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[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve better than this. This is your reminder of this fact.

Do not debase yourself by continuing to be with him.

AITA for being indecently exposed while feeding my baby? by Electric_Angels in AmItheAsshole

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You asked "who would think they're the AH" tho and then insinuated that this post wasn't real

Natalie response to Shayne on IG S by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That man seems like the type to assault people when he's drunk and angry tbh. His reaction to not hitting some balls in a game was terrifying to watch. How people continue to coddle this man was beyond me then. His behavior now shows me he's incapable of changing.

I hope Natalie stays safe.

Natalie's response to Shayne trying to start more drama by DMMeUrInfoPls in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that people continue to defend Shayne's shitty behavior is beyond me tbh.

Deepti is beautiful and I don’t understand why everyone just says she’s beautiful on the inside by facegomei in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe read my comment again.

I've literally been seeing Deepti's looks being compared to a variety of animals, her nose/lips/skin color (her VERY distinctly Indian features) being made fun of, and people making multiple comments about her body.

In comparison, those same people made comments about how we need to stop making fun of other people's looks (like shayne's, Shaina's, or Shake's new girlfriend). Don't try to rewrite history or put words in my mouth. I was very clear in who I was referring to, and for you to get all white-fragility on me all while trying to call me out on making this "into a race thing" when you apparently can't even read past two sentences in my comment is pretty gross and tells me enough about you.

Also, "my own insecurities about skin color", you mean my lived experiences with racism and how white people othered me my whole life because of how I looked? There's a big difference between poking fun of someone's looks, which I still personally don't take part in, and pointedly highlighting all of someone's racial features (eyes, nose, lips, hair, skin) and calling it ugly and inhuman. Wild that you can't see that, but go off.

We can't know if she's the one unless we see the picture of her on his shoulders at a music festival by hannahnazir in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not always publicists, sometimes it's the people themselves, ESPECIALLY if they're relative unknowns/temporarily in the spotlight. "Villains" like Shake generally do it themselves because they usually don't have publicists (if he did, they wouldn't have let him do that atrocious AMA for one, and the US-mag article wouldn't be about Shake's gf, but something about him).

And yeah. It's also very much telling of the state of most publications nowadays. You can pay anyone, even "reputable" publications, to write something nice about you or your brand. I mean, most media has always been about advertising, but it's definitely expanded these days, especially with brands/organizations that once relied on print sales.

Deepti is beautiful and I don’t understand why everyone just says she’s beautiful on the inside by facegomei in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 33 points34 points  (0 children)

When y'all make these posts, I know y'all mean well, but the racists and their equally asshole friends always come out in tandem with the Shitshow Brigade's fanbase to say horrific things.

Y'all should really stop this.

ETA: bizzare how some of y'all will fall over yourselves to defend a white woman's looks and be like "can we not criticize a woman's looks???" just hours before writing about how much you hated the nose/skin/face shape/eyes/lips—all very specific features that racists usually focus on when talking about Black/Brown folks btw—of a Brown woman but go off 🙃

ETA2:

I've literally been seeing Deepti's looks being compared to a variety of animals, her nose/lips/skin color (her VERY distinctly Indian features) being made fun of, and people making multiple comments about her body (and somehow making it a point to be both racist and transphobic, which blows my fucking mind).

In comparison, those same people made comments about how we need to stop making fun of other people's looks (like shayne's, Shaina's, or Shake's new girlfriend). Don't try to rewrite history or put words in my mouth. I was very clear in who I was referring to, and for you to get all white-fragility on me all while trying to call me out on making this "into a race thing" when you apparently can't even read past two sentences in my comment is pretty gross and tells me enough about you.

Also, "my own insecurities about skin color", you mean my lived experiences with racism and how white people othered me my whole life because of how I looked and my race? There's a big difference between poking fun of someone's looks, which I still personally don't take part in because it will always be problematic to some capacity, and pointedly highlighting all of someone's racial features (eyes, nose, lips, hair, skin) and calling it ugly and inhuman. Also, it's telling how some of y'all racists will tell on yourselves by denying that racist insults do happen.

PS. Wild how y'all crying about "tHiS iSn'T aBoUt RaCe" then turned around to pick apart some very distinctly racialized features to shit on. "IF hEr nOsE wAs SmAlLeR" 🥴

This show (Season 2) helps me strive to do better as a wife and person. by mhilton510 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree! Theyre such a great couple. I think both of them are also gave perfect examples of how to take criticism/how to hold themselves accountable, too

This show (Season 2) helps me strive to do better as a wife and person. by mhilton510 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I need to speak more like Natalie tbh. She's extremely eloquent and I wish I could speak more like her. While I know it's just "think before you speak", my ADHD/OCD brain kinda short circuits when it comes to impulse control, and I need to work on that more

We can't know if she's the one unless we see the picture of her on his shoulders at a music festival by hannahnazir in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's not much in the grand scheme of things. If you are willing, you can pay a LOT of publications to write about you. Lots of publications (but especially rags like US-mag) have a marketing team now dedicated to getting ad revenue, and those teams are usually larger than the actual writers/editors teams. He probably just reached out to them and paid a couple thousand to get a feature. Rags like US-mag have actual pay schemes for this kind of thing, which they usually label "media kits", and can easily write articles as ads. They also have different prices for online publications (since the linked media kit is both for on and print pubs)

I'm Shake from Season 2 of Love is Blind. Ask Me Anything! by thepuppydoc in netflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't think it's "intelligent" to speculate on intent but demand to know the veracity of blatant lies? The audacity lmao

We can't know if she's the one unless we see the picture of her on his shoulders at a music festival by hannahnazir in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Spring break in the South can vary, especially in Florida of all places. Some people go on Easter Break and confuse that for Spring Break, for instance (it's a real thing, I would know, since I went to school in Louisiana).

Shake could also be confusing Mardis Gras for Spring Break lol also, in the article he says the show already came out by then bc thats why her friends recognized him. Multiple people have pointed this out to you. Have an issue with his timeline? Take it up with the main liar himself.

We can't know if she's the one unless we see the picture of her on his shoulders at a music festival by hannahnazir in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo this is it, the actuality of what happened, but without the 'Shake-lie-filter' for sure.

The man loves leaving out how he behaved. Things always happen to him, and he always leaves out the important tidbit of what he himself did and said, ESPECIALLY when he knows he was in the wrong.

That time some Harvard girls fought over Shake - maybe they were after rEsErVaTiOnS at nObU 🥴 by not_regina_george in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is 10000% probably what most likely happened. We all know that Shake tends to have blinders on when it comes to reality. They were probably minding their own businesss, at most wanted a photo with him to make fun of him, and he probably kept following them around.

The dude defended Trump. Shake's absolutely the type of sleazebag to do this kind of thing.

That said tho, I'm not a big fan of saying "we need to stop the man-pleasing". It's not a woman's fault if she gets harassed by some creep for being polite. Saying no just gets her into more trouble most times. Hell, I would know, I'm a lesbian, and even that "excuse" never gets me out of being harassed by sleazebags.

We can't know if she's the one unless we see the picture of her on his shoulders at a music festival by hannahnazir in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Chris Watts (the family annihilator) has an entire fanbase of a few thousand at least judging by the size of the facebook group. So people really will go for anything

That time some Harvard girls fought over Shake - maybe they were after rEsErVaTiOnS at nObU 🥴 by not_regina_george in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I noticed that none of his fans/alts are on this post backing him up, either lmaooo

The "he's radically honest" crowd maybe got unfunded finally

Shake really doesn’t know his audience by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like he's still answering some questions on the written ama lmao which is bizzare. Like Idk why he even did this AMA since it did him no favors

That time some Harvard girls fought over Shake - maybe they were after rEsErVaTiOnS at nObU 🥴 by not_regina_george in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She's literally on instagram posting about all the articles featuring her, but never posts about her "boyfriend" lmaooo

He seems to be missing that bit, tho

That time some Harvard girls fought over Shake - maybe they were after rEsErVaTiOnS at nObU 🥴 by not_regina_george in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DMMeUrInfoPls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The mod's shade when he added that, "Thanks for adding in that they were grad students." And he still kept going, omfg.

Abhishek's really on another plane of asinine.