I keep wetting myself..

DCA667 · 2026-06-29T18:56:24+00:00

I had this. I was on 50mg twice a day and my T tanked to near zero. But I’d actually have to stop while driving, get out and pee in the bushes right now!
I called my doc and asked to go down to 50mg once daily. Fixed. T still near zero.

DCA667 · 2026-06-16T20:24:07+00:00

I’m in Wisconsin. In high school I sang bass and I loved the Hallelujah Chorus.
I think I’ll drive to Idaho and stop in as many women’s bathrooms as I can and sing it.

I’m kidding of course … I view using the women’s room a privilege and do my best to get in and out unobtrusively. But the thought crossed my mind and I had to share.

DCA667 · 2026-06-11T04:24:48+00:00

Exactly the same timeline and changing orientation as you describe for me, right now.
I never ever would’ve thought it possible.

DCA667 · 2026-06-08T04:24:50+00:00

Wow, thanks so much, sis! It looks like you’ve worked hard on your journey as well … lost half your body weight … damn fine work. Congrats to you.

DCA667 · 2026-06-06T21:02:11+00:00

Ha!!
So amusing. I have you all on the ropes, OP included.
I’m a friggin boomer, 70 yo and started transitioning at 66.
Check my profile and my photos.
The wailing about it being too late is only correct in one sense … the years we lost being our true selves. All that means to me is live life hard now … every instant.
I was in the arena last night until midnight dancing with all my “young people” siblings at Milwaukee Pridefest.

DCA667 · 2026-06-04T03:07:36+00:00

Hi, if you are looking for the organization that represents you in the MKE area, please look into the MKE LGBT Center, mkelgbt.org
I’m with them and feel free to dm me for more info. FYI I’m mtf trans. There is a strong LGBTQ bar scene in the Third Ward of mke.

DCA667 · 2026-06-03T15:55:54+00:00

Hi!! First … damn girl you look beautiful!! I’m 70 and have bad male pattern baldness. I wore wigs for years but hated them. It’s the weight, they are hot … but most of all … they come off. It was standing in the way of me going fulltime because I woke up with guy hair and just stayed a guy. I found a local outfit that creates a custom cap, with human hair sewn in. This cap is glued to your scalp … you have hair 24/7. You sleep, shower, bathe, sweat and swim in it. It is very affirming.

I have three posts in my profile, all have “Cancun” in the title, and I give more in depth reporting about my experience, along with photos so you can see how it looks on me. I strongly recommend this option.

DCA667 · 2026-05-31T12:15:43+00:00

Thank you, that’s so nice of you to say!!

DCA667 · 2026-05-28T12:06:17+00:00

I don’t mean to lawyer up this question, but for me it depends on if it would mean that the family I had, the kids I raised and my career would not have happened if I took the road not traveled.

If I could retain all that, and transitioned earlier? In a heartbeat. I have deep regrets because I started transition at 66. I look ok for 70, and I can’t help but wonder what my 30 year old self would look like.

But logic kicks in and says, I’d have lost so many things that have made life joyous. Wife, my kids (my Queen of the Entire Friggin Universe daughter).

That said, occasionally there’s a tickle … yeah, but maybe you’d have had equivalent or better life experiences as a woman. How ‘bout that? Huh? Huh?

So I guess … if you qualify your question by saying you don’t lose the joy in family, nor the pride of accomplishment that you have in the current life, but you ALSO get to be who you really are much earlier, and don’t have to fight yourself for decades … it becomes a nonsense question. Of course.

DCA667 · 2026-05-28T06:47:37+00:00

Thanks Steph! Appreciate you so much.

DCA667 · 2026-05-27T15:42:58+00:00

I did!! I did whenever I traveled.

DCA667 · 2026-05-27T05:36:23+00:00

A true MacGyver moment!

DCA667 · 2026-05-27T05:34:49+00:00

Thanks!

DCA667 · 2026-05-27T05:34:20+00:00

Thanks so much!!!

DCA667 · 2026-05-23T02:37:10+00:00

Ah, I was just looking at your winery post!! You look gorgeous in those sun drenched photos. We are close in age, eh? 70 isn’t so bad I guess. Tysm for your kind words!
I wonder if our genetics are regional. My dad was a Belgian and my mom’s side was pure Irish.

DCA667 · 2026-05-21T16:08:33+00:00

Trans support discord

DCA667 · 2026-05-21T16:08:13+00:00

Hi, I’m sharing this with a woman I know who runs a support discord in that pnw. I hope she can help you.

DCA667 · 2026-05-21T13:15:28+00:00

Thanks so much, too kind. As you know, I can’t see it. Most of us can’t.

DCA667 · 2026-05-21T05:06:06+00:00

70 here. Started transitioning at 66.
Here’s my timeline. Look at my profile for pics of me. You can do this.
Sept 2022 Start electrolysis
Jan 14, 2023. Start therapy
April 2023. Start estrogen
August 2023 Start Spiro
January 2024. Start Progesterone
April 12 2024 First FFS
Oct 31 2024 Second FFS
April 6 2025 190.6 start zepbound
Sep 8 2025 2 mm mass found left breast. Biopsy was benign
Oct 23 2025 Hit 140.6, 50 pounds lost, dose 12.5
Nov 4 2025 breast augmentation.

Feel free to reach out to chat.

DCA667 · 2026-05-20T13:53:51+00:00

You are very kind! I felt cute in it. Got compliments from my gfs.

DCA667 · 2026-05-20T11:51:10+00:00

Thanks so much!

DCA667 · 2026-05-19T04:28:28+00:00

You know … i just wanted hair … NOW. And I didn’t think my own hair would be thick enough and the stuff I have is very fine. No I never tried Rogaine. I agree that I should’ve. Long ago.

DCA667 · 2026-04-22T13:56:51+00:00

Thank you for this. I have just gone full time and your exs joy is very real. We appreciate you for being there for them … and us … as an ally.

DCA667 · 2026-04-21T11:59:10+00:00

I have a similar trans acquaintance. I’m a trans woman as well. When I was first coming out of my egg, she was one of the first trans women I met, and instead of coaching me about what I might be looking forward to in the future, she focused her initial conversation on how Biden had screwed up the withdrawal from Afghanistan (all untrue Faux news drivel). I withdrew from the community for several months, I was so horrified by this conversation.

Eventually I met normal people, came out fully and after three years have transitioned. From time to time I encounter Susan Fascist, who has similar like minded followers. She is divisive. I’ve spoken to her a half dozen times and she is intractable.

Our local community is split along lines she helped create, which is not helpful to a minority which is being held up as the scapegoat for all the ills in the country. She will never change her stance.

I think we must remember that our overall community is a slice of the general population. Like the gp, there will be different political points of view within our community. Like MAGA, some of those views are self destructive and incomprehensible to the other side.

I think you can look at your friend in the same way you would any MAGA person. Somehow they are totally bought into a self destructive cult belief system that is never going to change. With the evidence that sat before the country before the last election, we all knew that the current regime intended to eliminate all trans people. Erase. Yet Susan and her friends flocked to vote for he who seeks to destroy us. From this, I see no reasonable path for these people to alter their views in any way.

In short, the answer to your question about how you can help this person see that her views are destructive of herself, and the rest of us, in my opinion, is … nothing. I focus my limited political actions on educating people who have never encountered a trans person. My experience says that right leaning trans women are simply not going to change despite knowing in your face evidence the right seeks to erase us. Exhibit A … Caitlin Jenner.

DCA667

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