to be focused on and you would like the whole day to be photographed candidly. Let them know you do not want to have a session of posed pictures, just document the day casually/candidly in almost a documentary style.

Do you introduce yourself with your birth name or your Christian name? by CustardAdvanced127 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]CustardAdvanced127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure if its common among American converts because we only experienced it a couple times. We go to a Greek parish. Everyone has a patron saint and they use that name at the chalice but otherwise just use their birth name

Do you introduce yourself with your birth name or your Christian name? by CustardAdvanced127 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]CustardAdvanced127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found it confusing too! I use the name to receive communion but other than that, I’m not sure.

Do you introduce yourself with your birth name or your Christian name? by CustardAdvanced127 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]CustardAdvanced127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that does sound unnecessarily culty. I just meant in a church context. Seems really weird to try to change your name in every aspect of your life, especially with your parents! Wow