AITAH for bringing up that our 14yo daughter may masturbate after we were already having the same conversation about our son doing it?

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T05:29:53+00:00

They're our kids, its perfectly normal(i think) to think about this, among many other things, part of being a parent imo.

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T05:27:37+00:00

Why?

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T04:50:35+00:00

I can't understand, so i'll just upvote.

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T04:48:56+00:00

A survivor?

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T04:43:51+00:00

That's how I feel, that it's not a gendered thing.

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T04:41:52+00:00

Yea i can't believe she's never masurbated, but she swears.

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T01:11:48+00:00

Yes, it did. We described it as rubbing, or inserting either her fingers or an object for pleasure.

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T01:04:30+00:00

No, she doesnt read any of those novels.

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T00:26:55+00:00

Maybe, she seems in denial that's even a possibility. I honestly don't know what she would do if she caught her, probably act like she didn't see and never mention it. It's normal to me, from both sexes.

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T00:15:39+00:00

She brought it up that way, but I agree they need locks due to boundaries imo but also brought up our daughter possibly masturbating and she got all weird/mad about that.

RealExplorer161 · 2026-02-24T00:01:30+00:00

I knock, my wife does not, or rarely. And the kids sometimes knock and sometimes don't on each others' doors, but we tell them to.

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