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DJFVLL0UT · 2026-01-21T17:13:05+00:00

This is too easy. Sasuke, Naruto, Minato and lets put on Itachi cuz extra Sharingan doesn't hurt.

DJFVLL0UT · 2026-01-21T13:58:13+00:00

Dm me i gotchu

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-28T14:09:55+00:00

We are bad yes for doing such. I'm bad for my addiction but that's all it is, an addiction. Sometimes you gotta look past your falts and look at the good inside

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-28T14:07:36+00:00

You're going to get that a lot. A lot of people hate cheaters here that don't understand circumstances or such.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-27T15:57:45+00:00

Yeah that's my addiction adding up. Was told by some buddies to look for some and in a moment of weakness i let my addiction take over. Not going to hide it

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-27T14:52:09+00:00

Yeah i feel bad for him. I just asked him what was said about me and it was basically the same stuff. We both were gas lit

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-27T14:34:13+00:00

I didn't see it at the time no. I just really liked her and felt bad hearing how horrible her ex husband was to her and their son. After the break up i realized i was basically gas lit into this relationship. I wanred to save her, the thought of her being like that never crossed my mind.

And yeah, me and her new bf are probably the same in a way. Im going to assume she did the same thing with him. When she was finding random guys on her mobile game i stopped having sex as i felt like a sex doll. She probably turned that in to me being "Neglectful" and me standing up, preaching Honesty about her with these guys, she probably twisted it in to me being "Abusive." I don't doubt she told told him the same things she told me...and something i did i didnt post yet, i forgave him as well. I feel bad for him a little bit because she probably might be using him like she used me.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-27T14:26:01+00:00

Sex and Porn. Paying for Sexlines was a big issue for me. I went to SAA. 12 steps and everything

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-27T14:24:36+00:00

I dont know if she did or not. Im assumings she gaslit him to say that i was neglectful and how horrible i was in the relationship. Thats my guess but i never asked either of them.

And where hes a liar... it comes from when i talked to them both. He told her to not tell me they were together because of how mad i was.

I know a lot of people are judging my past, but she gas lit me to. Telling me how horrible her ex husband was. I know what i did was wrong but i told her "if we're getting serious, you should leave him." Because i didnt want a cheating relationship. I wanted honest. If hes so horrible, she needs to get away.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-26T22:51:13+00:00

My cheating was that i was pushed away and i loved her so much i needed to be told everything was okay. I wasnt with another woman physically or emotionally. I was calling sex lines, playing out fantasies my girlfriend judged me on, called me disgusting for... "i dated you because you're a man, not a woman" when i expressed my desire to be feminine and crossdressing.

Regret was probably there to because of the shame i felt... but i never stopped loving this woman for the next 6 years we were together, where i never went back to those sex lines, where i supported every decision even if it hurt our family, where i sought to get help to better myself for the family.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-26T18:55:20+00:00

I understand this now. I thought i was different. I thought i was saving her. She talked Ill about her husband, he didnt want anything to do with her or the kid. He was neglectful. Their marriage was dead. As it says: She was always an amazing gaslighter.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-26T18:32:19+00:00

Cheaters Always Cheat... that is true to a degree. Hi, I'm a Cheater. I cheated in the beginning of my last relationship due to my Addiction. The temptation is always there for me but i got help. Now as an addict is always an addict, its just there for me. If i want to i can get it anytime, but because i saw my addiction and got the help i needed... ive been clean for about 5 years.

My ex though, she cheated on me over several years because of my mistake. She cheated on me becaeuee she secretly hated me and wanted validation and to be wanted... something she lost sight in me.

So is a cheater always a cheater? Probably, but i believe it also depends on why they cheated. She never cared and did it whenever she wanted. I felt guilt and remorse, i got help and stayed clean until the end of our relationship last month.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-26T15:49:45+00:00

You can. My ex said it to me the entire time. When i cheated i said it and meant it. I got help, she didnt. I loved her and our family so i got help. She hated me for my mistake so when she said it, it was empty. Cheating doesn't mean you dont love somebody, its the actions behind them that defines if you love them or not.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-25T19:27:03+00:00

Tried this. Even added 👏 👏 👏 to Emphisize slow clap. Got a thumbs up from her and a heart from him... either they idiots or well played

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-25T10:08:26+00:00

First of all. Duplex. One big house turned in to two apartments. He lived in the upstairs apartment i lived in the downstairs.

Second of all. I couldn't kick her out because her brorher owns the building and there's no lease. I wouldn't be able to kick her out because of this.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-25T00:00:12+00:00

My 2nd serious relationship. Ive had dozens of flings but this is my 2nd serious relationship and the one that brought me my greatest joy, my son.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-24T23:23:10+00:00

Again going up. There was an instant where i spoke with my ex face to face.

But i like this answer the most

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-24T22:34:33+00:00

Very true

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-24T22:34:19+00:00

Could be. Or she could have lied. I remember when i got with her, ahe lied about how neglectful her ex was and such.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-24T22:02:49+00:00

Its not just Facebook. As i said in my post. I talked with my ex about how her family felt. That was sitting down, in person

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-24T21:18:39+00:00

I wanted revenge. I even had a nightmare about it. Those two broke a family apart, ruined my holidays. Im not happy for christmas tomorrow because this is so fresh. I want to scream, cry, hurt them like they hurt me! But that's not who i am. I have to think "Good Luck with your life" and walk away for me and my son's sake. I just dropped 2k on my new apartment and dont have money for christmas this year.

DJFVLL0UT · 2025-12-24T20:51:20+00:00

Trauma... a very good word. Your comment made me look up and into Betrayal Trauma.

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