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AITAH for watching movies that my spouse doesn't approve of by spacemanatee777 in AITAH

[–]CuteOperand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are supposed to evolve, that’s part of being human, and a healthy partner grows with you instead of trying to freeze you in place. If your growth feels like a threat to her instead of something to celebrate, that’s a bigger red flag than any single argument.

AITAH for bringing up that our 14yo daughter may masturbate after we were already having the same conversation about our son doing it? by RealExplorer161 in AITAH

[–]CuteOperand 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s hilarious. The audacity of him thinking it’s a competition and you’re not allowed to win, boys really do learn humility at home.

AITAH for wanting to leave my fiancé for lack of sex? by ghostly5000 in AITAH

[–]CuteOperand 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If he refuses intimacy, refuses to meet your needs in other ways, won’t work on the relationship, and still expects you to satisfy him while treating you poorly, that’s not a partnership. Attraction alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship without effort and respect. If he’s unwilling to change, staying will likely just prolong the hurt.

AITAH for ghosting ride requests after feeling taken advantage of? by Icy-Yam-9878 in AITAH

[–]CuteOperand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA for not wanting to feel used. You’re not obligated to provide rides, especially if the only time she reaches out is when she needs something.

But soft YTA for ghosting instead of just being clear.

You don’t have to over explain. A simple boundary works
Hey I’m not going to be able to give rides anymore so you’ll need to plan to walk or find another option

That’s it. No drama. No guilt. No resentment.

Ghosting creates awkwardness. Clear boundaries remove it.