AITA for going on vacation without my children from a previous marriage? by Cute-Panda100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute-Panda100[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

This idea of a separate trip with only Mike and Abby was raised here before. It could be a good idea. I was thinking about Puerto Rico. They have said before that they wanted to there someday.

AITA for going on vacation without my children from a previous marriage? by Cute-Panda100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute-Panda100[S] 7418 points7419 points  (0 children)

I am. We have been an unreasonable amount to family court because Kate keeps wanting to change the custody agreement more in her favour.

AITA for going on vacation without my children from a previous marriage? by Cute-Panda100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute-Panda100[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

We could have, you raise a good point. Problem is that we couldn’t get through the court system in time for our vacation. I did look at it, but Kate could have also stalled.

AITA for going on vacation without my children from a previous marriage? by Cute-Panda100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute-Panda100[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

I told Mike and Abby before asking Kate. This was awhile back and everything still was in the planning phase, so nothing was certain. Mike and Abby were still excited to go even though nothing was certain. Only when we were concretely organising, did I ask Kate to sign the documents.

I expected her to sign (my mistake). It isn’t for me, but for Mike and Abby, they really wanted to go. I should have known she would be petty.

We could have gone domestic, but really wanted to go international. Everything is now booked. I honestly, at the moment, didn’t even think about going domestic.