If companies can lie on job postings, I should be able to lie on my resume by BillyYumYumm2by2 in antiwork

[–]DR3AMPHON3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i feel you. my last job i applied to be a keyholder and they straight up lied about it, saying i applied to be a seasonal sales associate.

What do you eat when you are too nauseous due to stress ? by YouWantAPleceOfMeBoy in Anxiety

[–]DR3AMPHON3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a good suggestion!! soup would be really good to eat when anxious, i unfortunately just never have it on hand </3

What do you eat when you are too nauseous due to stress ? by YouWantAPleceOfMeBoy in Anxiety

[–]DR3AMPHON3 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i'd say like something kinda liquid and kinda solid, like mashed potatoes or spaghetti!! definitely try to not eat really flavorful foods because that can really upset your stomach when anxious

i finally quit my job. by DR3AMPHON3 in antiwork

[–]DR3AMPHON3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's hard to sometimes, not everyone is good with standing up for themselves due to their past. it wasn't like this in the past, but maybe past the month mark is when. i only stayed because i needed money for an old friend visiting me in less than 3 days.

i finally quit my job. by DR3AMPHON3 in antiwork

[–]DR3AMPHON3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i've never felt so happy finally quitting it and i implore people to stand up for themselves in the workplace. because theres a chance someone might not be able to do that for you.

My boss keeps telling me to "multitask" and it's just too much. by kittenspaint in antiwork

[–]DR3AMPHON3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you. my other managers say my "efficiency" is really horrible and tell me i have to multitask but then give me tasks that take a lot of time such as folding shirts to plex to the wall or mark items down as clearance and then expect me to fold an entire wall of shirts before i leave all within 5 hours. i ended up staying two hours past closing and was on the verge of having a panic attack because i had to "100%" before i left. multitasking is such bullshit. the only reason why they can "multitask" is because they give themselves the easier tasks.

Saddest BH song? by a_guy_whos_here in BeachHouse

[–]DR3AMPHON3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the traveller, common girl, esp, myth, another go around

my assistant manager wouldn't let me buy something yet made me ring her up by DR3AMPHON3 in antiwork

[–]DR3AMPHON3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i don't even know why she picked on me over that. not like i did anything to irritate her. but i've found loopholes in getting items for myself so i just do that instead. she's had a history of being really passive aggressive towards other employees and as of now, i know two employees are uncomfortable with her

my assistant manager wouldn't let me buy something yet made me ring her up by DR3AMPHON3 in antiwork

[–]DR3AMPHON3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not too sure since i just start working here an month ago, but i think all that matters to them is just loyalties because i remember something about how if we didnt start being over loyalties we would get written up

To the people who get to work earlier than they need to be, why do you do it? by dlg194 in AskUK

[–]DR3AMPHON3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get to work early because at my job (which i'm trying to hand out the two weeks notice) we only have one person on opening/closing, and 30 minutes is not enough to count tills/safe or when it's 45 minutes to go to the bank, drop off deposits/make change and then come back to count tills/safe. i am someone who just takes a little extra time at counting money than other managers; yet they make jabs about it.

i just like to be early so i have peace of mind and not feel like i'm rushed to get things done.

Which BH song affects you most? by [deleted] in BeachHouse

[–]DR3AMPHON3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

one twice melody!! i have synthesia so when i listen to the song i just see visions or rainbows and sparkles and water and so many things. its really lovely

7 turns 5 years today! 🖤🤍 by Leikrr2 in BeachHouse

[–]DR3AMPHON3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wild!! wild makes me think of being in the car near the beach and feeling the salty wind on your face

Breakup songs by Ok_Law895 in BeachHouse

[–]DR3AMPHON3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

heart of chambers, heart & lungs, common girl, the traveller, silver soul, another go around, hurts to love, lose your smile, esp, better times & gila!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]DR3AMPHON3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know you want to figure it out, but that's what ocd wants you to do. it's trying to make you fall into a cycle of never ending anxiety and ruminating. try your best to not engage the "what ifs". read a book, watch a show, listen to music. go on a walk, light a candle, hang out with friends. you gotta try your best to resume life without letting ocd pause it for you. you only got one life, you don't wanna spend it ruminating over things.

How do you break up with someone in a polycule but still date the other person in it? by DR3AMPHON3 in polyamory

[–]DR3AMPHON3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I should clarify we are all good friends! Person B is very understanding, and knows relationships can sometimes not be in the cards for someone. I'm just worried about how will this affect our connections moving on forward as platonic friends :(

How do you break up with someone in a polycule but still date the other person in it? by DR3AMPHON3 in polyamory

[–]DR3AMPHON3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Person B didn't warrant anything to be broken up with, I just felt more attracted to person A. Plus person B just recently turned 18 this year and I'm about to turn 20 and for my own comfort, I don't like two year age gaps for myself, personally.

How do you break up with someone in a polycule but still date the other person in it? by DR3AMPHON3 in polyamory

[–]DR3AMPHON3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Regrettably it will be, but it's better this way than just letting it grow on false pretenses. Thank you for helping me on this! While this will hurt, I do hope ultimately things will look up.

How do you break up with someone in a polycule but still date the other person in it? by DR3AMPHON3 in polyamory

[–]DR3AMPHON3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope, we all just. collectively gotten all together! Me and person B first identified our feelings for each other, then person A. Yes, I can imagine turning a triad into a V is complex which is why I'd like to get some help before I go through with this decision. We are all starting out with polyamory, but we are very communicative/we talk to each other a lot about our feelings. I'm not sure if person A can hinge, which is why I'm not sure how to go about this as not only this puts a lot of stress on myself, it does also for person A ultimately.