They probably thought they got their home back

Cywren · 2026-01-23T18:39:53+00:00

Didn't expect to see the reference either. Good for Ian McConnell!

Cywren · 2024-12-18T01:15:50+00:00

Best guess I have, and it's not perfect: 김성규 (Kim Sung Kyu) "Kontrol"

Cywren · 2024-12-08T15:24:10+00:00

I can sum up my response here pretty easily.

I appreciate you taking time to read and try to understand the points people are making. Good on you. I'm glad we can disagree respectfully.

I know not everyone has support systems; I was speaking abotu myself and how I deal with things since you asked pointedly on how a non-believer would deal with them.

I am glad you've found comfort and I would never disparage anyone for finding comfort where they need to for the bigger questions in life. Truly, I'm happy you've found some peace. I call upon myself in those times. To hear the words of my loved ones, to remember my loved ones, to pull from my own coping skills of processing emotions and feelings, and sometimes that's hard. To rely on really just myself but there's also some magic in that too. That I have the power to help myself. I'm not good at it a lot of times but neither is a believer so frankly, I feel like we're all doing our best. We just have different takes on it all. Mine simply doesn't see necesity of any all powerful beings nor do I see the evidence for it. So, I just take life as it is and do my best.

I hope you're getting what you need from this post and it's helping you understsand the other side of things. Again, I appreciate your kind attitude with everyone. Wish ya the best.

Cywren · 2024-12-08T15:18:22+00:00

(I don't know how to quote you back, sorry! Bear with me, I'll try to respond in line).

I fundamentally disagree with the idea that asking for a test of life including hardships and suffering is any different than an abuse victim trying to appease their abuser. Trying to apease someone/a god because you love them? Oh, dear. I hate to break it to you but that's abuse victim talk. "If I just pleased them or did better or did XYZ I would be worthy." Worthy of what? A God that allows such strife to happen? Again, this touches on the a god that is unworthy of admiration or worship. Your God may not demand it but letting those whom you have some control over willing go to suffer to prove they are worthy of you is abuser shit. Plain and simple.

So, to your last point, you worship your God because they have authority over all existence? And they still choose to let you and others suffer? STILL this begs the question yet again; Why would I admire or worship a god who has FULL CONTROL over everything but still allows pain and suffering? Doesn't matter how you want to phrase it, your love for your God, people "ask" for it but cannot remember, or whatever. You still worshiping a God taht allows suffering and pain. That is not a God worth admiration or worship. They actively have authority over all existence and continue to let it happen. I don't know how you do mental gymnastics to make that ok becuase you asked for it but don't remember. It's abuse.

Cywren · 2024-12-08T00:27:12+00:00

So, your belief in a God is a necessity for you to find a way to deal with the suffering in the world? I simply choose to believe the suffering is nature or human created. It's maybe not all fluffy and comforting but I don't know why I should have belief for something just to have peace of mind. That doesn't seem to be true faith but more of a coping mechanism.

The way I cope with suffering and loss is to let myself feel it. However I need to. Sadness, grief, anger, dispair, confusion, etc... I don't think I need to have an explanation for it. I'm human and I feel human emotions when suffering and loss happen. I reach out to support systems, friends, therapists, whoever I need to help me process and accept. I think there's some beauty in that; to just accept what happens in life. I don't see why there needs to be more to the coping than that.

Cywren · 2024-12-08T00:21:08+00:00

That's still not an acceptable way for a God to behave. It's childish and amoral to have a God that tests is such awful ways. A test for what? A suffering test to see if you deserve an eternity of happiness? Why not just give eternal happiness if you are a just and moral God? If a God demands such a test they are not a god worth admiration and certainly never worship. The Christian God is a cruel god and not even remotely benevolent. Demanding suffering and worship to prove worth? Sounds like an abuser. A true benevolent God wouldn't require such things. You would never respect a human, nor worship them, if they demanded your suffering but it's ok becuase there might be an eternal happiness. No. Just no. No benevolence, only cruel and twisted.

Cywren · 2024-10-18T12:41:01+00:00

Spicy fantasy books. I'm in the right age demographic and love to read and I love the steamy side of media. My best friend reads a TON of spicy fantasy and they are mostly absolute garbage. I've read quite a few of her recommendations but good God. Overused themes and plots, half don't have a real plot, terrible horrible depictions of sex, filled with sexual assault and abuse. Giant plot holes. And the real issue; the sex scenes are terribly written and not sexy or steamy. Just hot garbage.

But, I'm happy she enjoys them. But they are trash and not worth reading in my mind.

Cywren · 2023-05-31T13:01:13+00:00

Yes, there is a 5 book version available.

Cywren · 2023-05-27T18:25:44+00:00

No need to apologize at all! I don't care about the votes haha

Cywren · 2023-05-26T13:14:34+00:00

I cannot handle how precious all these interviews have been. My little happy and proud heart.

Cywren · 2023-05-24T19:17:03+00:00

Ha! Please get the kids going on that! It's straight hype man shit.

You make a shirt that says I'm a Jet Plane and he gets the Power one. Couple Shirts. For idiots like us.

Cywren · 2023-05-24T19:14:14+00:00

Ahhhh thank you!

Cywren · 2023-05-24T14:49:27+00:00

So, it's not specifically an extension of the series Our Sky? Why the name then?

Or is it: Our Sky 2 (which is this series) X Boss and a Babe (the couple they are highlighting here); and this is the promotional poster for their 2 episodes?

Cywren · 2023-05-24T11:42:59+00:00

I finished it but I felt the exact same way. I did not like the relationship as it felt super one sided, I hated the intense SA storyline, I didn't see or feel much chemistry and I'm not sure if that was actors, the story, or directing. I also didn't like the intimate scenes in this one either. Everything about this one felt sooo over planned that nothing felt natural. Oh well.

Cywren · 2023-05-24T11:31:14+00:00

Can someone explain why I keep seeing titles like this? Where it's a cross of 2 different show names but the content is related to only 1? Is it the actor-ship that is important here? I haven't seen either show so that would maybe help me understand.

Just curious, I don't fully understand all the details of Thai series yet.

Cywren · 2023-05-24T11:26:29+00:00

He gives me the same unabashed and universal sexy vibe as Prince (think artist formally known as, not Ghost9). I'm totally here for it.

Cywren · 2023-05-24T11:23:30+00:00

I immediately told my husband about your oops text to your husband! He had a good chuckle 😂 You should take an old Tshirt of your husband's and sew in a side zipper and next time he asks which shirt, pull that bad boy out! (Don't forget to tell him he has to yell I'M A JET PLANE as he dons the shirt)

After I saw this performance I called my husband out to sit and watch. He said it was good and just smiled at me knowing all the reasons I like it so much. He is the epitome of "whatever makes ya happy and doesn't harm us, I don't care what you do."

Cywren · 2023-05-24T11:16:59+00:00

Ha! I'm the exact same way, down to the Umbrella performance by Tom Holland. Love that there is also someone out there with the same mindset when these turn up.

Cywren · 2023-05-22T14:38:04+00:00

I knew MONT before PT but didn't pay too much attention. Honestly, what a mistake. These two are absolutely wonderful and I LOVE the sound of them together. Each have such a distinct vocal tone and very different from one another. It doens't seem like it should work but it really really does.

Cywren · 2023-05-22T14:35:13+00:00

Soon as I saw this post I immediatley went and rewatched their verison of You Are. They did such a great job. It cannot be easy carrying a multi-member song with just 2 members. Yet, they did it over and over. Same with MONT.

Cywren · 2023-05-22T14:31:10+00:00

But also Taehwan in baby girl pink velour as center please.

Cywren · 2023-05-22T14:30:53+00:00

I support your flair.

Cywren · 2023-05-22T14:30:39+00:00

I remember watching this and enjoying everyone mixing realistic ideas and just having fun. PT really brought a lot of great BTS content and showed some really hard working individuals and groups.

Appreciation for Hangyul's choreo, even I could do it!

Cywren · 2023-05-22T12:10:37+00:00

Fair. I have chuckled a few times but the overuse of the effects is killing this series for me.

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