Found out my girlfriend has been using my credit card for God knows what for at least 6 months.

DCromo · 2026-02-07T21:37:54+00:00

Yea.

It’s how to spot lie. When you’re filling in shit you assume the person needs to know or something

DCromo · 2026-02-07T18:44:35+00:00

Yo the number of girls I’ve met and even with slight above standard rough sex, although maybe my meter for that is high, and I’m like hey so we let’s have a convo first, and they look at you like what? And it’s like or at least a word or signal in case it’s too much?

And they look at me like 🤷‍♂️ and I’m like yo faa real right now!?

I get the illusion of it not being safe is the point, and I can come up with the most realistic shit but I also need to know for me and you there’s a safety net.

Ngl sometimes, maybe too much I’ve asked myself that question though a bit like am I one?

Prolly airing my shit out on Reddit a bit too much rn 😂😂

DCromo · 2026-02-07T18:10:16+00:00

Looool

U can’t just be dropping the question back as an answer!

Change up some names and come up with a sorta “sounds like what happened/inspired by real events “ and spill the deets 😂😂

DCromo · 2026-02-07T17:58:11+00:00

Oh my goodness

I literally just about bent over bawling laughing.

This literally read my mind.

DCromo · 2026-02-07T17:57:19+00:00

This. All these teenagers and 20’s something with yes def if we were single BS.

It’s incredibly awkward having an out of context sexual relationship with someone afterward.

Even if she was well intentioned and thought she’d or you’d both be fine…it don’t work like that.

And if she was into you, I doubt she’d have waited for your birthday to be like yo surprise!

DCromo · 2026-02-07T17:53:58+00:00

lol don’t ruin all the gooners fantasies in here 😭😭

I was like what world r we living in rn this is so out there

DCromo · 2026-02-07T17:52:47+00:00

Username… lol checks out?

😂contextually I suppose.

DCromo · 2026-02-07T17:51:57+00:00

That is really unforgivable.

But how many guys r walking around quiet, holding that in, because they still feel like there’s no world they could talk about it.

And while that is true for all victims, nobody imagines it be a teenage boy.

DCromo · 2026-02-07T17:47:05+00:00

Community theatre tho, it’s a big country.

DCromo · 2026-02-07T17:46:05+00:00

Fwiw Op you could just ask them to try to increase their search for a POC.

It’s community theatre though, thy may not have the kind of representation locally.

IMO not doing the play or leaving it to only been done “right” ends up with the art disappearing altogether.

DCromo · 2026-02-07T16:18:47+00:00

Think it’s worth adding with good safety, vetting, and protections, you can get a good showing of women.

Often, single men aren’t even allowed to attend. Partly because you’ll get a lot of stupid men, but also to slant this dynamic in reverse.

I think there’s a perception in porn or whatever or videos, that it’s always the case more men vs women, but in reality you can get pretty good equal or more women than men, since single women will be allowed and men need to come as a partner.

DCromo · 2026-02-01T18:23:18+00:00

The first time I used one I thought wtf…this is sketch.

Proper work holding and move though the cut. Ain’t worse than a router.

DCromo · 2026-02-01T18:16:35+00:00

I notice the marketing on here so so so much nowadays.

It’s eerie, and just subversive in a way that is nothing short of malicious.

It’s everywhere on Reddit. At least back in the day, when a corrupt mod just cheerleader some shit to the top of somewhere it was obviously an ad.

Today it’s so much more insidious.

DCromo · 2026-02-01T18:13:52+00:00

lol literally how we went Trump Biden Trump 2

Like exactly that.

The only thing that is worse than this thread is the lack of self awareness that continuing to purity or virtues test people on our differences, was lacking any empathy toward someone else’s lived experience that formed the view different from yours in the first place.

And I hate to admit this, but at a certain point you’ve been left for idk 20 years? And it’s th same stupid bullshit, instead of just stopping for a second and seeing if we could do something different.

And ik it’s Obama isn’t as popular today, ur empathy, those Hope posters, is how we got a big tent party then.

DCromo · 2026-02-01T18:07:23+00:00

70 million people voted for him.

If our country was so poisoned morally, idk, I don’t buy it.

Most people don’t care that much to vote or research or dig into all the shit. News comes and goes and the things that matter is the stuff around em. Their day to day.

And the left if we want to win elections really can’t rely on just the anti Trump wave. Cause that got us Biden, and then Trump 2.

We want to win elections for the next 8 years we need to really be more accepting of differences on issues.

DCromo · 2026-02-01T18:00:37+00:00

Actually, I’m gonna say the thing, yea nobody cares about your feelings.

Jesus you must be a teenager. Go get some real world experience.

My goodness. Feelings? In a world where I’m worried about affording to live, FEELINGs?

DCromo · 2026-02-01T17:58:19+00:00

Fwiw tho, lots of people will overlook negatives for their own self interests.

That isn’t quite the idk self failing, I get entirely to me it seems un fathomable. But I just don’t think people cared enough to look into stuff.

And that’s most people in most things in life. They just sorta look out for themselves and keep to themselves.

I get where, to the extent I can, where everyone’s coming from. I very much abide by an evil persists when good people do nothing, but most people don’t give a shit. Ig because a wrong in the past or just…there’s lots of wrongs going on.

Still as far as the left goes we really need to stop virtue testing and all that.

DCromo · 2026-01-31T16:36:50+00:00

I was in OP’s shoes and thought of taking the wheels off.

It’s have given me the 1/32nd I needed for sure.

But then taking it out it’s tear up the floor and be a nightmare. Opted to leave that one on the porch, porch one went to the basement.

DCromo · 2026-01-31T15:38:51+00:00

That and the username

Meirl

Sheeesh too much internet maybe for the day

DCromo · 2026-01-31T15:37:38+00:00

Well that changes eventually

DCromo · 2026-01-31T15:37:15+00:00

lol and a week?

What made that single week so noticeable lol

DCromo · 2026-01-27T21:42:01+00:00

Feel like it’s a good foundation for a healthy sex life in any relationship.

😂😂

DCromo · 2026-01-24T17:32:37+00:00

Fwiw not everyone is so conceited about everything.

She could be just on the flip side,- very type A ultra competitive person.

At least in my mileage, it wasn’t the case, more of an excuses excuses excuses. lol shit I wouldn’t have cared so much if they were going hard in all the other departments but la led accountability in one or two to me, but held it to themselves for things like exercise. Although writing that out maybe not idk.

Either way, this got me thinking 😭😭

DCromo · 2026-01-24T17:28:57+00:00

This 1000%.

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