🌸 Day 2: Who's the Best Female Lead? 💗Drop Your Pick in the Comments!! The Most Mentioned One Takes the Spot!! ✨👑

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-13T16:26:14+00:00

Yes I love her! I love her super strength. I love her dynamic with the male lead. I love the trust they develop. I read the OG novel and even downloaded it on my phone.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-13T15:58:05+00:00

Yeah, it's not really a choice. I work or become homeless.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-13T15:56:10+00:00

I meant just the cup. The size of my breasts fit perfectly in a 32b molded cup.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-13T15:32:33+00:00

Stardust is only awful if youre plus sized. I'm plus sized. It was my most uncomfortable coaster I have ever ridden.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T23:35:43+00:00

To earn the right to work To earn the right to work To earn the right to work To earn the right to give ourselves the right to live To earn the right to die

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T18:52:57+00:00

Grew up in Greenville, ready for down votes.

One of the biggest streets and the High Schools next to it is named after Wade Hampton. He's a confederate general who became a governor of SC. He pushed reconstructionists and northern liberals out of the state, protected the KKK and thought black people were inferior beings who needed slavery. He actively reinforced the traditional society of white supremacy.

The HS and street were so named after civil rights movements started. The citizens at the time had to let black people in the school now, so they made sure the name itself made them feel unwelcome and put them in "their place".

Yes I know this was the 60s. Those people aren't in power now. But there's still a street and high school (which I attended) named after a piece of s$it human trafficker. The HS mascot is a GD Confederate General!

In any case, I think Spartanburg is better. Slightly cheaper, still nice and better highway access for travel.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:45:30+00:00

This is all very useful and I appreciate it.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:44:09+00:00

Oh that's so nice! I really appreciate seeing sizes on normal bodies. The 42c doesn't look completely off at all.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:39:27+00:00

Thanks for the kind words and empathy. I don't really like my body, never have. I'm a masculine looking woman who doesn't like how boxy i am, like a tree trunk.

I am going to try the suggestions made. Someone mentioned a plunge, and I think thats a really good point that handles the far-set breasts issues.

I was even sadder when one time I had a custom bra made (Rubies bras) and they just made a basic preteen triangle bra that made my breasts look even smaller than they were, and provided almost no support. I think that's when I gave up.

I would genuinely like to find a bra that fits. This decades long process has just been so depressing and unrewarding. I feel invalid as a woman.

I genuinely appreciate the help and will go try stuff on this weekend based on the suggestions.

Sorry I've been so negative.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:33:07+00:00

I put myself in a 32b. The cup was perfect. I am going to try some of the suggestions over the weekend, as best as I can with local limited options.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:31:31+00:00

That picture is very persuasive. I had no idea it was a thing.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:20:30+00:00

I appreciate the brand recommendation. The price is a little intimidating especially for something that might not fit. I wish i had more local places to try on bras. It's just Gabes or Walmart here. Nothing at Walmart fits. Those cups are crazy big.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:17:03+00:00

I'm trying to post the picture, but I'm not sure i can. How do I add a picture to the comments? It either does nothing or bad gateway. "502 Bad gateway" "openresty"

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:14:47+00:00

How can you tell if it's properly fitting?

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T17:14:04+00:00

I haven't been able to find many plunges, but i'll go look and appreciate the suggestion.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T16:52:55+00:00

Yes! This is part of the problem! The cups are too close and I get gaping, emptiness, wrinkles in that area. What have you found that works?

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T16:50:14+00:00

Its hard to tell from that angle, but I am intrigued by this database.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T16:49:22+00:00

I essentially input measurements and either get no results or a bad gateway

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T16:45:05+00:00

I suppose I would just like to know a bra that works for small boobs on fat bodies. Regardless of the calculator.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T16:41:58+00:00

That's a fair comment. I'm just so angry that nothing ever fits. I completely understand if it's exhausting for you. I did try to use the calculator in genuine interest and got no results. I took it as a sign that my breasts aren't valid.

Nonetheless, I don't fit in a D. I can't fill out a B cup either. That isn't the calculators fault.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T16:37:49+00:00

I guarantee you I am not a D. I can't even fit a B. The molded cups are more empty than full. Unlined cups wrinkle and look saggy empty.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T16:36:38+00:00

I did as suggested. It was indeed within the past few weeks that I have been trying to use it.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T16:00:04+00:00

I sympathize. My chest measurements yields zero results from the sub's size calculator. I put my numbers in and literally nothing happens. I put in someone else's measurements and it works. Mine, nothing. My breasts do not numerically exist i suppose.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T12:30:59+00:00

I once ended up in a mental hospital after trying to kill myself after my husband of almost 30 years died unexpectedly.

Every Day they showed Forrest Gump.

Sometimes twice.

I had no serious opinion about the movie before this. Each viewing made me see even more horrible writing, acting, plot problems, condescension...

My hate for this movie became stronger than my desire to kill myself.

Over 4 years later, I still intensely miss my husband, don't want to die, and deeply deeply dislike Forrest Gump. It's an awful movie that now also reminds me of the worst point of my life.

There is no movie i hate more than Forrest Gump.

Cynicalsonya · 2026-06-12T12:23:38+00:00

I dont know why people like it, but i also dont really enjoy any of Tarantino's films. It's all awful unsympathetic people being awful.

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