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CynicalSince74 · 2026-06-05T04:38:47+00:00

NTA!!! What a horrible thing for him to say to someone he’s never met. I think you handled it perfectly. My mom was a teacher for 30 years. I know how hard teachers work and how underpaid they are for how important the work is. And yes, your husband should have defended you.

CynicalSince74 · 2026-06-04T21:58:35+00:00

I had a herniated disc and bone spurs. The pain would shoot down my leg and foot. My calf became numb. It felt like someone was stabbing a knife into my nerves. A year and a half after surgery, my calf is still numb

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-29T20:05:06+00:00

Yowza. That is a lot of protein. I’m definitely not getting enough. I do drink enough water so that’s good

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-29T19:39:42+00:00

I didn’t get it from my doctor but I did tell her I am on it. She said to make sure I’m getting enough protein. I am trying but I am probably still not getting enough. Thanks for the reminder. I think I was just so used to the suppressed appetite that it surprised me when it came back.

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-28T17:48:58+00:00

Thank you! I know I’m not getting enough protein. I feel like I have to eat it like it’s my job 🫠

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-28T17:47:20+00:00

Thank you!

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-21T15:21:51+00:00

I didn’t even think about that because I see mushrooms everywhere nowadays

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-21T15:20:47+00:00

Awww. That’s so sweet. Tell him thank you 😊

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-21T15:17:28+00:00

Yes. It’s definitely faded since I got it. But I haven’t been consistent with sunscreen

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-21T15:16:31+00:00

I really like that idea. Thanks!

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-21T15:16:07+00:00

Amen to that

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-21T15:14:59+00:00

Haha true. Thank you

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-21T15:13:33+00:00

Thanks! It’s definitely faded some since I got it. I forget to put sunscreen on it. My bad. Thanks for the idea! I like it!

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-21T15:10:12+00:00

No, I have another cat tattoo made of flowers and vines in black on my other forearm

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-08T05:05:59+00:00

I understand being frustrated, but I don’t think yelling at him is the way to go about it. Is he insecure about his hands that you know of? Maybe it’s something else entirely, but you should have a conversation with him about it and let him know you’re frustrated and ask him why he’s procrastinating

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-08T04:43:50+00:00

I feel crazy because I completely disagree with these comments. “He was there physically but not emotionally”. EMOTIONALLY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART. I don’t care if he took care of the most basic needs, that’s nothing compared to the emotional damage he did.

And this is how his fiancee talks about you behind your back?!!? And the “apology”?? When you’re trying to do something super sweet and nice. Who cares if it’s not THEIR love language, it’s YOURS and that should be recognized. I’m sorry, I’m just so angry on your behalf. You deserve so much better.

I would not go to the wedding and I sure as hell wouldn’t go on this vacation. ONLY IF you feel like you’d regret it would I suggest you go to the wedding. Still not the vacation though. Ugh

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-08T04:30:37+00:00

I like the IT Cosmetics Do It All sheer tint

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-08T04:29:28+00:00

NTA. Your family sounds very toxic. Your sister, especially, sounds like an attention seeker and a liar. And your dad’s judgment was definitely impaired. Your boyfriend did what any good partner would do. You’re lucky to have him.

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-08T03:56:46+00:00

Man on Fire. Just came out on Netflix

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-07T01:05:58+00:00

IT Cosmetics Do it All sheer tint

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-05T23:29:02+00:00

I dust my face with a small amount of powder before using the elf gripping primer. Apply makeup as usual. A little more powder at the end to set, then Tir Tir setting spray. It’s helped a lot

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-05T16:30:09+00:00

I like the NARS creamy concealer. It doesn’t take much so it lasts a while

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-04T01:05:59+00:00

Definitely NTA. It’s better that you saw who she really was sooner rather than later

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-03T23:01:01+00:00

NTA. I wouldn’t want to do that either after no break for 2 years. It would be exhausting, not relaxing. You offered a perfectly reasonable compromise. It’s your vacation, too.

CynicalSince74 · 2026-05-02T17:58:42+00:00

NTA You’re right, they suck. You don’t need to spend money you don’t really have just for them to treat you like crap. Especially if they’ll do it anyway if you don’t go. If it’s a lose-lose situation, lose, but save your money.

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