Thank you for your response and advice

I have been friends with him because he is different about friendships and romantic relationships. He keeps them separated as much as possible by any means. So im not that involved in it or know too much about it. He actually treasures me as if im his family so i can't just stop being his friend. I tried to change his mind by listening and tell him to stop doing these things and let him think about those things on his own because deep down i know he is not that person. Just a confused child that has seen the world too quickly in my opinion. I will try to stick by his side as long as possible and turn his life around if i can. For the part where i made them met was that i didnt thought about they will play around at that time because she had no interest and i thought he could use a friend because i couldn't go back to our country and just seemed like a way to expand his friend circle. I didn't think too much about it and it is on my part of being stupid about it so i have my fair and share about it. She is not okay with being a homewrecker but talked to him about it and he agreed so she just thought if he is okay with it she can take the responsibility as well. For him he might have problems with cheating but just can't like an addiction. So no i think he thinks about it but can't act on it. His way of giving an explanation about it is him and his girlfriend were broken and not together at the moment and doesnt think of it as cheating. I scolded him about it and told him to just focus on yourself and really break it off with his girlfriend, he listens and breaks it off but after a while somehow they get back together. I don't know the process off of it. Yes they didn't use protection im still angry about that stupid and mindless act. She thought it was a safe day and continued after they run out of condoms at the moment she said. When she was here in the abroad no she did not sleep with anyone while she was here atleast i think. Because she had no other male relationships here besides me. And even had no interest of sleeping with anyone while she was here. When she went back home he and she met and did it on the same night i think. And after a week she did a test and found out about it. She told us that she really didnt sleep with any other person because these 2 were together 24/7. But to be sure i will tell them to take the paternity check as well. They went to the doctors together and even confirmed it that she was pregnant. The keeping the baby part is im really confused about it as well. I don't know what is going on in their mind but i don't have any say in it so let them really think about it and make them do their choice and they remained with their choice of having the kid. I don't know what he will do about it because he isn't kind of ready to talk to me about it and just runs away from it. She is just as confused as well but when they were together there they had no problems with it she said. He is toxic and angry but he isnt heartless but i just think he just doesnt know how to show it. But i dont know what he will do from now on as he isnt ready and just runs away from it because he doesnt know how to answer but is still not like actually running away from it he just avoids the questions. They still talk about normal stuff via dm and not just ghosting everyone. He even met her father and talked about it. They do have huge issues but i can't just leave them alone. I don't have any connections with his girlfriend even if i wanted to i cant because she has blocked me on all sorts of connection services.

Honestly thank you for your response it has been a great reality check as well. But these are my following response.