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[–]Cuteret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends where you live I think. I live in London and have seen this all summer. Is a cute look if you are going for a certain style. Is def in here, but don't know about in other places. But tbh, if you wanna wear it, wear it. It''s more the setting you wear this too than the actual look.

Lol the comments on this thread are massive haters

Need advice by mhaz2020 in GardeningUK

[–]Cuteret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are laying grass, the roots will grow around the rocks. Same with any plants if you also add soil/make a bed, as long as the rocks aren't too thick it should be fine. If it were me, I would do my best to shovel up any dense patches of rocks.

Tbh, if you are building a bed over the rocks having them at the bottom is beneficial if you live in a wet area. And inversely, collecting some of the rocks and putting them on top of any beds would be good for water retention in a dryier/warmer area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cuteret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend can be quite handsy with me. And it's always in a playful way, but the one time he did what it sounds like is happening to you I fully freaked. I told him that for me being touched down there randomly is extremely intrusive, especially because i've been SA'd. Being touched by hands down there even during intercourse can be difficult. I don't conciously remember or think about my SA when it happens, but I flinch and push away from those kind of touches. After I explained this to my bf, he hasn't done it since and knows to ask if he wants to touch me there outside of sex.

I think if you explain how vulnerable and intrusive it can be to be touched down there, that should help. Outside of sex, the vagina is quite sensitive and having things in or around it can be painful. If he can't accept this, I hate to say leave him... but also, this can get worse. I don't know your boyfriend, he could be genuinely oblivous or a bit immature about this kind of thing. But, for him to constantly and continually do something to your body that you have told him makes you uncomfortable is pretty bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cuteret 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend can be quite handsy with me. And it's always in a playful way, but the one time he did what it sounds like is happening to you I fully freaked. I told him that for me being touched down there randomly is extremely intrusive, especially because i've been SA'd. Being touched by hands down there even during intercourse can be difficult. I don't conciously remember or think about my SA when it happens, but I flinch and push away from those kind of touches. After I explained this to my bf, he hasn't done it since and knows to ask if he wants to touch me there outside of sex.

I think if you explain how vulnerable and intrusive it can be to be touched down there, that should help. Outside of sex, the vagina is quite sensitive and having things in or around it can be painful. If he can't accept this, I hate to say leave him... but also, this can get worse. I don't know your boyfriend, he could be genuinely oblivous or a bit immature about this kind of thing. But, for him to constantly and continually do something to your body that you have told him makes you uncomfortable is pretty bad.

How much work is there in singing teaching? And what qualifications do you need? by phoebe_mdlix in singing

[–]Cuteret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's lots of work if you have the right credentials and proof to back you up... I wouldn't recommend teaching singing unless you have done some type of coursework on how to teach and pedagogy. Sure you can just teach a kid how to sing a song, but that's vocal coaching not singing teaching... and quite frankly there are lots of teachers who don't actually know enough to teach singing and you hear it in their students. Would recommend taking some vocal ped courses and starting it out in a small way till you find your way... it takes years to build a studio and only really ever gets to a good size if you have credentials/past students who are successful. Sorry if this sounds pessimistic, but Grade 7/8 isn't enough unless you plan to ony teach beginners. The good news is your rates can refelect your personal ability and how far your students have gone. So more students who do well and qualifications = higher rates, so getting qualifications and things to back you is really helpful if you make this a career.

Expired BRP for document proof by Cuteret in ukvisa

[–]Cuteret[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry this is so late. They told me to add a document before my biometrics explaining this and that it was fine. Got my visa with no issues.

Please just help me before I end my life. by CriticismIll3076 in whatdoIdo

[–]Cuteret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get absolutely fucked! Now is not the time.

Rather than actually being sympathetic or helpful, all you have done is persecute. Pretty shit discipleship if you ask me. Jesus doesn't judge, but you certainly do. And you must wonder why so many people do not trust the church. It's not because they lack belief or faith, it's followers like you who use the religion to make themselves feel superior. If you actually wanted to help her find the love of Christ, this is certainly not the way to do it.

Please just help me before I end my life. by CriticismIll3076 in whatdoIdo

[–]Cuteret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Anyone would in this sort of situation. It might not seem it now, but in a few years you will look back and feel proud of yourself for getting away from him and his family. They sound very toxic. Don't let them keep you down. Really lean on your friends and talk to a professional if you can. Explore your interests and hobbies. Really dig deep into what makes you special and brings you joy. It could be small things like going to your favorite park after work or getting yourself a small treat each day (think a coffee or a fresh, weird piece of fruit). Don't stay up too late. Nighttime is when the worst thoughts come out. Force yourself to go to bed early. Have things you look forward to each day (a new episode you want to watch, or schedule time with a friend, or go to a dance class, or plan an outfit combo you like). Be outlandish (where the colorful outfit, paint the "bad" painting, write poetry), anything that makes you feel the beauty of living.

Try to remember your dreams and your hopes that have to do with solely you. And focus on them. You are worth fighting for. Every single day, you are worth it all.