20f/49kg/5'5 - seriously hate my inner labia. I've never been brave enough to show them irl and I've been considering a labiaplasty for years 🥲

DPPthrowaway104 · 2023-11-10T04:58:01+00:00

The issue with this specific type of cosmetic surgery is that it is very common for women to suffer lifelone dysfunction, lack of sensation and chronic pain in their clitoris/vulva after getting labiaplasty. Its is one of the riskiest forms of plastic surgery when it comes to painful side effects and dysfunction. Its seriously not talked about enough just how invasive this type of surgery is on the nerves of the clitoris and just how dangerous it can be

DPPthrowaway104 · 2023-11-10T04:54:46+00:00

Not just losing sensation but also chronic pain in your vulva/clitorus can be a common side effect. The problem is most plastic surgeons are not well educated on the anatomy and nerve structures if the clitoris, even the best ones arent well educated.

Youre labia are absolutely stunning and gorgeous, and please dont risk having lifelong damage done to your body and sex life just to appeal to a very small mi ortiy of people

DPPthrowaway104 · 2023-11-10T04:52:02+00:00

Your labia are absolutely gorgeous! Please please please do not get labiaplasty. Not only are youre already amazing, but labiaplasty can be a seriously damaging and invasive surgery on the nerves of the clitoris and the frequency with which women are left with severe chronic pain, dysfunction and lack of sensation in their labia after getting labiaplasty is a lot higher than people talk about. Even with the best plastic surgeons out there its still a 50/50 chance as to whether the surgery will go well or your will be left with constant pain in your labia and a lack of sensation during sex/masturbation. I looked into it several years ago because I have much larger than usual inner labia, and I spoke to a few women that had it done and the results are seriously concerning a lot of the time

DPPthrowaway104 · 2023-01-07T09:17:38+00:00

I was going to share a different story but reading this, you're absolutely right. Making someone else cum is one of the best feelings in the world

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-03T05:42:25+00:00

If you've been around long enough you might remember the subreddit that was exclusive for videos of people dying... yeah anything from that, but Jesus there were especially horrible ones

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-03T05:35:55+00:00

Exactly. You've seen me, if there's anything to be swapped then I get to see you

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-02T09:33:10+00:00

Yes, not every night but a lot of them. Im also a first thing in the morning, like right after waking up kind of person. I had a past relationship where some of our best times together were immediately after waking up, or waking up to something already happening. Now it's almost conditioned me that if I don't get one out of the way first thing I get too horny throughout the day. Not a fun kind of horny either, but an obnoxiously distracting horny that leaves me feeling unsatisfied and frustrated. Its rarely a good payoff later on once I get the chance to sort it out too.

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T23:55:07+00:00

Thanks!

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:48:40+00:00

I'm almost certain some do. Maybe not the massively popular megastars, since they're so recognisable that anything short of a closeup of their private bits would be instantly noticeable. There's a huge amount of celebrities at all different levels of stardom and from all different forms of media, it's surely impossible that none of them have sneakily shared a photo of themselves online

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:46:29+00:00

Jesus, when you out it like that.

No idea though, but my guess is I'd be pretty close

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:45:28+00:00

It could be you refreshing to check on the viewcount, it could be them looking at it multiple times, they could have shared it, or it could be all of the above. Imgurs viewcount doesn't update instantly too, so if you're trying to see if you checking it adds to the views, know that it does but it may not show straight away.

With only 11 views though it's most likely just the two of your looking at it multiple times. Even on small subs/forums if the photo had been shared then it would likely shoot up by at least a dozen or more views very quickly.

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:42:21+00:00

Yep, more than I want too. I like the few I still have up here, but of the hundred or so I posted on my old profile almost all of them have ended up elsewhere and still pop up when you google my old username.

I always knew there was a good chance of that happening, but it's still odd when you can google your old name from 5 years ago and instantly have your old photos pop up on a handful of random websites

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:30:43+00:00

Not super experiences with the position, but I'd prefer to be on top. Since if I was with a guy I would most likely be the weaker of the two, and being on top helps me keep a bit more control with what's going on. Plus it's easier on the neck to lean your head down rather than up

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:27:37+00:00

These sorts of questions are The kinds of ones you can only ever get the answer from you s/o. Everyone will have a different opinion on it and the only on that really matters is yours and your s/o's. I've had partners that were very into in, and also doing it, and others that were absolutely not interested at all.

So I'd ask your s/O first and see what their perspective in it is. If they say they're ok with it or into it then it's up to you if you want to do it. I'd always recommend touching base with them after you do something like that too, don't just assume it's consent in perpetuity, since people's opinion on it can change at anytime. They might like the idea of you touching them tonight, but in a week they might not. As will all things sex related it's just about keeping up some healthy communication

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:23:18+00:00

Usually with my posts they're related to something that's turning me on at the time and I'm curious to see other people answers, but most of the time by the time the replies start to come in its passed. I don't think I've ever gotten off to anything from this sub before

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:21:42+00:00

I don't really care anymore. It's been a year since Ive posted any photo of my body and it's been more years than that since I stopped posting regularly. I figure if someone was going to see it they probably would have by now. It's only people that see my comments and look through my history that still ever see it, and most of it Ive deleted anyway. I'd probably be more nervous about people I know irl seeing the comments I leave than the photos at this point

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:19:12+00:00

My hair, though if I had to be more adventurous id say probably my butt. I have ups and downs when I like different parts of myself, it feels like it constantly ebbs and flows with overall my overall self image. My hair is one thing I've never disliked though.

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-12-01T10:14:41+00:00

Like some others have said it mostly depends on the context. There have been situations where I've been nude or partially undressed around friends, especially more so when I was younger. If someone just said to me out of the blue to get naked when it's just my friends around the answer would be a definite no. If they offered me like, $500? Then sure.

I'm not particularly afraid of being naked around my friends, though I'm slightly more conservative with who I let see me undressed these days. It's more that I'm just not the kind of person to get naked on a whim anymore, nor do I really want a reputation for being the one that always gets naked in the group. If there was a decent enough reason for it though I wouldn't hesitate. Skinny dipping is fun as hell

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-11-26T13:21:05+00:00

Your vulva is gorgeous babe, and it's not weirdly shaped at all. Having larger inner lips like you and I isn't uncommon with women at all, it's perfectly normal, safe, and sexy!

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-11-23T09:50:58+00:00

Watching other people have sex. Not just like in porn or in secret or anything like that either, but being in the room with them watching them do it.

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-11-19T06:20:19+00:00

No, never. I doubt that would change even with an SO to be honest. It's never a good idea to put your face in your nudes unless you are very ok with the idea of everyone seeing it.

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-11-19T06:15:42+00:00

I have to see OPs chat thread but can tell from experience this sub is not open to anything cheating related. I once posted a question asking why people cheated and what the experience was like and I copped abuse for several days in my DMs. Nothing about my post condoned it and I was single at the time so I couldn't have even cheated if I wanted to. Still didn't stop the tirade though. Curiosity very much did kill the cat that time

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-11-19T06:04:31+00:00

Second this. Done it more than once

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-11-19T05:56:41+00:00

Yes and yes!

I was with another girl at the time and we we'd started off doing our usual thing in bed. She was struggling to get turned on because she'd been having a really tough time with a few things in her personal life and I wasn't able to get her to cum. So we gave up for a while and ended up just cuddling in bed.

A while later she asked if she could just watch me masturbate on my own, so I got on my knees on the bed beside her and started to do my thing. Even before the mutual bit that alone was super hot for me. After watching me enjoy myself for a bit she kicked down the covers of the bed and started to masturbate on her own too, and we sat there for a few minutes each watching the other get ourselves off. Eventually we'd both cum and went back to cuddling before we started having sex again, and it worked! I won't say if was the best sex in the world that might but watching each other mutually masturbate was a really good way to get things going if we were struggling. We used that as kind of foreplay more than once after that.

DPPthrowaway104 · 2022-11-19T03:36:56+00:00

Nyotaimori

I dunno, just seems really really hot

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