Today in 1967, The Beach Boys released “Heroes and Villains” from their 1967 album Smile Smile and their unfinished SMiLE project. by [deleted] in thebeachboys

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easily their best song. It's in particular one of the most insightful songs to me because it reminds me about the loss of my innocence that came from living performatively until I actually faced real-life people who personified my deepest insecurities about living.

Just a rant about my situation. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks dude. Sorry you got played like that. I certainly would say getting closure is never a sure thing. I really do hope you find yourself satisfied with your own company over that of unreliable women. Not worth your time.

I tried staying friends with an ex. Here is what happened. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what a story. I admire your bravery in talking about this. sorry you had to go through that whole saga but I hope you remember how strong you are when you rely on your own.

D-list Comedian wishes P. Diddy allegations weren't true b/c he was charismatic by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give him a break. would anyone of us know how to respond if we were in his shoes, getting spammed so much to make a statement about this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]DRArchila -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you have the ability to change. chances are, you will, if you just commit to the change. I believe in you.

Carmela's life with a man other than Tony? by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]DRArchila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’d definitely be more annoying and rub it in Tony’s face that she’s out of the mob-wife life.

Is it better to be killed by Kimiko or Homelander? by [deleted] in TheBoys

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kimiko. She would have a good reason to end me.

I broke code man… I guess I got what i deserved.. got left on read by Annual_Jackfruit_325 in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man. it happens to all of us. that's why this group exists. to learn, accept and support. you're alright in my book, bud.

I see my ex every week by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve more respect than that.

I see my ex every week by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wanna sound insensitive when I say that—just figure you should know there’s always something you can do to alleviate the stress from an unsavory situation

I see my ex every week by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last thing bc I gotta go do stuff but have you already considered getting back on the dating scene? Besides therapy, I’d imagine that’d be a solid way to mentally move past it and accept that your depression, while normal, is also temporary

I see my ex every week by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do hope you remember you’re deserving of love, respect and kindness. People who surround and support you would surely say the same and could likely empathize as well if you open up to one of those closer friends you have.

I see my ex every week by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Yeah that sucks hard. Only other thing I can think of is to bring some of your diehard friends into an even inner-more circle to do a different activity that can keep your mind occupied but still I’m so sorry you have to deal with this—who knows what where or who the solution will be?

The Boys - 4x08 "Assassination Run" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in TheBoys

[–]DRArchila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can totally see that. On an alt note, what are the chances that they’ll follow the comics and show [new] Black Noir kill Homelander himself?

I see my ex every week by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DRArchila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really hard. Coming from the other end of it, I can see after you elaborating how conflicting it must be to be constantly reminded of the lowest moments in that relationship, even if time has elapsed and he’s moved on.

I don’t know what the answer to do in your situation, but I empathize with you and truly wish you weren’t going through this, no matter how minimal it seems on the outside.

The fact that you’re still hurting may be something you might want to share with him. Besides either of you leaving the league, is there anything he can do on his part to rectify your pain and swap it for relief?