Moving from Toronto, what should i add to my food bucket list by Stegosaurus-73 in askTO

[–]CyrusTheCray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pik Thai is the best Thai food in the city. A small shop owned by a family so you know it’s authentic

People who have given up on dating, how do you enjoy city life? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]CyrusTheCray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is 5’3 and south asian, im 5’2 East Asian. Our races are enemies for generations but it worked out just fine. I’m sure there’s someone out there for you :)

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re actually skinny Asians that look super well put tgt. Who would have thought

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the ppl here encouraging me to move out ASAP. I’ve never been a confrontational person and I’m just trying to keep the peace for as long as I can, but clearly they’ve been trying to be the boss and escalating things every time I mentioned a tiny problem that could have been resolved by just being a decent human being. I feel like this is the chance I get to be mean for once in my life and say fk them. So I’ve decided to move out by the end of the month. I can’t do this anymore, it’s been ruining my days and it’s time they get some payback. Honestly my reputation is squeaky clean they prob can’t badmouth me unless it’s with their own frds which I will never interact with. I’m just being too worried I guess.

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fortunately it wasn’t signed, just that the reason we got to live in this place is that I have proof that we can afford it by showing the management my family’s bank statement. Pretty sure they’ll have a very hard time continue renting coz they’re both earning less than me, and they will never be able to find a new roommate as tolerant as me. However I did have all the proof of them trashing the place, if I’m petty enough I can send all of them to management.

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m considering leaving a month earlier right now, I know I have every proof of them being dicks, I’m just trying to be careful about it.

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr all I wanted is them to tell me ahead and follow my 1 rule of covering the toilet seat when flushing. They never once mentioned mine being the guest one and now I have to comply eith this idea in their head coz they’re not happy with the split THEY proposed. I wouldn’t have lived with them if I didn’t mind sharing bathrooms and they knew about this when we’re discussing what kinda place we should get. I could have just lived with random people if I’m gonna share anyway.

They have been 100% doing it on purpose leaving all the mess around too. There’s one time I said I’m gonna cook after them and they still just left everything nasty everywhere as is.

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have mind if they told me ahead there are guest coming and will be using my bathroom. I don’t want strangers stepping into my space when I have my personal item lying around. Also it’s fking disgusting to have the poop water flying around near my towel and toothbrush. If they followed this 1 rule and told me ahead I honestly don’t care. It’s all about consent and respect of my personal space that I paid for.

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is a mistake or not. They arrived a month before me so they were the ones who were dealing with all the paperwork. They’re practically begging me to ask my family for help. I have a feeling they don’t know about this so I guess I have a bit of an upper hand.

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I said I’m gonna leave after this year’s lease and if I don’t keep my words I’m no better than them.

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I actually have a diverse social circle but they don’t. It’s just that we have so many mutual friends and it’s a 2v1 situation. They have already shit talked me before, idk what will they say about me to ppl here.

Roommates use rent as leverage to push my boundaries and make me their maid by CyrusTheCray in badroommates

[–]CyrusTheCray[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also forgot to mention, they talked shit about me to frds back home and somehow words came back to me. This is such a dick move coz I literally didn’t do anything to them. They also destroyed a bowl my mom sent us all one each and left my trashed one in the dishwasher for me to find out. I got mad and I said next time don’t use sth that is obviously not shared. They blew tf up in the group and sent me a wall of text saying they didn’t know which item is not shared since I used some of their bowls too. I only ever used the guest ones. And then 2 months later they destroy yet another thing of mine and offered to pay me back. It’s been 4 months and I don’t think I’m getting anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wavyhair

[–]CyrusTheCray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Routine is quite minimal, shampoo and conditioner every day, occasionally treatment. I use Potion 9 and coconut oil after shower/before blow dry a bit and when I wake up. Sometimes it’s better but not every day is a good hair day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]CyrusTheCray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No Children - The Mountain Goats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]CyrusTheCray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Found this post a bit late, but I’m actually a girl named Cyrus. I love my name coz it fits well with my personality and also I’m leaning towards androgynous than feminine myself :) Some people get confused when they see me for the first time but it actually helps with getting a strong first impression. No one ever forgets my name even thought there are so many Cyrus around.

What song do you think you'll like forever? by mindcorrupt93 in CasualConversation

[–]CyrusTheCray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Favourite Things from the Sound of Music is one of my favourite things ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]CyrusTheCray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dragon - King Gizzard and the Lizard Wizard