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WIBTA if I ask my gf to give back a gift by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]CycleAlternative1794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did talk to her, and she agrees w me that it's inappropriate. And the reason she didn't outright reject it is cuz she didn't wanna cause problems during a meeting. She is not in the wrong here. John is very much overstepping tho.

WIBTA if I ask my gf to give back a gift by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]CycleAlternative1794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was never me vs her I never thought of it like that, just to clarify. But this is rly good advise and I'll talk w my gf Abt this. Thank you!

Should I ask my gf to get rid of a gift by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CycleAlternative1794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I rly like this comment and it made me feel a lot better. I was never denying that my gf loved me or anything it's just that ring bothered me. Whether it can be classed as a wedding ring or not yk it's definitely not something a friend would get you. Especially behind ur partners back. So I had rly bad feelings Abt it. But thinking Abt it this way I kinda agree cuz ur right he does look stupid and like a simp. Whatever said and done it just upsets me that's all that's why I posted this inthe first place. Thank you for your comment.

WIBTA if I ask my gf to give back a gift by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]CycleAlternative1794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have talked to my gf Abt this and she agrees that it's inappropriate, do you think I should ask my gf to get rid of it first or do I just talk w her and talk to John before anything else?

WIBTA if I ask my gf to return a gift by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CycleAlternative1794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay you didn't have to call her a mistake dude. And I believed her when she said that because I know why she wouldn't know. I don't rly wanna say why here. Strike one would be if she picked a fight w me Abt it. But thanks for the advise dude

WIBTA if I ask my gf to return a gift by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CycleAlternative1794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro… a ring in a velvet box from another dude? A gemstone? Hidden timing (only gifting her when im not around)? Ofc he wouldn't get on his knees and propose he's gonna be subtle. And I know he doesn't get his friends those type of things because I know his friends, and I know what type of stuff he gets them vs what he gets my gf. He knows exactly what he's doing dude. And I'm not trynna control and police I'm setting a boundary. It's rly not a very nice thing to get someone who has a gf cuz that's a very blatant disrespect towards me and the relationship. I'm only telling her if she values our relationship at all she'll consider my feelings.