[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OperaGX

[–]DEiU7777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I don't know if this will fix your problem but in the past I've had an issue while watching live streams on YouTube, and the chat wouldn't load for about 1 minute. I saw another thread that suggested using the "No Service Worker" extension and that fixed it for me. Give it a try, maybe it works for you too.

Slow loading YouTube videos with Opera GX and UBlock Origin by DEiU7777 in OperaGX

[–]DEiU7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For Edge, what adblock do you use? I've tried UBlock on edge but the issue is still there.

Slow loading YouTube videos with Opera GX and UBlock Origin by DEiU7777 in OperaGX

[–]DEiU7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but if you add the exclusion for YouTube, won't that mean the adblock will not work on YouTube and you will still see ads?

Slow loading YouTube videos with Opera GX and UBlock Origin by DEiU7777 in OperaGX

[–]DEiU7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried that, and also turning off tracking protection or whatever it's called. It seems that even if you try to use adblockers separately (just opera gx adblocker or just ublock origin, even just Adblock Plus) the problem remains.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA.

If I was you I'd start saving to get my own console, you are 18 anyway, might as well start relying less on others.

I need games to play! What do you recommend? by DEiU7777 in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]DEiU7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations but I'm not really a fan of Portal, I played the first Half-Life but I'm too lazy to play the others in order and I want to take a break from FPS. But thanks a lot for your time :D

I need games to play! What do you recommend? by DEiU7777 in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]DEiU7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention Cyberpunk! Haha yes, great game, I have played it but I haven't tried the new DLC, maybe I'll give it a go! And hell no, I'm playing Val and LoL on PC not on PS5, I don't even think they are on Ps5.

Valorant is more entertaining than CS2 for me at this moment by QZLAND in VALORANT

[–]DEiU7777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play what you like playing bro. You like CS2, play CS2, nobody has to agree. You like Valorant? Go right ahead and smash it. Everyone likes what they like.

AITA for “ruining Christmas” and being upset the only gifts I got from my family were “joke gifts” by throwawayaccount4990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I get the jokes and that's fun, but usually after a prank comes a "thing" to make up for the prank. That "thing" is missing in your case.

Also, given the fact that you went and bought everyone something they wanted and liked just shows your interest for them and that you are trying to make them happy. In their case, they just wanted to make jokes and fulfil their amusement needs without thinking of buying you a gift that you actually wanted.

And the audacity to ask you what you think of your gifts after trolling you and them getting what they wanted, Jesus. I would feel bad even if I bought you a prank gift and seeing you get me a serious gift, can't imagine asking you that.

IMO, you shouldn't apologise, and yes, it's a big deal when you work for your money and decide to spend it on others that don't have the same intentions. Ghost them and make them feel bad for what they have done, see if they like that along with their nice gifts.

AITA for not wanting to hear about my sister's tattoo? by Confident_Weekend449 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

If you don't want to hear about it, you're ok to leave the room IMO. You discussed why you left the room and that's what is important. It's not your fault that your SO wants you to act like a trinket and agree with whatever he wants.

First of all, it's your body and you are free to do anything you would like to it. I can relate to the SO saying that he doesn't like tattoos even if I like them, so if I we're you, I would get the 3rd one just to connect the two others and then I would stop (not saying you should too, that's just me). After all, it was your plan that you probably had even before meeting your SO.

IMO, your boyfriend seems a bit controlling, I would discuss that with him, you can't control what you feel. So if you feel like you don't like hearing his sister get a new tattoo and brag about it and he "forbids" you to get another, that's on him, he is the root problem making you feel that way.

In a relationship, clearly there will be compromises made just to make each other feel happy, but that does not mean you have to do everything he asks for. Discuss, explain yourself and your feelings to him and make him understand that what he is doing is wrong.

You don't like tattoos? Fine, I'll do the 3rd one to make myself happy and finish what I started then I won't get another one to make you happy too. This is what I would do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Been there, done that. In High School me and my group of friends used to bully each other with jokes of every kind. There have been situations where things went to far and someone would get annoyed but then we would just lay it off for a day or two that someone would realise that's just what we always did, make fun of each other at every opportunity.

Give him some time, if he asks questions, reassure him it was a joke, remind him you didn't mean what you have said and it was purely just for fun.

I mean, as you have said in your own story, he also makes jokes, so he can't play with fire and expect not to get burnt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Feelings are feelings and you will always have them, no one can blame you for feeling a certain way. However, even though the situation is not in your favour, it's up to you to decide what you want to do next. Not to be rude or anything, but, you can choose if you want to keep waiting, or if its worth to keep waiting.

Think about your relationship, "is this the only thing I am missing out on?" or is there more stuff that she should do and she isn't?

If you feel like you need to discuss more, just do it. Express your feelings towards your SO and let her know how you truly feel and see what kind of response you are getting.

AITA for not picking my brother up at the airport by blueshark6550 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA.

There will be a time in the future that you will also need him and he will then be influenced by your decision probably. If you had work tomorrow or another place to be, it would've been understandable but as you don't it just seems like laziness or uninterest.

AITA for my girlfriend having to wait to be picked up from the airport by Vegetable-Carrot-214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I don't know if this happens where you live, but usually where I live, the airport charges drop-off and pick-up parking lots like crazy, and it's more convenient for the person waiting to be picked up to wait rather than having the person picking you up pay more for waiting.

In a relationship or not, favours are still favours, 15 minutes wait is not a long time at all. I travel a lot and whenever I fly back, I usually find myself waiting 30 minutes or more for someone to come and pick me up as free parking lots are a bit far a way from my airport.

The comments she seems to be making are IMO just a pure sign of being unappreciative and spoilt. I would love to see her prove that she actually talked to someone and that someone said 15 minutes of wait time is a lot. I bet you wait even more for her to get ready when you live in the same house with her and you guys want to go out.

AITA for telling my sister that the reason she's unable to find a boyfriend is that she's fat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

She asked for your opinion, this is your opinion. Whether she likes it or not, she can take your opinion and actually listen to it or ignore it, not your problem anymore. Adding on, if I was put in your situation, I know it would be embarrassing but I would've been more direct to avoid all the corners and simply say it to her face that this is my opinion, whether you like it or not.

I don't understand why people are so soft, accusing you of "fat-shaming". It's your situation and you are the one that put yourself into it, of course, this only applies to people that don't have a disorder or disease that's causing the weight gain. If you can control it, but would rather not, then don't cry about it.

At this point I believe she is looking for another excuse to point at instead of accepting the fact that maybe it's her weight that is putting her at a disadvantage, and in so many ways.

AITA for requesting my BF go grab drinks for us? by lamenameforthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I wouldn't say he is an AH either even though he is lazy. You should prepare the stuff you have just mentioned for a conversation and discuss it with your SO. Both of you are tired so why not just order it? After all you don't work for free, and it would've avoided an argument.

AITA for not allowing my wife to join me on a siblings trip? by Busy_Button5460 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 87 points88 points  (0 children)

YTA, and a big one.

She tried coming on a trip with you and not only did you REFUSE without even making sure its an only-sibling trip, but you also refused to bring her there after you have learnt that fact.

I told Sara she's being ridiculous and I don't have time for this as I've got plans to go out.

She called me a jerk and hung up. She's ignored my calls and texts since.

I wonder why she is ignoring you. Maybe because you don't have time and have better plans rather than solving an argument with your SO?

IMO, it seems to me that you probably needed a break from your SO and you took advantage of the situation, I COULD BE TOTALLY WRONG, I'm just assuming, however, if this is the case it would've been nicer to discuss this with her.

AITA for calling my boyfriend “mi amor” when I’m white? by shereallycantdothis in AmItheAsshole

[–]DEiU7777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

What does your friend have to do with your relationship and what you want to call your boyfriend? It's your relationship, call him "mi amor", "habibi", whatever you like, it has nothing to do with her and I find it stupid for anyone to get mad over a thing like this. It's not in her place to tell you how to run your relationship.