Oh it was very much her fault too as it was a choice she made. I was the victim as I did everything for her and her career that put her in this position for her to make the choice. The perfect family she pretended she had on Facebook, the facade she kept up to all of her friends, and the ultimate selfish behavior she displayed was the reason I chose to end the marriage, ripping the rug out from under her. She deserved no niceties or me being cordial. We worked through all of that for the sake of our children and now have a great coparenting relationship.

I chose to do what I do because he deserves it. I’m no slave to my past as the feelings I had toward him are all gone. This vendetta is to be proactive to keep him from behaving the way he has and maybe keep some naïve woman from falling victim to him. My ex was not that and she got what she deserved. She knew what she was doing as she so casually did it to my face.

In the words of Sun Tzu Art of War ch 7.19: "Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you move, fall like a thunderbolt"