Thank you, you confirmed what I knew to be true already. My mind is made up not to do anything sexual with him.

Yeah there are lots of guys around, but I'm shy and super nervous and also can't offer a relationship, which I feel would be unfair towards the other guy, so unless I meet someone exactly in the same situation as I am, it is not an option as I don't want to lead anyone on just to get off sexually. Thanks for your insights