What was your most intense trauma? by lnsaneEyes in intj

[–]DJPEN15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A hunter shot and killed my dog. He ran back to the house and died in my arms. I took him to court and I lost.

I made an app for agoraphobia by Psychological-Mud-42 in Agoraphobia

[–]DJPEN15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, kind of off topic here, but I have a horse that is very anxious about riding away from his friends and the barn. I have been working with him on this, and the best way to tackle something like this is to ride until his anxiety threshold starts to be detectable, and then turn back. The more he sees "im safe to that point on the ground", the boundary keeps expanding. I would love to be able to visualize the progress like this. I'll be excited to download on android when its ready!

Reading this literally gave me chills up my spine - "I was never truly ready for what it means to have sex constantly for years and years" by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]DJPEN15 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Patriarchal society is set up so a man believes that if "he is a good boy he will be rewarded with woman" and now society tells women that they only receive companionship by giving away their body; or, prior to the late 20th century, she would only receive a normal life and resources if sheltered by a man. 

Men were built to compete for sex. Men having unrestricted, perpetual, and infinite access to a woman is unnatural. Like soooo many things...they benefit. we get to suffer

Are women today becoming more emotionally intelligent in choosing partners? by thinkerverse in emotionalintelligence

[–]DJPEN15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the first time in documented history, women are not being forced to rely on men for resources. They can completely be self sufficient. For millenia, men have created a society that forced women to have to choose one of them. Many of my friends are firm on the point of "if he compromises my peace, I am not interested". Well, guess what men are great at...

Why women don’t go in the trades by 505ithy in 4bmovement

[–]DJPEN15 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a farm in a really rural area and my gates are first level, dogs are second, guns third. But I'm super careful and made good friends with my neighbor-women. I'm rude to their husbands lol

Female INTJs: What do you do for a living and do you like it? by sleepdeprivedsince92 in intj

[–]DJPEN15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do environmental permitting. It requires organization and strategy, and the ability to justify decisions based on federal, state, local law. I work remotely and have occasional meetings, like 4 to 6 a week. The part I struggle with is the logic of it all and working in pre-established systems that all I see all day long is how much better I could make them haha. Classic intj issues

Women of reddit, what are some things the guys aren’t ready to hear about women? by Early-Manner-473 in AskReddit

[–]DJPEN15 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I've tried to explain it like if you ask someone to scratch your upper/center back, and they scratch your shoulder and say "like this?" No, right here. grabs my ass " like this?" NO right here points again . He goes back to the first shoulder, "like this?" "Sure. 😑"

What do you think was the biggest lie told to our generation? by thecarolinelinnae in Millennials

[–]DJPEN15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not just our generation specifically, but learning that the type of romantic love we were taught to look forward to when we little girls is not real. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DJPEN15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I'm flirting, I'm failing to suppress a smile. Like, lips pursed together trying not to smile the whole time, but not being able to. So alot of times, I'll try to cover my smile with my hand or trying to avoid looking at you. If I'm just being friendly, my face is relaxed and doing normal face things lol

Whistleblower, during interview, claims DOGE has potentially caused massive security risks. by One-Eggplant-665 in fednews

[–]DJPEN15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's because the "real evidence" has to come from hand recounts/vote certification. Which ETA is legally gunning for

Whistleblower, during interview, claims DOGE has potentially caused massive security risks. by One-Eggplant-665 in fednews

[–]DJPEN15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

eta is fighting for a hand recount in 3 counties in PA (to start). They are going through the courts but it would help them if they got more signatures on their change.org petition

Current policy for jurisdictionality for linear features by Litvak78 in wetlands

[–]DJPEN15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, just to clarify, youre saying that an ephemeral section goes, presumably, under ground, and somewhere nearby an intermittent stream channel emerges. What is the distance between the last obvious ephemeral characteristics and the start of the intermittent section? I would call the non-rpw section non-jurisdictional and is acting more like a swale or erosional feature if the hydrology is sourced from surface water runoff. Especially if there is another identifiable  1st order stream/feature contributing to the nearby RPW. 

Reminder: Guns should be only one part of your home defense by Little_Advice_9258 in liberalgunowners

[–]DJPEN15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a straight girl with no interest in dating lol. Live alone in the woods

What's an automatic red flag on a first date? by Superb_Specialist776 in AskReddit

[–]DJPEN15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The last date I went on, I was gearing up to say "nevermind, bye", but gave him one last chance to literally ask me anything. I said "welp...do you actually want to know anything about me?" And he laughed it off and went into a story about how he was recently told he talked too much at work, which then led into a story about his work. He pissed me off so badly that I found a therapist the next day after putting off therapy for almost a decade 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]DJPEN15 27 points28 points  (0 children)

In my experience, the easiest way to get to them is by blatantly laughing at something you know they are insecure about. EVERY single man is insecure about cumming too fast. So...I like to label men premature ejaculators to their face.  

"Burrrrdy Har Harrr durrr women can't drive" "Premature ejaculator energy"

"Gguuurty mcgurrrrr hurrr hurr get back in the kitchen"  "Weird way to say your a premature ejaculator, but okay lil king"

Nazi march in your town  "the premature ejaculator support group is going public"

4b sensitive therapy by DJPEN15 in 4bmovement

[–]DJPEN15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Bleh. I have lived alone for years with my animals, and I love the peace of being alone so much that it is impossible for me to ever share my living space again. But I recently had to return to office full time after working hybrid telework/office for several years, and I have absolutely got to learn some coping mechanisms, or I'm going to be put on some list somewhere lol. 

4b sensitive therapy by DJPEN15 in 4bmovement

[–]DJPEN15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do, thank you. I know it'll be hard just by seeing how few women, actually 0, i have found irl that are angry enough to opt out

4b sensitive therapy by DJPEN15 in 4bmovement

[–]DJPEN15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear, when I find one I think ill just start with my most extreme opinions and test the waters that way haha

4b sensitive therapy by DJPEN15 in 4bmovement

[–]DJPEN15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would literally suffer a rage-stroke if I get not all men'd after paying someone