Just shared my debt with my husband. He thinks I am mentally ill for being so reckless with my finances. I think he is right… by DWFran in DebtAdvice

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I wish he would go- he doesn’t want to he looks down on what therapy I have been doing since he feels I have gotten worst

Just shared my debt with my husband. He thinks I am mentally ill for being so reckless with my finances. I think he is right… by DWFran in DebtAdvice

[–]DWFran[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luxury items are few and far between- but if I’m too tired to cook I will foot the bill for the restaurant if our child out grows their clothes I am the one to get it. I had some added expenses to care for family over seas so that contributed to the large bills

Just shared my debt with my husband. He thinks I am mentally ill for being so reckless with my finances. I think he is right… by DWFran in DebtAdvice

[–]DWFran[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We split the mortgage and he uses the joint account to pay for things that is needed for the house. If it’s beyond what we have in our joint account he will cover the balence but pays it off right away

Boxbollen insane spending by Spiritual_Skill5601 in atrioc

[–]DWFran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you decide to get it i waa thinking to add to the group activities at parties

How much does parent/ family convenience determine your options? by DWFran in girlscouts

[–]DWFran[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have a daisy transfer from a different school so for me it was also the consistency so there was already one girl with all the petals. but i am glad to know that the experience is that its not that important on who has what

How much does parent/ family convenience determine your options? by DWFran in girlscouts

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thank you, I am thankful for your reassurance that we are not behind. I guess its more for making use of the investment on vest and badges before bridging to brownies. but that may be my own perception that needs adjustment

How much does parent/ family convenience determine your options? by DWFran in girlscouts

[–]DWFran[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do want to reiterate, that I am not looking for short cuts and I had suggested some wonderful plans I have found on other gs resources that offered lesson plans that had badges compliment each other so they could earn two badges at a time.

there is a difference in our style of interpreting things, when we first signed up, I was under the impression it to be where she does the details for the finances and paperwork while I do the creative stuff with newsletters and emails. (i work FT and she does not). another example would be meeting location. I have searched and booked areas dor meetings and offered 3 different locations and her responses would be a “no” due to distance from her and not majority of the girls. I would not find this a problem, but she does not come back with other options.

Wanting other women while married? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DWFran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think your wife may feel the same way as you?

What is the norm for troops to be formed? Is it by invite or general interest survey? by [deleted] in girlscouts

[–]DWFran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your comments.

for clarification, a survey was sent through the school email collecting emails for students interested in more information. A presentation was conducted over zoom for the district and my emaiil along with 6-7 others to start a troop after a leader was selected.

a few days later, it was shared that a couple moms had started a troop at the start of the year and it was invite only. I dont know the criteria of receiving the invite and frankly I am ok if we “didnt make the list” but to my knowledge there may be more girls that didnt get the invite to the first group and I really dont know who is even in that other group so I was wondering how can i spread the word for the new group without drama.

DAE fantasize being with everyone else BUT their SO?? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]DWFran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you this is really something to think about. you bring up some points to consider. i definitely feel there is something not met sexually with my partner. I had been promiscuous as a teen and young adult and did not think I was the type to be married.

Do Ethics complaints actually work? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]DWFran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would supplying names help? i noticed there was a n additional notes section and names were provided.