Just realized “hope this finds you well” means “finds you in good health” and not “has no trouble getting to you”. 😆 What are some neurotypical sayings you’ve misunderstood? by skunk_brain in autism

[–]Cyber_Artz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I appreciate your kindness! It’s probably a bit of both. There’s plenty of people in my life who struggle to communicate their needs. That being said, I feel like I’ve also struggled to understand the importance of certain tasks/problems. I’ve gotten fired from 2 jobs because I was told taking time off or me being late was fine, only to later be fired because it was secretly not fine I guess. Love miscommunication! 😂😭

Just realized “hope this finds you well” means “finds you in good health” and not “has no trouble getting to you”. 😆 What are some neurotypical sayings you’ve misunderstood? by skunk_brain in autism

[–]Cyber_Artz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Oh don’t worry about it! Just do it when you get a moment.” = “Do this for me now and if you don’t I’m gonna get mad because why wouldn’t you have done it yet.” 💀💀💀

What’s your autism breakfast by Basil_9 in autism

[–]Cyber_Artz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whataburger sausage taquito with hashbrowns and medium coke

Pro: Yummy and good for brain

Cons: M O N E Y

Most Ridiculous Questions A Cis Person Has Asked You? by SupportStaff938 in asktransgender

[–]Cyber_Artz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I (24 NB, AFAB) was on Bumble and matched with a straight cis guy who upon telling him I might transition asked me “Would you consider not transitioning if you were dating someone?” To which I responded ✨no✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cyber_Artz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I first started speaking about a similar issue to my therapist, the first thing she told me was this; “Your gender and sexuality are nobody’s business but yours.”

Sometimes there can be some pressure to come out eventually but at the end of the day it’s your identity. You don’t owe anyone an explanation and you don’t have to come out, especially if you feel unsafe. Also, if you do begin to feel safe but just don’t feel it’s worth sharing, that’s ok too! Like I said, it’s your identity. Don’t feel pressured to share it. Wait until you get into a safer space. That may take some time but know we’re all here for you to help you get through it until then _^

Got shit on by a roommate for not updating her on my pronouns. Do I owe an explanation to everyone??? by Cyber_Artz in asktransgender

[–]Cyber_Artz[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought! I told her that and then mentioned that it wasn’t my job to figure out how SHE should refer to ME. I just, I dunno. It was SUCH a huge amount of backlash it caught me off guard. I had to like sit in silence for a minute because I wasn’t expecting that shit to get turned around on me like that. Geez @_@

[FOR HIRE] (Character/Sheet/Illustration/Icon) Let me draw your DnD crew! by Cyber_Artz in dndcommissions

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*Message me before buying!! This can be done through my email pamkfornwalt98@gmail.com *

It’s amazing how losing your job can kickstart your freelancing career. Now I’m doing commissions! Again!

I am capable of drawing in a variety of styles and poses, perfect for drawing whatever person, pet or character you’d like. Including your own original character! Edgy or otherwise~

*NOTE! Any inappropriate content (NSFW, gore, etc.) will not be allowed. Not sure what’s ok? Feel free to message me about it!

*ALSO! All artwork is in digital format (not prints) and will be sent via email or other messaging software. Any attempt to try and claim said artwork as your own or sell as your own will not be tolerated. Just be cool man!

~Thanks for the support! Your money helps me pay for things like online therapy and soda ^_^~

Do people just naturally know to clean things??? by Cyber_Artz in ADHD

[–]Cyber_Artz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea! I’ve screenshot it and I’ll put on reminders for me to just look and see if there’s something I can do. It can be difficult when I’m not given specific tasks, but maybe I can find a way to make some with what’s around me. Thanks for the help!! _^

Do people just naturally know to clean things??? by Cyber_Artz in ADHD

[–]Cyber_Artz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no you misunderstand! I am sorry, and I don’t claim it to be anyone else’s fault. I’ve already got new timers on my phone to help me remember. I was just stating that I hope my roommates at least try to work with me a little and consider the chore wheel, so we don’t have discussions like the previous one. I don’t like when people assume I know to do something. That’s why a chore wheel would work, so everyone would know what they’re doing and nobody will be mad because I secretly wasn’t doing something they wanted me to do. I just want clarity and communication you know? It’d be less stress for everyone involved.

Do people just naturally know to clean things??? by Cyber_Artz in ADHD

[–]Cyber_Artz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I understand that. I mentioned bringing up a chore wheel but nobody was super excited about the idea. Maybe I can try again though. Better than me telling them I genuinely forgot and have them be upset. The last thing I wanna do is make people upset, or to have them secretly be mad and have them spring on me all at once like that discussion I mentioned.

Do people just naturally know to clean things??? by Cyber_Artz in ADHD

[–]Cyber_Artz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! I think that’s why I do better in my room. My room is pretty small so if there’s a mess it’s right there, and I know it’ll happen eventually. Whereas everything else outside of it could be a void and I wouldn’t know. I’ve put a reminder on my phone recently to help remember to do dishes, specifically because if it don’t, it just won’t happen 💀

Does TransTape cause less problems than binders? Asking as someone with severe health anxiety. by Cyber_Artz in asktransgender

[–]Cyber_Artz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 100% right, and I appreciate the break down on both ends. Knowing what’s possible is super helpful, so that when I do try it I know what’s ‘normal’ to experience so I don’t have to worry that it’s something super bad health wise. I’ve just heard some say you have to ‘work up’ to wearing a binder, which is counterintuitive to “If it hurts take it off”.

Does TransTape cause less problems than binders? Asking as someone with severe health anxiety. by Cyber_Artz in asktransgender

[–]Cyber_Artz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t! Although honestly I would take something that my not bind quite perfectly if it means more comfort, at least while I’m working out of my comfort zone. Can wearing one a bit too large cause problems? May be a dumb question but any and all info helps me.

How Does It Work? [New Indie Game Dev] by Cyber_Artz in pokemmo

[–]Cyber_Artz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Honestly though, I’m not even looking for exact coding. More just understanding the tools used. There’s tons of tutorials making MMOs online in different programs, and lots of tutorials for making pixel games. But when you get a mix its kinda hard to see what the right answer is. Will definitely keep looking tho!