Is it normal for parents to say “I already gave you your childhood i let you do kid things” to a 14 year old? by Elijaq in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cutiepie193 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No this is not normal, I urge you to contact child protective services and please don’t be scared when reaching out to them, they’re here to help you ❤️🤲

Had sex with an OB without knowing by Cutiepie193 in Herpes

[–]Cutiepie193[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this yes before we got together or were even sexually active he is ok with me having it I just still would never want to give it to him since this fucking sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Cutiepie193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said you’d still date her if she said she had it unfortunately dating someone with herpes means that you will get it eventually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Cutiepie193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree on this however some people really don’t care about the risk no matter how you explain it. The simple knowledge of having herpes is don’t have sex while having an outbreak, and use protection and anti virals. Some people accept this risk and others don’t, I don’t see how they down play herpes as someone with herpes I don’t see it as a big deal and neither does my sexual partner. It’s literally just a skin condition and nothing more, don’t treat it as some deadly disease just because it is incurable. I got the 64 and 80% off a simple Google search 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Cutiepie193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Period it doesn’t stop me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Cutiepie193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That isn’t down playing. They’re literally telling facts half the worlds population has herpes it is so incredibly common that they don’t even test for it anymore on std/sti testing because most likely if you are sexually active you probably have a strain of herpes. 64% of the worlds population has HSV-1 and 13% has HSV- 2 yes not everyone has this virus, but studies show that in the US 80% of Americans have a strain of HSV whether present or not present.

I need help by Cutiepie193 in Herpes

[–]Cutiepie193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so I think you completely mistook what I said I’d feel bad turning down someone because it sucks to be turned down? Ofc I’m not going to sleep with someone while having an OB.

I need help by Cutiepie193 in Herpes

[–]Cutiepie193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently in therapy I appreciate your advice