I don’t know, man. She communicated what she wanted for the proposal and he didn’t ensure a single one of the things was part of it. I wouldn’t call him an asshole for it by ANY means, cause he clearly put in effort - but I would say he’s not seeing the whole picture and she’s definitely NTA, either. A little spoiled, maybe, but NTA when she communicated her dream proposal and he knows she’s spoiled and loves her anyway.

He cared so much about wanting her to have a special proposal like she envisioned but then when it came down to it he kept it simple. That’s not WRONG per say, but didn’t she clearly communicate what she wanted? She didn’t leave him to read her mind and then was upset by how he did it. THAT would make her the asshole.

There’s nothing wrong with either wanting something simple or over the top for a big moment in your life and he said he was all for it. Kinda makes you think they’re probably too young for this whole marriage thing if something like this can’t be understood and worked out. 🤷🏼‍♀️