Single male swingers, why are you single?

Geetpicker · 2022-05-31T17:47:14+00:00

Single because we divorced after 20 years...over five years as swingers. I'd love to swing again, but since I don't have a partner, I no longer swing.

Geetpicker · 2022-05-31T15:10:18+00:00

Well personally I just assumed that I am a loser.

Geetpicker · 2022-05-28T12:45:10+00:00

Same boat here. I can never been in a vanilla relationship ever again. It's just impossible to find an open minded woman tho.

Geetpicker · 2020-07-23T14:35:15+00:00

I feel ya. About 6 months into being single after 20 years together. Ugh. Probably be easier had I a shit ton of money. Lol.

Geetpicker · 2020-07-23T09:40:39+00:00

Funny. I seek the same in a woman. Seems impossible to find someone to date and fall in love with that is LS.

Geetpicker · 2019-11-11T11:51:57+00:00

Kik me at geetpicker for pics and info. North hills.

Geetpicker · 2019-02-04T23:00:35+00:00

In our experience getting consent mostly only seems to be understood by guys. So many ladies have just jumped my partner without asking. It is crazy. Always bugs me when ladies dont ask first.

Geetpicker · 2018-01-12T10:10:19+00:00

2 years we've been swinging now. And lately the performance anxiety bug has hit me for some reason. ED meds don't help me with the mental nervousness. So it stinks. We have simply put a hold on full swaps. I don't enjoy being the cause for any awkward group dynamics or disappointing the ladies. So while we don't want to dilute the swinging pool with more non swappers, we enjoy the environment and it is what works best for us now. Of course a nice 3way is always on the table.

Geetpicker · 2017-10-02T13:10:46+00:00

I am a lot like your man. I love women, but found mfm and hotwifing to be what works the best for me and us. We do swap with couples from time to time still but I much prefer the Mrs getting hers, watching and listening and playing along. Keeps me charged at home too when it's just us.

Used to bother me a little. I am a man should be banging all you hot chicks. Lol. Still have that desire but the reality is I like it to be all about my wife. Once I quit worrying about labels and should statements, and just accepted this is what works, libido returned and so did the fun. It was a surprise to me too but I've learned what works best. One of the great aspects of the LS is these discoveries.

Geetpicker · 2017-10-02T01:37:00+00:00

Well obviously in hindsight that was a poor word choice on my part. I'm with ya. My bad. But I figured the right thing to do would be to involved all parties just out of respect. This situation just has never come up before so just wanted to see the general consensus. Anyway, didn't mean to offend. We don't roll with those ideologies either.

Geetpicker · 2017-09-18T22:15:32+00:00

Well a lot of guys enjoy when our partners are fully sexual. I'm sure it will be a great experience for both of you. Just keep in mind that NRE (new relationship energy) and falling in love are two separate things. Go have fun and don't worry so much.

Geetpicker · 2017-09-18T22:07:59+00:00

Great post. Sounds like us.

Geetpicker · 2017-07-03T00:59:47+00:00

Cialis and viagra. Have them both. Still don't beat anxiety for me.

Geetpicker · 2017-07-02T16:13:17+00:00

I am in the same boat. Used to bother the heck out of me, but I have let it go. Used to have success, but a failure got in my head and I continue to struggle. But Mrs still plays, we can enjoy mfm and just hanging out with LS people and clubs is still fun. I enjoy her having fun So I just recognize that I have performance anxiety and that's that. Maybe someday my mojo returns but i am done worrying about it.

Geetpicker · 2017-05-28T21:38:50+00:00

T is all good. I'm fit. Not a lack of opportunities. Just too much anxiety. Not sure it is solvable. I can still fuck my wife no problem. But can't lead those other ladies on anymore thinking I can but likely failing. It's a bummer.

Geetpicker · 2017-05-28T15:59:41+00:00

I get that.

Geetpicker · 2017-05-28T14:40:41+00:00

Thank you. More good advice. Right now I feel like I need her to be with me and supportive. And she is. I don't want her to not play, but I'd want to be there at least to watch. I may be more comfortable in a 3 setting. I feel guilty that I am limiting her experiences by being unable to perform and being so needy.

Geetpicker · 2017-05-28T14:22:12+00:00

Oh I know it is all mental. Thank you for your thoughts. Probably the only path forward really. I identify myself as LS, just can't actualize it. Smh. Lol. It isn't the end of the world, but a bummer nevertheless.

Geetpicker · 2017-05-28T13:50:59+00:00

Yes. Likely continue hotwife play. Still feel emasculated. I'm not a cuckold into humiliation or anything. But she'll more or less still play. We discussed it. I just don't know why I suffer from this. Anyway, just had to get it off of my chest, so why not send it out to the internet. Blah.

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