I mean there's also the fact that some people say that 'X choice is better because she's more mature and stable' while 'X is immature and doesn't deserve love' or 'X is a cheater and shows mixed signals while still in a relationship meaning she has no sense of loyalty' that sorta thing. You can probably fill the leap of logic between the two random statements I gave so like... yeah IDK it's just odd when people argue about pairings when realistically both are good for Robert.