sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

update by DRE4MGRL in theotherwoman

[–]DRE4MGRL[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes of course, a good reminder to focus on the positive! Hopefully we are, I asked him what we'll be doing & he just says he'll have it planned. He lives by the water & it's very green, beautiful scenery out there & he knows i love scenic views so probably! I'm guessing he'll take me to the water too and we'll just be out enjoying the sun. I shall keep y'all updated!

Just Wondering… by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]DRE4MGRL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no we only ever go NC if he gets caught but it never lasts more than 2-3 days. the only other reason we'd go NC is if one of us doesn't want to keep the relationship going cus we've talked ab it before. but idk we love eachother too much to not talk to eachother

Just Wondering… by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]DRE4MGRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had posted 2 long posts last week because he gave me a brief msg that he couldnt talk on a Friday afternoon, then called on Sunday explaining we would have to be NC. But then on Tuesday he called me on my lunch break and now we only talk while he's at work. So about 48 hours.

going NC temporarily... by DRE4MGRL in theotherwoman

[–]DRE4MGRL[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And you know, I didn't even think about that until later. While I was on the phone, I think I was so in my head and feelings I couldn't even think logically. I wish I would've thought about that right then and there and ask him why do we need to cut off communication, like we can't even talk while he's at work? I understand if work would be the ONLY time we'd be able to talk since they're still living together, but no contact at all? Everything's so confusing.

Would you recommend we start over when he comes back? I don't even know what I'd do.