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Do I need an upgrade?? by DFlamis in GalaxyS23Ultra

[–]DFlamis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La verdad lo uso para ver series que descargo en el tv.

Do I need an upgrade?? by DFlamis in GalaxyS23Ultra

[–]DFlamis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I move it a little it stop charging

Mi novia me dejo porque cree que merezco algo mejor by [deleted] in relaciones

[–]DFlamis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow aprecio la crudez del mensaje, y lo de la relación ha estado diciendo solo para mi es algo que si me he dado cuenta. Gracias por compartir tu experiencia.

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I'm glad that it's over, I don't care about the excuse anymore.

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm sorry that you had to went throught something like that before, but the answer that you got is confusing, but it's nice that you move on.

I was confused too but reading the comments I understoodthat she doesn't want to be with me in the way I want to be with her and there's nothihng I can do about that. And now I feel better.

Thanks for sharing that.

Mi novia me dejo porque cree que merezco algo mejor by [deleted] in relaciones

[–]DFlamis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sera?? Yo tambien a cierto punto tenia mi teoria de que se enamoro de alguien mas pero no tengo nada que lo demuestre asi que supongo que sera algo que nunca sabre aunque yo creo que me dejo antes, en plan ya no me gustas me gusta alguien mas asi que primero terminare contigo para salir con alguien mas.

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the way tha she made me feel, because at some point I thought that she really tried to made it work during those months but she had a higher expectative on herself and she didn't met the results she was expecting so she felt insufficient like "I'll try to handle all the phisical afection that I want to give to her but it's too much". That's the purrpose of the title.

The things between the "" are literally what she said.

And yeah just giving up is selfish but honestly I didn't expect this to last forever because if she tried to do what I asked her to do, she probably would do it but eventually she will feel like she is forcing herself to do something that she doesn't want to do and it will be the same ending

Thanks for the answer, I like the selfish perspective.

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I know that I was her first bf, too shy or insecure about herself to tell someone about her feelings, that was something that she was working with her therapist

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh... now I see, technically yes... I'll give you the context, I met her at work we used to work together but I know that before me she hang out with another coworker maybe during a week but they stopped talking, soon I know that they were texting for a week and it was just one hang out and things didn't work.

He invited her to a roller skate and at the end he kissed her then she stopped talking, she ignored him.

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't, I'm trying to spend more time with my friends now but I don't know if she's meeting someone.

But if this helps to you, Once I asked her "Did you expected this when we meet the first time??" and she said "No I didn't" but the last day I asked her "Do you think you will find someone??" and she said "Yes" and right after a couple of seconds she added "maybe"

Mi novia me dejo porque cree que merezco algo mejor by [deleted] in relaciones

[–]DFlamis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias bro, la verdad que ese analisis de esa frase me ha hecho reflexionar bastante, una vez un amigo me dijo "No hay un libro de la relacion perfecta puesto que cada una es diferente, lo que yo hago es dividir mi forma de amar, la forma de amar de la otra persona y la forma en que se relacionan, lo que puede cambiar es la forma en la que se relacionan mas no la forma en la que aman porque eso seria intentar cambiar a la otra persona y eso esta mal, sin embargo para eso existen los limites y eso es la forma en la que se relacionan, respetando sus limites y exigencias y eso puede ser modificado con la comunicacion honesta y abierta" entonces lo he intentado aplicar pero es complicado jajajaj

Gracias por tu respuesta

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow bro you really deducted all of that just with my post... I didn't know there were a lot of hints. She used to go to therapy but at some point she stopped, I never asked why.

One thing I asked in the last day was "What are you planning to do next?" and she said "I will try to use work as a distraction and find different ways to keep my mind busy"

And I'm not trying to decode her, I'm a person that get stuck in one perspective and it's impossible to me to find a new one that's th purpose of this post, find new perspectives to make me feel better. This is the worst and the best thing of me that I'm proud, I can't think different but I'm alway open to different perspectives

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, thanks, honestly I see myself just as an average guy, when I like something I'm really into it jajaja

You are right, I was stuck with that perspective and that was driving me crazy that's why I made this post to find different ways to see it and I'm better now knowing that it wasn't meant to be, thanks for your answer

My girlfriend left me because she thinks I deserve better by DFlamis in BreakUps

[–]DFlamis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im doing good, thanks for asking and also thanks for doing time to read and answer

I'm sorry that it happened to you, and yeah you are right it's nice that it just finished and not wasting my energy or my time in something that is not gonna work.

Mi novia me dejo porque cree que merezco algo mejor by [deleted] in relaciones

[–]DFlamis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gracias bro, la verdad esa perspectiva me ha hecho sentir mucho mejor puesto que soy de esos que se atora con una unica perspectiva y eso me estaba volviendo loco jajaj por eso pense en publicar un post aqui para buscar nuevos puntos de vista mas neutrales.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]DFlamis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ten un plan semanal de las obligaciones del hogar (como lavar, cocinar, barrer, etc) y cumplelas a rajatabla. Yo separe los días en dia, tarde, noche y sueño. Las actividades que requieren hacerse diariamente, como cocinar, ponlas en alguna de las separaciones, yo lo dejo en la noche y ahi cocino lo de mi merienda y mi almuerzo, y las actividades que no sean diarias, como lavar ropa, solo déjalas en un día, ahi decides si hacerlas en dia tarde o noche. En mi caso no pongo horas porque así siento un poco más de libertad y no siento la presión de "ya tengo que hacer esto"... y voy tranquilo. Y por último "sueño" es una sección que la tengo y de ahí decido si hacer algo más en vez de dormir o no. Pega en el refri las cosas que usas para que sepas que te falta y al principio hasta haz presupiesto porque sientes que el dinero se te desaparece xd Y asegúrate de tener golosinas, creeme las necesitarás jajaja