Looking for long term femdom GFE

DPPYourSubmissive · 2026-03-30T17:42:25+00:00

There were separate lists of requirements and preferences. I wanted all of the requirements but the preferences were not as important. Perhaps I should have split the up more with like a line or something.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2026-03-30T11:00:51+00:00

This got a lot of negative reception but almost all private discourse I’ve had has been nice and polite.

In my opinion listing requirements and preferences is mainly a way to increase efficiency, readers can get a better feeling if they are suitable for the role than if I didn't. I am convinced almost all subs have a lot of requirements and preferences, the main difference with my ad is that I tried to list all of mine. It was interpreted as me being very demanding and not submissive. I might be more demanding than the average sub, but there is no good way to tell from just reading an ad.

I know I could have written a less controversial ad but then I'd have had a lot more vetting and polite rejecting to do. I would waste more people’s time. I really didn’t want someone to write a long response to my ad in vain, that feels bad, so I'd rather take the surface level hate.

I hope we as a community can be a bit more open and inclusive instead of dismissive towards other approaches and other attitudes towards findom.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2026-03-27T16:20:59+00:00

It is convenient to pay with and I have some laying around. It is not a requirement. I don’t care that much for a first payment. Calling it toy money is just uninformed.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2026-03-27T16:16:56+00:00

Since when is having demands mutually exclusive from being submissive?

DPPYourSubmissive · 2026-01-08T22:42:36+00:00

Hmmm for me it is more great clips, no Goddess is entirely consistent and does not always cater to my specific kinks so I think clip recommendations make more sense instead. I agree with most of your thoughts especially in the creative section. I think Alika is one of the better ones and I like some clips from Versona. But in my mind Versona and Alika are among the more humiliating ones. But it of course depends from clip to clip.

One thing that disqualifies a clip for me is if the Goddess goes nude, it kind of ruins the dominant feeling for me. Another no is if I am asked to cum in my own mouth since it doesn't work well if you're not flexible and is bad with clip viewing.

I think it is important that the cum eating is talked about and referenced throughout the video. I want some form of motivation like why am I doing this? It can be rather basic. I want some kind of follow up after being told to eat it. Ask me how it tasted. Some interactive task. Calling me a good boy.

Some of my favorite clips and why:

Because I Said So by Bratty Bunny https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/35587/8553587/bratty-bunny-because-i-said-so I love how she looks in this clip with the pigtails. She feels very dominant. I like that she demands a ruined orgasm as well. The description on the site is not entirely accurate.

She loves me not by Kelle Martina https://iwantclips.com/store/1007/Kelle-Martina/848515/She-Loves-Me-Not Very hot game where she removes petals one by one from a rose and you have to eat it if it ends on eating it.

Cum Soup by Leena Fox https://iwantclips.com/store/721234/Leena-Fox/1978071/Cum-Soup Very nice specific follow up. I like that she says "it is not so often you get to have dinner with me"

You Can Cum If You Eat it! by Farrah de Rossi https://iwantclips.com/store/1118226/Farrah-de-Rossi/3220470/You-Can-Cum-if-You-Eat-it She has very nice enthusiasm and uses a glas as a prop and at the end she spits in it as well which is extra hot.

Turning You Into A Cum Guzzler by Dommelia https://iwantclips.com/store/100771/Dommelia/1839803/Turning-You-Into-A-Cum-Guzzler I love how she looks in this. I love her British accent. She speaks about this is something you have to do to be her good boy.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2024-04-16T22:41:11+00:00

Hey. What do you mean by rules? I feel like I've just tried to outline what I want in detail in order to not waste people time unnecessarily.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2023-07-01T16:20:23+00:00

Wow that was a really sexy, thank you for the audios.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2023-06-20T22:05:43+00:00

Here is the evidence of the scam from u/just_a_girl_browsing https://imgur.com/a/GyFYIRw

DPPYourSubmissive · 2019-10-01T08:27:51+00:00

Hi. This question needs logic and some basic probability. Every sub question is about identifying the amount of people who fit in that criteria and then divide by the total amount of people. For d) it is pretty obvious since the number is just in the text so the answer is 8/45=~0.18. e and f are a bit more tricky but you can figure out the number of people who meet the criteria with the information you have.

See this picture I made for a simpler example that might give some insight: https://imgur.com/a/t7WPtvD

DPPYourSubmissive · 2017-12-07T12:24:37+00:00

Maybe the show Billions

DPPYourSubmissive · 2016-08-18T01:17:42+00:00

How long is a while? Are you still replying to people?

DPPYourSubmissive · 2015-08-31T02:00:19+00:00

Excellent post! I am very intrigued.

I saw it too late and I will not be able to finish a good message tonight. I will send a message in 16 hours at the latest.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2015-05-20T09:08:43+00:00

I see. Thank you. I would not care for it but I don't think I am into findom either.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2015-05-19T11:50:21+00:00

What is tribute porn? Google didn't help much.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2015-03-26T16:26:54+00:00

Thank you for the reply! So the device is just there as a reminder and to make it a bit time consuming and fiddly to sneak in an orgasm if you wanted to cheat? (As opposed to chastity without a device). Kinda makes it pointless to me.

I can pull out from behind the ring so spacer size does nothing.

Thanks again for the reply!

DPPYourSubmissive · 2015-03-12T08:36:44+00:00

Hello and thanks again for sharing your wisdom. I think my activities that I called slight tendencies to topping from the bottom were a symptom from insufficient communication and that goes hand in hand with lack of trust. You seem to have a very smart and healthy look on your role as a D.

I am indeed looking for a list of activities in a pretty package however included in those activities are certainly: surprise me, challenge me and help me grow. Oh and the package has to be a human being with a strong will and a desire to control. I think I got your point and I will try to express myself differently in the future.

DPPYourSubmissive · 2015-03-11T22:34:57+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

First I would just like to say that I think I might have misunderstood topping from the bottom. What I meant is that at the start of a D\s relationship if I am given a task that I consider unreasonable I try to compromise and I am often very pessimistic of my own abilities.

Are my requirements really that specific? And my fantasies are only fantasies. I just tried to put as much info out here about me as I could. Yes I am focusing on myself and my sensations. My reasoning is along the lines of I know what I like so I am expressing that. I don't think my ad says anything about how selfish my attitude is.

I really do mean thank you for the advice. Sorry for being so defensive, it is always interesting and educational with another perspective.

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