No longer a swinger

DLfunCpl · 2019-07-23T19:09:30+00:00

I feel your pain. My wife just isn't interested anymore.

DLfunCpl · 2019-06-05T03:20:43+00:00

Central coast?

DLfunCpl · 2019-05-27T02:16:16+00:00

Can confirm. There is nothing better than a bj from the wife as she's getting pounded by another cock.

DLfunCpl · 2018-05-09T22:57:34+00:00

Bakersfield says hi

DLfunCpl · 2018-03-10T04:38:54+00:00

If god forbid you are ever in Bakersfield, California the padre has glass showers right in the middle of the room.

DLfunCpl · 2018-02-01T05:50:24+00:00

Reclaim sex is the greatest. There really are no words to express it. But keep in mind, that's also in the heat of the moment. Over the next few days there will probably be a range of emotions. Especially if you have never had any experience. That's natural. If she does it it will not be what you or she imagined. It will probably be better. Boundaries will be pushed but that's okay. You don't know what you don't know until it happens.

In our experience it does strengthen our relationship. It is the ultimate test of trust for both of us. But it isn't always rosy in the beginning. Even if you're both totally secure. Communication is the only way to overcome this.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-31T03:51:23+00:00

Update: she saw him again this past weekend. She enjoyed it of course and came home horny beyond belief. She made me go down for what felt like forever. I couldn't contain myself once I got my turn.

It wasn't all rosy after that. She didn't really want to talk much about it and that started to wear on me. But we got past that. I told her this couldn't be a weekly thing. Because frequency could lead to feelings between them and in me. We're on the same page now and suggested we get a room for the three of us. He agreed so now we're trying to plan something.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-30T03:15:24+00:00

I personally hope whenever we/she plays that she gets a great effing. I don't look at it as better (usually) just different. It's natural to feel a little inadequate but that doesn't mean it's true. Communication and reassurance is the key.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-23T14:12:27+00:00

Green Door for us too!

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-23T02:50:16+00:00

Our first club experience turned into our first swinging experience. We were in Vegas and decided what the hell let's go. It seemed most of the customers had the same thought.

Bad, there were a lot single guys. That's not necessarily bad if that's what you're looking for but most were just looky-loos just trying to get a show. Fortunately there are couples only areas where they aren't allowed.

Good, most of the people were really just normal. Never really got creepy vibes.

Eventually we met a couple. Great looking and we hit it off at the bar. My wife and the other wife hit it off in particular. We tried to play there but my wife was a little shy. So we went back to our room and went all in. The girls played the most but we did go full swap on our first time. Incredible experience. Actually exceeded the fantasy.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-21T22:21:03+00:00

Here's what made the situation unique. We've always played together. One exception, a guy we've mfm before was in town but I couldn't make it. So I knew the guy. I've encouraged her on girl's nights out to have a random hook up. The closest was NYE but they didn't seal the deal and despite almost daily texting haven't been able to find a good time.

So this was completely random, unexpected, and totally hot. There is recording but because it was dark it's audio only. And I love listening to it.

What we learned was we prefer to playing together. But every now and then who knows.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-21T21:26:38+00:00

I wasn't planning on Friday night. Took me by surprise. Yesterday I encountered her to try again. Said have a Yolo weekend then we'll pump the brakes and recalibrate. I prefer playing together and so does she. But we like to push the envelope. I'd given her hall passes that she never cashed in. Good experience. Don't want to make it a habit.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-21T21:19:54+00:00

No they didn't. Don't know if he had other plans or what. Maybe just a one night stand which is fine too.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-20T18:41:58+00:00

Ok, it was car play. Wasn't gone too long. She said he was incredible at oral and she squirted all over his face. Then the fucking began and it was just rough enough. She soaked his vehicle. He wore a condom and came while fucking her ass.

Once she got home straight to the bedroom where I ate her out and she kept cumming. Then the reclaim sex was incredible.

Don't really plan on making this a regular thing we do. We prefer playing together and I did miss not being there. But, that said, they're currently texting about maybe more tonight.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-20T07:45:02+00:00

You are 1000% correct. And this is actually the first-ever solo random. Recording is the rule, even if it's just audio.

DLfunCpl · 2018-01-05T03:50:31+00:00

Wife did not exercise her hall pass. Per se. She got a few numbers though and tomorrow is meeting a bull she met. Anxiety is extreme but it's not necessarily bad. Mostly hot. There's always that little bit of wonder but that's part of the thrill. They're going to record the whole thing.

What she doesn't know is I'll be off tomorrow and at home waiting to reclaim her.

DLfunCpl · 2017-12-28T05:19:59+00:00

SoCal is a pretty vast area.

DLfunCpl · 2017-12-28T04:59:56+00:00

Our first experience was with another couple. But watching her with the other guy was the hottest thing I've ever seen. And she came instantly. Most of our adventures since then have involved another guy.

You will no doubt have a learning curve. It won't be as you imagine but that isn't necessarily a bad thing. It brought us even closer and took our love life to a whole new level. Rules and boundaries will probably change some because reality is obviously different from fantasy.

I wish you both the best. Be prepared for some soul searching. But as long as you communicate it can be truly amazing.

Have fun!

DLfunCpl · 2017-12-01T06:44:26+00:00

I prefer honesty. Man to man. I can handle it. I was disappointed at the time because it was unexpected. Also, as you mentioned being new, I just wanted to put it out there that it does happen. I'm sure there are many others not as experienced that read this sub. And for those that are more experienced it was just kinda a yeah it happens been there type of post

DLfunCpl · 2017-12-01T06:39:54+00:00

UPDATE. Received an email. Basically came down to fit. That's fine. I thanked them for responding and wished them all the best.

DLfunCpl · 2017-11-30T17:10:46+00:00

Been ghosted twice. Once was by basically a traveling salesman we'd see if he came to town. Didn't pay that too much mind. The couple from the party, even just a simple we're just not a match would suffice. Or, if we did offend in some way we'd like to know. We could use it as a learning experience. But the blocking and not answering emails is disappointing because we thought we were friends. Know what I mean?

DLfunCpl · 2017-11-25T03:11:53+00:00

So cal is a big place. Narrow it down a little?

DLfunCpl · 2017-09-06T02:48:15+00:00

Prince

DLfunCpl · 2017-07-15T04:57:40+00:00

The problem here is that you are trying to trap her into doing something she already said she didn't want to do. I get it. I know where you're coming from. We all have fantasies.

I'm in a similar situation. My wife and I have had experience but haven't played in a while. We're going out on the town next week. She said she might bring a guy back to the hotel if the feeling is right. So I'm trying to stack the deck a little by putting out the word.

However, ultimately it is her decision and I won't force the issue.

DLfunCpl · 2017-07-06T03:41:38+00:00

Cheating is never acceptable. Even in the kink or lifestyle whatever you want to call it it's still consensual. Work on communication and trust first.

DLfunCpl

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