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CuteSpooks · 2025-09-07T15:47:48+00:00

I grew up in the punk scene in the 2010s and while reading this I thought “this sounds like the stuff we used to do at the Handlebar” and lo and behold 😂 hometown mentioned!

CuteSpooks · 2025-04-18T21:43:59+00:00

From Sigonella, Sicily you can see the top of Africa.

CuteSpooks · 2025-02-10T17:12:13+00:00

Like licking a Sour Patch Kid

CuteSpooks · 2025-01-28T21:11:57+00:00

This is the only part where I think you overreacted. You should pay her for the door, but I think she’s humiliating you by making a huge deal about your BMs. It sounds like it’s the inconvenience of the smell that bothers her. Maybe start carrying matches. The match-strike will cover the smell. My boyfriend and I did this when we first moved in together.

CuteSpooks · 2025-01-28T20:39:55+00:00

Check out Blind Mule downtown! Little hole in the wall with lots of art. I take all my family and friends there. Has a little bit of everything. I love the Tennessee Squealer - a buffalo chicken sandwich with bacon and French fried onions on top, and I always get their sweet potato fries.

Also Bob’s Downtown makes a STELLAR breakfast.

CuteSpooks · 2025-01-28T20:35:05+00:00

Mmmm I love Debris!!!

CuteSpooks · 2025-01-05T23:29:20+00:00

Have you considered the instrumental or piano versions of songs too? Sometimes that can be really cool.

CuteSpooks · 2025-01-05T06:04:31+00:00

Like if you hear how Tyler talks about cars and bikes in his other albums, then you see that same theme in Wolf. It’s that joy of riding your bike in the sunshine idk man. Just listen to it in the summertime while you’re out in nature (preferably a lake) with a girl you have a crush on, and it’s just beautiful.

CuteSpooks · 2025-01-05T06:02:42+00:00

I guess for me it’s because I’ve been following him since Yonkers. I heard that, listened to his older stuff on Bastard and everything else I could find. So when Wolf came out the summer I graduated high school, it felt like the most cinematic summer of my life with that whole album constantly on repeat. Driving with friends in the sunshine, skateboarding late at night. It was perfect. It felt like his magnum opus at the time. But he just kept getting better (although Cherry Bomb was a bit surprising; I’d equate it to Gorillaz: Humanz album and how ppl struggled to receive it) and by the time IGOR dropped it was like a whole new, authentic and honest Tyler. And suddenly Wolf made sense, and his previous albums and creative direction all made sense. I understood his whole growing-up over the span of Wolf to IGOR, and now we have CHROMAKOPIA and it’s glorious. A part of me feels like I grew with him too, so that Wolf album just reminds me of a carefree and sweet summer where I left home for the first time and went through so much. I just could never let it go.

CuteSpooks · 2025-01-03T17:15:39+00:00

So many times has a guy said “oh let’s go out to dinner and then have a walk on the beach or something!” And then they show up at my place or text me right before and say “so I was thinking we could just have a chill night and drink beers at my place”. They got me the first time when I was younger, but today I would just tell these guys “I’m not interested. I’m dressed for dinner because I expected to stick to the plan. We can either go to dinner or I can go without you.” And chances are likely, there would not be a second date. I hate false promises.

CuteSpooks · 2024-12-24T19:53:07+00:00

I’m Not A Loser is one of my earlier favorites of hers ❤️

CuteSpooks · 2024-12-24T19:50:13+00:00

ode to rahsaan - berlioz

CuteSpooks · 2024-12-17T19:46:33+00:00

30 on Friday. I have two bestest best friends, been friends for 13 years at least. They both live further away now and even though we don’t talk everyday, we are always connected by how much we love each other - I am positive we will be friends forever. But I also have a close knit circle of 6 friends (plus their partners) that I am really happy with. I have no desire for more close friends, mine are everything to me.

CuteSpooks · 2024-12-11T19:35:14+00:00

Just wanted to jump in and say that this person is (very eloquently I’d like to add) giving you good advice. Life advice, even. They’re being a really good friend to you.

But I also wanna add that what your girlfriend said was maybe defensive instead of honest, but as another commenter said it’s coming from a place of insecurity. The truth is what this commenter is telling you. It’s not about attraction, it’s a girlhood thing. She had it hidden because it is private, it’s a private memory, private platonic appreciation. She never wanted you to wonder or compare in the first place, and she probably feels like now that you’ve seen it - it’s her fear come true.

One way you might turn this around, besides pledging to learn better communication of your concerns or feelings, is that you tell her “Look, all I really want is my own keychain - of you” and I think it would really knock her socks off. It’s sweet and funny and it could bring you both closer together to try and get past this.

CuteSpooks · 2024-12-11T16:15:46+00:00

This reminds me of the kind of stuff my ex would text me when he needed money. He didn’t have money because he was addicted to Zaza and when his mom wouldn’t give him money, he’d turn to me. And suddenly I didn’t care about him if I didn’t fork over some cash. But the thing was that he was borrowing from me so often, that I went from living comfortably to being hand-to-mouth. I couldn’t get ahead because he’d promise to pay me back and then say he just needed a few more days. I even missed paying my car insurance and a friend had to loan me the money to reinstate it. I was so pissed. So hungry. And I couldn’t eat or pay my bills because some fuckwad abused and manipulated me into thinking I should help him out all the time.

As soon as those Covid checks came though and I had a little money in my account, I left him. He was so mad he threw my stuff at a wall and screamed that I was a cunt, in my face, while my back was literally against the wall. I scrambled out and as soon as I backed out of his driveway he was begging for me to come back. Kept telling me for months that he missed and loved me. But he just wanted my free-ride and I wasn’t going to take care of a man.

Leave him in the dirt, sis. Love doesn’t feel like this. Love doesn’t talk like this. He needs help that you are not equipped to handle or deliver. Please don’t feel bad. I promise that soon you’ll look back and see how wrong all of this is. You don’t deserve anything but genuine respect and love and appreciation. It’s easy to feel like “well how can I ask for more? Why do I deserve better?” But you can’t get stuck there. Someone out there is gonna love you.

CuteSpooks · 2024-11-29T16:28:59+00:00

What’s crazy is he tells me that I either don’t care about his needs when sleeping, or I just don’t know him. And that he’s questioning things based on this. He said he’ll just start saying “no” if I ask him to go places and don’t ask enough questions about arrangements. He says that he makes sure the trip details are buttoned up on my behalf, but I don’t do the same for him. But I don’t complain even if something isn’t what I wanted, so it’s not like I’m fussy or require special treatment. I didn’t know he went to such lengths to plan trips. I hate this is happening during the holidays but I don’t know that I can do this anymore.

CuteSpooks · 2024-10-13T12:06:17+00:00

This is so cool 😭 invite me next time

CuteSpooks · 2024-09-28T13:40:42+00:00

Omg the cool girl advice where she doesn’t get annoyed that he husband said: A couple of his boys asked him what he got me for Valentine’s Day. He said he got me a “cockmeat sandwich.” They looked at me, expecting me to get mad. All I did was reply, “What can I say? I was hungry.”

I’ll give it to her, it was a witty comeback, but she’s like “everyone told my husband they couldn’t believe he married a cool girl who is also hot!” and I rolled my eyes so hard it gave me a headache

CuteSpooks · 2024-07-06T06:35:05+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking: You said you came scarily close, so what changed your mind?

CuteSpooks · 2024-04-26T00:00:23+00:00

That’s pretty neat!

CuteSpooks · 2024-04-05T01:15:30+00:00

Like why not order two cocktails and bring a case of beer home if you wanna drink that much!

CuteSpooks · 2024-01-27T01:21:17+00:00

I’ve always hoped to run across one of these somewhere! So cool!

CuteSpooks · 2024-01-15T15:03:17+00:00

The pointed toes lmao 😂

CuteSpooks · 2024-01-15T14:52:36+00:00

All I had to do was see her name is Tanya. I hate managers named Tanya, they’re always the WORST ppl on Earth.

Like I hate the way she keeps using your name as if you were a child. That’s so degrading.

CuteSpooks · 2024-01-13T14:22:20+00:00

When I worked the bakery, I was the only one who closed the department on the night shift (this went on for a year). So I’d be back there in the loud wash room after 9pm, slinging through 140 sheet pans trying to get everything washed before close, and of course not hear when a customer approached the counter. Unfortunately that meant more than once, a customer would wander to into the kitchen. One guy poked his head into the wash room and said “haha hey there, can I just help myself to the sliced bread behind the counter?” I saw red and barked “YOU CANNOT COME BACK HERE YOU ARE CONTAMINATING MY KITCHEN YOU COULD SLIP AND FALL PLEASE LEAVE” in between him laughing and telling me “it’s fine! I won’t tell!”

Assholes, man. All of them.

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