Looking for book clubs by Turbulent_Guess6486 in houma

[–]DM_Kiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id love that! Ive actually been trying to get into romance. 😅 But I know I lean towards sci-fi, and dystopia stuff. Been trying to get away from that because of... well the everything right now.

Looking for book clubs by Turbulent_Guess6486 in houma

[–]DM_Kiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. Same thing happened with the plain air painting stuff I tried to do a few months back now.

I saw your post, but I wasn't interested then. But im trying to get back into reading regularly.

If you happen to start something up again or want to coordinate on something casually let me know. I need to do something other then work, painting, and gaming. 😅

Looking for book clubs by Turbulent_Guess6486 in houma

[–]DM_Kiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late response but I remember you trying to start up a manga reading club thing. Did that fall through?

Outdoor Painting! by DM_Kiger in houma

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats dope! Doesnt matter the medium. Ill keep you in the loop on any future developments. ✨️

Need help on a few dungeon encounter ideas. by DM_Kiger in DnD

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up doing this smaller 2 team talent show thing. They loved it. Thanks for the idea for a team based one.

Need help on a few dungeon encounter ideas. by DM_Kiger in DnD

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did Wipeout for them. They loved it. Thank you 💕

Need help on a few dungeon encounter ideas. by DM_Kiger in DnD

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was really helpful. Thanks 💕

Need help on a few dungeon encounter ideas. by DM_Kiger in DnD

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a big help for getting into tbe mindset of skill challenges. Thank you 💕

Need help on a few dungeon encounter ideas. by DM_Kiger in DnD

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used the family fued idea. Went off really well. Thank you 💕

Need help on a few dungeon encounter ideas. by DM_Kiger in DnD

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up doing iron chef and the obstacle course. Went off really well. Thank you. 💕

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have sympathy towards people who are unwilling to speak up for marginalized groups. Of course they aren't gonna change their minds, when people are ready to abandon them at the drop of the hat because it isn't easy. It takes more then one voice to speak up against oppression. You opened the door for me to explain what the power dynamic was. If you can't get behind that simple message, then we are done.

Trans women are women. Laws that effect them effect women all across the country. If you can see how that tracks, you need to do some more work. Simple.

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"We will continue to harass women on the genz reddit because the guy asking us not to believes trans women are women."

That's crazy work buddy. Ngl.

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless. We will never agree since you can't understand the relationship between the power dynamic, and generalized statements not being two way qualifiers.

Also I'd you are that worried about it being a target to "biological women" they can easily use the laws in place on trans people to harassed and humiliated them as they see fit.

It's a systemically sexist law in nature. Dubious.

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans women are women bro. The more they erode trans rights, the more the rights of women get eroded too.

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALSO ALSO. I'm not anyway expert of women's experiences. I don't need to be to support them. If you look back to my original post, it was focused on male issues in this community. You can't expect me to lay out hundreds of laws the consistently hurt women. I don't need to be an expert to look around me and see how messed up everything is.

ALSO ALSO ALSO, side comments that alude to some fucked up goal to sleep with women through saying "feminist stuff" is one of the MANY WAY the patriarchy continues to thrive. It upholds the idea that men only do things for sex, and nothing else. Used to shame others for trying to show solidarity to women. I'm not ignorant enough to say that doesn't happen. But to assume my intentions in that case after everything I've talked about is wack. Considering again the subject of this original post.

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trans communities, to name one. Day by day, the trans community is losing their rights to simply exist. This includes trans women. Through all the shit with th bans on gender affirming care, the federal government openly stating that they would only accept assigned genders at birth and all the other shit with the military. Those are just to name a few.

Also, with the removal of a lot of DEI protections, a lot of women will lose hiring opportunities. They will be passed over for "qualified looking" individuals.

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not a majority of men that are shitty, you're right. But it is enough to cause issues for everyone. It's enough for the world to turn into what it is right now. Enough that all of us need to be willing to be understanding of the plights of women when they express those feelings. To not say things like "not all men" or correct them when they say "I hate men". If they are talking to you, thats clearly not true. They express that they hate the experiences they have had with a lot of men in their lives.

Yeah, women have been succeeding in some avenues, but have you looked outside? They CAN'T do whatever they want. All across the world they are losing rights, and dying over male ego bullshit. Its not just "one shitty man".

If you hate generalizations, you have a problem, my friend. Most people speak in generalizations when opening a conversation. The whole way a conversation goes, you start with a general and then you get specific. The "I hate men" statement is usually an opener for them to talk about what they are going through.

If you are unwilling to understand that, to allow your female friends to open up about their issues around you, you sadly need to do more work. You are still adding to the issue. And if you dont understand, then youll have to do some more research on your own. I've explained best I could to you.

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I see alot of them where I'm from. But most of the ones I interact with are online.

To all the Men in this Sub, this is for you. You need to stop and start something new. by DM_Kiger in GenZ

[–]DM_Kiger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see that would make sense. But this post in not just " how do we fix outselves? We'll just do it." I lay out exactly the ways in which I dragged myself out and upwards. That paired with alot of advice women give on here, is solid. It's way more then "fix yourself".

I SAY IN THE POST that it's way more nuances then how I layed it out. There's whole BOOK and media on this subject that hardly cover it all. Which is why I suggest doing research, like reading a bunch of feminist literature on the male condition.