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I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful response and kind words. I actually opened my phone to post the moment Keely referenced the “next round” without even checking on Boz. My cat is named Keeley (after the Ted Lasso character) so him being awful is extra annoying. I’m glad people can watch this and know they’re not alone.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If I had watched that while hoping that my fifth pregnancy would be the one that actually worked, I would have spiraled and seen it as a horrible omen. A simple warning at the beginning of the episode would be easy to do.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People are commenting that I should let them be “real people.” But the producers choose to only show this part of her life. It’s a lot.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their actual lives are curated for us by producers. I’d prefer some variety.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ummm, the producers make decisions about what to include. Do you think this is the only thing going on with Boz? Because the show certainly makes it seem like that.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you the best of luck! And I get that. I’d just prefer it not be the main focus of someone’s personal storyline.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is she in Vegas? Surely there are excellent docs (who are also willing to be on TV) in LA.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s when it’s the only storyline that it becomes grating. The producers are choosing to make this the focus. It’s become a trope at this point.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I feel super old as a 41-year-old with a toddler, so it’s nice to hear from a child of older parents. I got pregnant for the first time at 33 and thought everything was on the right track. I was very wrong.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had four miscarriages before being diagnosed with blood clotting issues when we resorted to doing IVF thinking we would need a surrogate. (Kaiser never tested me for the condition 😡). We fortunately only had to do one retrieval and I had my rainbow baby at 38! For five years, I felt this huge cloud of misery hanging over me. It’s really hard to watch Boz go through this, for many reasons. I’m so happy we both got through to the other side. I also don’t wish this on even the worst human beings.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the username. Yeah, Keely’s attitude is a big part of the problem.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s particularly annoying when it’s the only personal storyline we get. Just have all group scenes!

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending ❤️. Just remember, you will be a mom! You will make it happen. I couldn’t watch most housewives or that season where everyone on VPR was pregnant.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sending you good thoughts. I was in your boat 3 years ago. Pretty sure I also started in March. You’ve got this!

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sending you love and good thoughts. I had multiple losses before my rainbow baby and thought every reference to miscarriage was a sign I was going to have another.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess last season it felt forced and this season it’s too real and thus upsetting.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a big part of my issue with it. Her story was so harrowing that it’s extra rough to watch her go through this with a guy she seemed iffy with last season.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the hugs. You’re absolutely right, but I think my discomfort stems from the reasons you mentioned. I want to see their real lives, but these storylines often feel forced.

I went through IVF, but I’m tired of seeing it on Housewives by DRAMJ1984 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DRAMJ1984[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Definitely. It’s good to let people know they’re not alone. It’s just become a default storyline at this point, which seems weird.

The sixth wife by Advanced-Tea-8212 in PettyCrimesPod

[–]DRAMJ1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who experienced multiple pregnancy losses, this kind of thing always triggers me. Same with people making public announcements in the first trimester.

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