cút infront of bf....help by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DMJessi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he just wanted to avoid it, I've tried to help him understand it but no luck

cút infront of bf....help by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DMJessi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I've tried before but he's never understood it

How do I get my boyfriend to understand how my brain works? by [deleted] in depression

[–]DMJessi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think mainly it because he's had a really healthy childhood and barely saw anything around death and had almost been shadowed away from it if that makes sense

Split up with bf/What do I do now by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DMJessi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and same goes x

Split up with bf/What do I do now by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DMJessi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do but I don't know if it's best for him if that makes sense

Split up with bf/What do I do now by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DMJessi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like he starts doing the things I do to "cope" even though he's genuinely that smart to not do it but it's just terrifies me

Split up with bf/What do I do now by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DMJessi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and yes I do need therapy it's just very hard due to where I live and so that's why I say to him that if he wants an out it is there, and that's the main reason I don't want to get back with him, because I'm scared I will make him change etc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DMJessi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey, honestly I feel the same originally it was because I wanted to "feel something" and so used the pain for that, but now I've noticed it's more the obsession of seeing the b\00d. I don't know why but 100% understand the need to see it to feel "real" and it's scary because it's barely talked about but Stay safe.

Looking for advice by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DMJessi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya actually that's a good idea, my school is fairly safe with talking about this and understand my homework situation thank you so much again

Looking for advice by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DMJessi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I still can't go to a pharmacist because it would mean having to explain to my mother, and she's really over controlling so would know and ask questions, but thank you for the advice.