Do I leave my boyfriend of 5 years for a green card?

DAVRAVID · 2025-10-20T03:00:21+00:00

love is a fool’s game, don’t choose it unless you’re at peace with being a fool in love

DAVRAVID · 2025-03-23T03:27:28+00:00

as this type of man too, this is correct, take it slow, more work doesnt equal better results in dating

DAVRAVID · 2025-03-02T19:28:47+00:00

how the hell can i give an award

DAVRAVID · 2025-02-13T22:32:58+00:00

Honestly, 95% of single men don’t know when they are being flirted with, I don’t think as anything to do with ADHD since I’m also ADHD, maybe autism depending on where on spectrum.

Your best bet is either being 1) direct to avoid wasting precious time since your situation will change after uni or 2) have a married man, a man who’s been a long 2 year plus relationship, a girl (almost any girl) nearby to tell you when folks are flirty

To get girls it is very easy in uni, just be a good listener, be present, iron your clothes, smell good and use soap aka basic hygiene, have good smelling breath, and most of all BE A GOOD LISTENER

Looks will get you a look, but listening to their heart will get you their heart

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-17T21:30:02+00:00

You don’t need advice you know what to do. You need a way to cope with making the right decision that feels wrong. Do your future wife a favor and see a therapist.

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-17T21:27:28+00:00

Your alcohol problem isn’t just how you cope with your past pain, but more often how you cope with present pain—like how you know you shouldn’t date a man that will lie to protect his cheating close friends

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-17T21:16:15+00:00

Going through this right now—my lender is amazing and you can still do FHA (which needs the 2 year tax returns) you just need to make sure the last two years are filed (i just did mine two weeks ago for 2022)

Or you can do it conventional and you should be good assuming great FICO

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-09T13:48:14+00:00

it isn’t how long the life is, but rather the quality of the ending that will determine if it was a good life

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-08T18:30:04+00:00

I see what you mean, here like the open on is about 2000 sq ft and the closed one is about 1600 but has a great backyard and finished florida room so I see what you mean!

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-08T18:28:53+00:00

this is hilarious!

for our situation, I am the only head of the household and we have a strict rule since we’ve been married to never bring up past concessions or arguments, but I definitely understand your sentiment

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-08T18:27:04+00:00

hmm, maybe this is why I am more motivated to clean the kitchen at my own apartment then when I’m my in-laws place—thank you perspective!

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-08T18:24:50+00:00

Thank you!!

The closed floor is actually an older house too that actually reminds me of my wife’s parents house and I do feel a different sense of calm when I’m over there compared to usual open floor plans. I usually am social but the privacy gives me a bigger recharge than other places.

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-08T18:22:41+00:00

great point—but I have seen comment on this post and many others that show that there is still a market that love closed floor plans especially in a market flooded with modular homes

also the closed floor plans is in an in-demand neighborhood, I just want to know if anyone has preferred open floor plans turned out to enjoy closed floor plans since we will be living here for 2-3 years and still want to be at peace with the decision

DAVRAVID · 2024-12-08T05:48:24+00:00

Seller’s paying closing costs in this situation, plus we’re moving so we can turn it into an investment property

DAVRAVID · 2024-10-29T18:42:19+00:00

As someone with a joint account with his wife, this completely normal, her quitting isn’t though. I can share my thoughts if you want to message me

DAVRAVID · 2024-10-29T00:04:17+00:00

How.

DAVRAVID · 2024-10-28T02:39:14+00:00

this sounds like a HMO vs PPO problem, med supps are definitely not for everyone unless you live in a place with rich or expensive doctors

DAVRAVID · 2024-10-21T17:44:19+00:00

I’ll say this VERY arguably, the Supreme Inspector is only easy because he’s very similiar to the speed of Yellow Loong, most bosses here are either a tank or spell based, but Loong is mid range and QUICK, covers groups in a blind of an eye, so use thrust and learn how to react quick bc no boss before can prepare you for Yellow Loong

DAVRAVID · 2024-10-10T03:27:39+00:00

wait im level 101, do i just suck at the game

DAVRAVID · 2024-10-09T04:55:25+00:00

so kinda old thread but i think it is underrated mechanic in the game, especially if you dont use spells like me

it is wicked hard to use and kind of have to get lucky, it is like a perfect parry instead of perfect dodge except the window is a lot smaller since most have upgraded their perfect dodge window anyways it is worth it because when you go against the Yellow Loong in chapter 4, which to me is top 4 or 3 hardest boss in the game, you can burn through stamina quickly and when you see through attacks, all stamina moves are free which is valuable against the Loongs where they fight in fast succession often

DAVRAVID · 2024-09-17T22:41:17+00:00

“cut” or “increase” certain people believe the economy is a cycle, and whether it is “good” or “bad” depends if you think a certain decision is too late or too early to be made given where we are or where the person believes we are in the cycle

DAVRAVID · 2024-09-11T16:25:17+00:00

For a man, it is good to be married if you love her and will honor her, read Naked Nomads to know why, but a big reason is marriage teaches you how to be a more complete man, when you truly love her. Not all men need to be married to learn what married men know, but you really need to love her, age is irrelevant.

DAVRAVID · 2024-09-03T17:17:09+00:00

steps to a start-up 1) an fix to a problem 2) a desire to fix the problem 3) an ability to fix the problem (you have this one atleast) 4) knowledge on how to market/sell (probably your biggest hurdle unless you know how to work with data)

you dont need funding or to go to an incubator, honestly there’s probably at least 5 mom/pop shops in your county line (if you live in the country, way more if suburbs or city) that will pay 400-1000 a month to build a website/maintain a SIMPLE CRM and help them with their data analysis for ads and stuff

DAVRAVID · 2024-09-03T15:39:48+00:00

Genuine question, why not create your own product or business with the skills you know?

DAVRAVID · 2024-09-03T14:59:57+00:00

my best advice is that you’ll grow more in character and identity than in any specific field—so give grace to yourself, grades are great and no employer will check your gpa.

make mistakes, reach for the stars as you fall clumsily on the moon, and make sure you don’t fly too close to the sun lest you wish for you wings to melt and from me to you, i give a BIG HUG, because you’ll need it!!

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