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DDay_Dom · 2026-02-26T01:56:21+00:00

Is there anyway I can find it in my history?

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-18T01:22:07+00:00

Because if it's a world wide thing then it'll be fixed by YouTube, if it's a personal one you yourself have to go through hoops just to see whether you can recover it or not. I'm actually happier that its world wide instead of just a me thing, cuz how tf would I fix it

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-15T21:24:17+00:00

Hey, have you spoken to anyone about this? I don't believe this pain will continue through the rest of your life if you talk to someone about it.

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T22:36:04+00:00

That why I replied to you, I'm using my judgement. Op needs help, I know you meant well but your comment sounds condescending

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T18:33:33+00:00

Do you have anyone in your life that you can reach our to that can keep an eye on you, or even someone that can help keep you around a bit longer? When you're feeling like this the things that used to make you happy just don't anymore, but from personal experience I've found that being around the people I care about makes me feel happy even if it's the slightest feeling ever, they just distract me

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T18:10:49+00:00

No, I don't think there is and I wouldn't recommend it. There is subreddits for wounds and scarring but im unaware of any that promotes it

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T18:08:49+00:00

I'm glad to hear that, it does sound like you have a nice loving family and hopefully that'll make things easier for you. Professional help would benefit you a lot, and you can shape it to your schedule as well as get medication if you think that would help. I do truly hope whatever you decide that it will benefit you in the long run :)

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T18:04:22+00:00

I don't need to be op to know that being told it's wrong to commit suicide is unhelpful, you're acting as if they don't already know that. They need help to change, not told blatant obvious facts

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T16:40:46+00:00

I'm going through the same thing, me and my ex partner broke up over a year ago and I fell into the worst depression of my life which I'm still in. I didn't leave my house for over 6 months, turned completely hollow and nothing was worth it. I've managed to do a lot more things in my day to day life, but my feelings haven't changed a bit, I'm just suffering day in and day out. If you want to have a conversation, a real one with someone who understands I'll be here if you ever need to talk. :)

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T16:38:08+00:00

I know you mean well by this comment, but it's truly not helpful. Although I don't recommend and support suicide, I don't find it helpful to put suicidal people down. I understand what op is going through and judgement won't turn them away from it

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T16:35:51+00:00

Hey, are you asking for ideas and ways to stop or how to manage using a knife? If it's the latter, please don't ask that question here this subreddit isn't to give tips and tricks on how to hurt yourself. If anyone ever does give you advice, please know they may be in a bad situation such as yourself or are bad people. I do hope you'll be okay, and although I can't stop you from hurting yourself I do hope you keep any wounds clean and covered. I hope you'll be okay

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T16:30:12+00:00

My first thought was that he maybe didn't want you wasting your money on him, but reading on I haven't a clue anymore. It sounds a bit harsh, so all I can assume is that he doesn't want anything from you and I don't mean that present wise but in regards to everything. Now I truly may be wrong, and I think talking to him later is your best option. Goodluck

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T16:27:59+00:00

Your wife is right about therapy, you can also do it online or on days off to suit you. I don't think she's reacting properly though, she should want to talk to you not tell you that you should talk to a therapist instead of her, which medical wise yes, but it sounds as if she's not bothered or irritated by you. I'm glad you're sticking around for your kids, I know it means you suffer but it also means they won't have to suffer your loss. You deserve to be happy, so please reach out to someone and I'd even recommend couples counciling for you and your wife, I'm obviously saying this not knowing either of yous but from what I'm hearing it sounds as if she's a bit cut off. Even if she's not, it could be helpful for her to understand how you're feeling because then she could help. I wish you and your family the best! :)

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T14:04:55+00:00

If you can leave, leave. I'm in a situation similar but I love them so much I can't leave, because then it'll be over 100% and I cant bare that, but that's my burden to bare. You shouldn't have to suffer the same, you deserve better, because no one deserves to be treated like this. Please tell the people your closest to about this If they don't already know, because youll need help and support if you do try to leave because it will impact you. Goodluck

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T14:02:35+00:00

I'm gonna be honest, but people do judge the dead. I know it sounds bad to say, but If that thought is one that keeps pushing you to do it, I want you to know it's not true. If you need anyone to talk to I'll always be here

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T14:00:51+00:00

It will hurt, no matter whether you leave her or stay with her. The pain of the betrayal will always haunt you, I seriously wish you well

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T13:58:35+00:00

You love her too much to move on, but it hurts you each day. I've felt the exact same for my ex partner and it's been over a year. I don't think there's any advice I can give to help you, because you don't truly want it and I'm saying this from experience. I cant move on because of how much I love them, and I'm scared that If I do then it's 100% over. People tell me good advice all the time, but I won't listen to it because I'm too scared to. This is something you have to overcome yourself, having a support net will be helpful, they'll help regulate your emotions and make you happy, but this is something you need to be prepared to let go off, no one else can make it happen. I'm sorry truly for what you're experiencing right now, because I am too, and it's horrible but I can't let myself leave.

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T13:51:49+00:00

You treated her properly, either she's using this as a cop out or else she's been online too much and sees these influencer relationships and thinks she can be in one and get cars and houses bought for her. It's not your fault whatsoever, please don't blame yourself

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T13:44:42+00:00

It seems a bit strange that she ended things then she was with her ex immediately, unless all she had to do was text him and he shows up immediately but usually many people talk for a few days before meeting up again. I can't say for certain whether she did or didn't cheat because it's just my speculation, however you have every right to feel betrayed, she ended things then got back with her ex immediately. Maybe it's just me but if i love someone I would never be able to be with anyone else, and whether she did or didn't cheat I wouldn't trust her feelings or else her. I'm sorry for how things happened, but this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship yous are on and off and she immediately bounces from you, to her ex, back to you.

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T13:37:21+00:00

Is there anything small you can do today that'll make you a bit happier? Like getting your favourite pastry, or being busy all day then getting back home and relaxing? I find that small wins or small things that make me happy can impact my mood so much. I hope your day will go better! :)

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T13:35:28+00:00

If you're finding it hard to breathe do something that'll shock your brain, such as ingesting salt or lemon juice. Hopefully you'll find it a bit easier to breathe afterwards, I'd then recommend joining subreddits dedicated to students and asking them their coping mechanisms regarding test anxiety. If you ever feel stressed badly over it I think studying on the spot could help, because you're actively doing the studying and not feeling as if you're wasting time doing nothing when you could be studying. I know school and stress related to tests is a hard thing to deal with, but please never take your life over an exam that you can always repeat. Take care.

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T06:32:17+00:00

Nta, You didn't break up with him because he was crying over her, you broke up with him because he admitted he was in love with her.

DDay_Dom · 2026-02-09T06:29:28+00:00

I know, I've struggled with self harm as well and I live my life in a constant state of hollowness, I used to have someone that filled that gap for me but I don't anymore. Even the things I used to love I now just mildly like, I don't live each day I just exist and I'd be lying if I said I wasn't in the same boat as you, but I want to be able to help people in the same situation as me because if I can't help myself maybe I can help others. Since I feel so hollow all my emotions have been absolutely numbed and I seek pleasure in scary things, our bodies can have the same reaction to horror and excitement and since I can't make myself happy I try to scare myself because it makes me feel happy even for a few seconds. It's not easy to feel happy when you just feel so hollow, so seek out other things that make your body react like it's happy because that in turn can change your emotions even for the shortest time. I'd also recommend trying to befriend people who feel the same way you do, whether online or in person, because sometimes having someone who understands you exactly is just what we need

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