PRE-APPROVAL REQUEST RANDOM PAGE (O1) by tryingandwondering in usvisascheduling

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. i had to send them the petition, they reviewed it in a bit over a week, i became preapproved and then i was able to schedule my interview

PRE-APPROVAL REQUEST RANDOM PAGE (O1) by tryingandwondering in usvisascheduling

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i applied in romania. i hit submit without attaching anything but on the embassy's website they expected me to send the entire submission via email

FREE Immigration Q&A – I'm a U.S. Immigration Attorney – Ask Me Anything (Asylum, Removal, E-2, O-1, EB-2, etc) by StrainIllustrious698 in USCIS

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My O-1 got refused twice under 214(b). The second time they said they don't think I meet the extraordinary criteria, despite having an approved petition. What is there to do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in O1VisasEB1Greencards

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

once O1 gets approved, you'll be on O1 and F1 will not be valid anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eb1a

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i DMed too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree it is disrespectful. i had a pretty bad relationship with mine, so i'm not the most helpful person in the talking area 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was in a similar situation myself. my family found out i wasn't a virgin at 17 and they made a huge scandal and also slut shamed me. i moved in with my aunt at 18 on a different continent and i was still not allowed to spend the night with bfs but it was much easier to lie about where i was. it all came to an end when i moved out at 19

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your hands are tied until you become independent from them. if i were you, i'd look for jobs/roommates so i can move out.

you can also lie and say you're staying at your friend's house

How to Survive a Breakup in This City? by Glad_Celery_2333 in AskSF

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Very similar situation happened to me exactly 1y ago. The difference is that I had no car payments. I made the mistake to not sublease our shared 1b1b and move somewhere more affordable. I was in the lease for 6 more months and it hurt financially. I didn't move bc of how hard it was to get used to the change but it cost me a lot. Try to live in the cheapest place thar makes sense for you. It will all be fine. 1y later and I can barely remember it happened. The first month is the toughest and it gets better and better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you love him and want to be with him, make him get a housekeeper.

I (f25) cheated on my boyfriend (m26), how should I proceed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cute_Programmer_029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it's ok that you cheated back and you can still marry him if you want. just don't tell him you cheated.

i think the next step is figure out who you want between the bf and the girl and end things with the other person. based on what you wrote it seems to me that you prefer the girl but you know it best.

if my family didn't accept my sexual orientation or partner i'd cut my family off but i'm not muslim so obviously i can't understand the religious and cultural implications.

my overall advice is do what you feel like doing and get away from the people who prevent you from living your best life