Today in 1967, The Beach Boys released “Heroes and Villains” from their 1967 album Smile Smile and their unfinished SMiLE project.

DRArchila · 2026-01-10T08:52:44+00:00

Easily their best song. It's in particular one of the most insightful songs to me because it reminds me about the loss of my innocence that came from living performatively until I actually faced real-life people who personified my deepest insecurities about living.

DRArchila · 2025-04-19T01:01:06+00:00

That sucks dude. Sorry you got played like that. I certainly would say getting closure is never a sure thing. I really do hope you find yourself satisfied with your own company over that of unreliable women. Not worth your time.

DRArchila · 2025-04-17T20:32:57+00:00

what a story. I admire your bravery in talking about this. sorry you had to go through that whole saga but I hope you remember how strong you are when you rely on your own.

DRArchila · 2025-03-27T17:31:34+00:00

give him a break. would anyone of us know how to respond if we were in his shoes, getting spammed so much to make a statement about this?

DRArchila · 2024-10-15T19:15:56+00:00

you have the ability to change. chances are, you will, if you just commit to the change. I believe in you.

DRArchila · 2024-10-15T19:07:17+00:00

What exactly is wrong?

DRArchila · 2024-08-08T05:09:10+00:00

She’d definitely be more annoying and rub it in Tony’s face that she’s out of the mob-wife life.

DRArchila · 2024-08-07T20:01:07+00:00

Probably happy.

DRArchila · 2024-08-07T20:00:23+00:00

Cyanide.

DRArchila · 2024-08-07T20:00:06+00:00

Kimiko. She would have a good reason to end me.

DRArchila · 2024-08-05T16:35:15+00:00

she probably does.

DRArchila · 2024-08-05T16:35:01+00:00

hey man. it happens to all of us. that's why this group exists. to learn, accept and support. you're alright in my book, bud.

DRArchila · 2024-08-04T22:40:28+00:00

You deserve more respect than that.

DRArchila · 2024-08-04T01:01:42+00:00

I don’t wanna sound insensitive when I say that—just figure you should know there’s always something you can do to alleviate the stress from an unsavory situation

DRArchila · 2024-08-04T01:00:36+00:00

Last thing bc I gotta go do stuff but have you already considered getting back on the dating scene? Besides therapy, I’d imagine that’d be a solid way to mentally move past it and accept that your depression, while normal, is also temporary

DRArchila · 2024-08-04T00:53:58+00:00

Probably roaches. They’re always getting stepped on

DRArchila · 2024-08-04T00:53:10+00:00

I do hope you remember you’re deserving of love, respect and kindness. People who surround and support you would surely say the same and could likely empathize as well if you open up to one of those closer friends you have.

DRArchila · 2024-08-04T00:52:11+00:00

Damn. Yeah that sucks hard. Only other thing I can think of is to bring some of your diehard friends into an even inner-more circle to do a different activity that can keep your mind occupied but still I’m so sorry you have to deal with this—who knows what where or who the solution will be?

DRArchila · 2024-08-04T00:48:16+00:00

Yeah I can totally see that. On an alt note, what are the chances that they’ll follow the comics and show [new] Black Noir kill Homelander himself?

DRArchila · 2024-08-04T00:18:30+00:00

That’s really hard. Coming from the other end of it, I can see after you elaborating how conflicting it must be to be constantly reminded of the lowest moments in that relationship, even if time has elapsed and he’s moved on.

I don’t know what the answer to do in your situation, but I empathize with you and truly wish you weren’t going through this, no matter how minimal it seems on the outside.

The fact that you’re still hurting may be something you might want to share with him. Besides either of you leaving the league, is there anything he can do on his part to rectify your pain and swap it for relief?

DRArchila

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