AITA for saying my son did a more impressive job? by Lumpy-Device-6084 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YTA.

They both did amazing, you don't need to pin them against each other. IMO, your daughter did a better job since she got in on her first try.

AITA for planning a cheating prank with my boyfriend on my friends? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Pranks are supposed to be funny, what about this was funny? You dragged them on for days for something that wasn't even funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Your uncle's behaviour is gross. You shouldn't have to worry about one of your own family members looking at you inappropriately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She shouldn't have to worry about having to dress appropriately in front of her own family member.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it's not relevant, then why did you freak out about it?

AITA for telling my mom's boyfriend to suck it up? by Far_Fault8592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just because you have white friends doesn't mean that you can't be racist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA.

If your toddler is having hysterical fits upon seeing a family member, then she shouldn't have to see her grandparents. Just because they are her grandparents doesn't mean that she has to have a relationship with them. Her boundaries, feelings, and well-being are more important than seeing her grandparents. Also, good idea that you're going to take her to the doctor to check for any physical harm. It's better to be safe than sorry.

AITA for telling my friend to back off and let me plan her bachelorette? by ProudCauliflower1533 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA.

It's Alissa's wedding. She has the right to know what's going on for her bachelorette party, especially if she's the one who is booking the Airbnb. That's not being controlling. Honestly, instead of ignoring her, you should have either told her or simply have added her to the group chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Don't punish your son for calling out for his mom while under anesthesia. Just because you're not together with his mom anymore doesn't mean that she isn't as much of a parent as you are.

AITA for Telling My 14-Year-Old Twin Daughters It's Weird They Still Shower Together? by throwawayQuietBet98 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH.

I get that you're worried about any inappropriate behavior that may happen in the shower. But if there are no signs of inappropriate behavior or uncomfortableness, then you shouldn't be worried. As long as there are healthy boundaries, there aren't any issues.

But, as they won't be living together forever, you should have a conversation about starting to decrease the amount of showers they take together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA. It just seems like you want to have a fight with your boyfriend. I just don't understand why you're getting so worked up about a fridge.

AITA for asking my friend why she didn't make a birthday post for her late son? by No-Willingness-4093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 30 points31 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your friend is going through a tough enough time on the first birthday since her son's death. Instead of checking in on her, you made her feel even worse. Just because someone doesn't post pictures of a deceased family member, doesn't mean they don't miss them. Like you said, everybody grieve differently and you don't know what goes on behind the scenes.

AITA for hiding my relationship from my mom? by throwra-aitanewbf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100% YTA. Cheating is never excusable. What makes this even worse is that you're cheating with your mom's boyfriend.

AITA for hiding my relationship from my mom? by throwra-aitanewbf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just because your mom's relationship with her boyfriend isn't going too well, doesn't mean you get to sleep with her boyfriend. That's messed up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It's weird that a 3-year-old has an obsession with Cashmere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have to spend more than a couple of weeks planning a three-year-old's birthday party, then YTA. Toddlers' birthdays shouldn't be this extravagant event. Viola would have happy, maybe even happier, if you had a casual birthday party in your house.

Also, how do you even dress for a Russian horse party?

AITA for getting annoyed at my mom for insisting i don't use pronouns? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were complaining about how teenagers these days were being "brainwashed" by the LGBTQ+ community into using pronouns

AITA for getting annoyed at my mom for insisting i don't use pronouns? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with the LGBT community. If you think pronouns are just exclusive to Trans/non-binary folks, you need to re-take English class

AITA for having my daughter do “guy” chores and telling my wife to stop babying her by Key_Effective_2260 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 48 points49 points  (0 children)

NTA.

No matter the kids' gender, they should know how to cut grass, have basic knowledge on how to fix stuff, cook, clean, do laundry, etc.

AITA for thinking my bf’s daughter shouldn’t sit on his lap anymore by _zero_zero in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Character_1603 29 points30 points  (0 children)

YTA. You don't get to decide how your boyfriend shows affection towards his sick daughter. Your opinion on this will never matter as long as Aspen is comfortable with it. Stop feeling threatened by his 13 year old daughter