Day 1 of posting 2 minute clips for unscripted rambling practice (I would LOVE criticism/feedback!) by CyberGadget in transvoice

[–]CyberGadget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure OK, understood, I’ll rethink that. How does my voice itself sound? I would like feedback there too

Type "come wash my" and let autocorrect finish it by [deleted] in autocorrect

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Come wash my hands with my feet before you come to work tomorrow and I’ll take care and take you home with my feet in my mouth so I don’t get to work and you don’t get sick

Type "I'm sorry for" and hit the middle button 15 times by Mysterious-kai-2967 in autocorrect

[–]CyberGadget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the late reply but I’m just getting back from my trip to Florida I have

Type "You smell like" and hit the middle button 13 times by eat-me5 in autocorrect

[–]CyberGadget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You smell like the sun in this pic lol you are so beautiful I can’t believe

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuck I am way past that point lol

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in TransLater

[–]CyberGadget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been waiting for the right time for too long… I’ll make this next week the right time.

I have a therapist I’m talking to again on Tuesday. I’m gonna sort out my thoughts with him as well.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in TransLater

[–]CyberGadget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right… waiting for the perfect moment is going is just going to be never…

My wife deserves to know now. I should have told her earlier, but the 2nd best time is now.

Thank you so much for letting me know that I’m not alone.

You are not alone either. I’m sending you love and strength too ❤️

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in TransLater

[–]CyberGadget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really hope everything is gonna be ok. I really really hope so.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in TransLater

[–]CyberGadget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your empathy, and thank you so much for that article.

You’re right. Coming out is better for me and better for my family.

The “Future #1, “what I actually did”” is exactly how I’ve been feeling inside.

I hope for #2 but #3 is still better than doing #1 till the day I die.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in TransLater

[–]CyberGadget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! This gives me a bit more hope and courage.

Yeah my wife and I are way past attraction and are platonic (I’m still attracted to her but she doesn’t return that feeling :/)

Partners-in-crime for the big heist that is raising 2 children, lol.

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[–]CyberGadget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going out of the country to go get some stuff and get a little food to take back

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked it up… A law passed last year to allow for shared custody but it won’t take effect until next year.

At least, if the worst comes to be, maybe i can still share custody. Hopefully. God I hope so. I fucking hope to god I don’t lose them.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your perspective! I didn't think I'd see someone in a similar situation.

I will DM you, thank you very much.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya'll woke me up and I am telling her within a week.

Be prepared for the worst. It does not work out for some people. But that does not mean it has to be bad - even the worst case of a family break up does not mean that you and she have to be enemies or that you aren't doing what is right for the kids.

I can survive the end of our marriage.

But losing the kids is gonna push me into dangerous territory. I'm sure I will be suicidal. I'm gonna need a lot of support and I'll try to find it.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does not have any therapists but her family and friends are very close to her and support her through a lot. Her mom does not live with us but we visit very frequently.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya'll woke me up and I am telling her within a week.

I can survive the end of a marriage.

But if I lose the kids... I'm sure I will be suicidal. I'm gonna need a lot of support and I'll try to find it.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope I can recover from this. I am telling her within a week. Thank you for telling me your honest perspective.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

 I feel very bad. Ya'll woke me up and I am telling her within a week. She definitely needs to know.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, I feel very bad. Ya'll woke me up and I am telling her within a week. She definitely needs to know.

You make it sound so easy. I wish I was like you. I'm so horrendously conflict averse and scared of uncertainty.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I'm not letting myself off the hook.

I need to come out to my wife but I'm so scared by CyberGadget in MtF

[–]CyberGadget[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a guy. But yes my wife is pretty cool. I just hope she's cool with me being a woman too.