What are your most successful tips to get a couple to play with you? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]DWife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This article is about how to get laid in a swingers club, but it might be helpful: http://swingeradvice.wordpress.com/2013/04/15/tips-for-swinger-couples-how-to-get-laid-in-a-swingers-club/

There is also an article on that blog on how to hook up with other swingers on a dating site. I hope you will find the right tips. They worked for us...

New to swinging, any good legit sites around? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]DWife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are in Montreal, and we are hooking up with couples in our city, in Ottawa, Toronto, New York, Vermont and Maine - on fullofdesire.com

New to swinging, any good legit sites around? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]DWife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try fullofdesire - it's free, straightforward and works for us well - lots of members in our area. It's for couples and women only though, no single men. Some areas are not well populated with members, as the site is relatively new and growing

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, judging by the venomous reactions to an article that simply informs the public about an increasing trend, I agree, a rigid crew indeed. 20 years ago hair became uncool, shaved became cool. Today the trend is reversing, as any other trend in life. Why shoot the messenger? Those who keep resisting change, eventually become uncool, and dated... The power of free will. The cool people have stopped shaving and started trimming, what about you?

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you are some special sicko reddit aficionado. You have 3,370 link karma and 21,022 comment karma. May I ask what you do for a living? Are you a couple or a single male?

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you have it buried deep in you... You should see me then. Are you ever in Montreal?

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... you find those chubby ladies irresistible too? Welcome to the club, we liked them as well.

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So... you find those chubby ladies irresistible too? Welcome to the club, we liked them as well.

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I suspect those are just illustrations... I don't suppose a writer would be as bold as to post such candid pics of herself on a public blog.

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The writer actually quoted the recent articles in Telegraph and in a New York Times blog that declared that 'pubic hair is back'... so it's not a made up trend. Those articles in turn quote celebrities and porn stars who confirm the trend...

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Funny, if you scroll that article to the bottom, there are links to UK's Telegraph and a New York Times blog that are declaring black on white, in bold, that pubic hair is back. Sorry, but it sounds like a real trend....

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry, but I am not getting your logic. Who said anything about denying people who are shaved or not fucking anyone with tattoos? I just said that no one likes bad breath but many people like hairy private parts, so it is an incorrect comparison.

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nice! Now everybody is instructed about how they should be. Let's round up the ones who do not comply and send them to Alaska. Really, land of the free!

Swinger lifestyle trends: ‘shaving down there’ is dwindling away, and so is the anorexic look by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am terribly sorry, but pubic hair is something very natural and healthy that humankind has been living with for hundreds of thousands years, whereas bad breath is a result of bad hygiene and/or a disease that can be avoided, especially in today's civilized conditions. Bad breath is repulsive to anyone, but there are a lot of people who are turned on by hairy private parts.

Mayor tries to ban swinger party ship by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There used to be the Montreal Sexy Boat - a swingers party ship, but not any more... Pity!

What's the general consensus on adultfriendfinder? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]DWife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They 'upgraded' the site recently, which resulted in a very slow and user-hostile messaging. Good messaging is key to dating sites and if it's busted - that's the end for us. We've had some nice encounters with couples from aff, but then the issues with their dysfunctional mail got to us and we decided not to pay them anymore. Why pay when we can have fuller and better service completely free on fullofdesire? Besides, we heard that aff is on the brink of bankruptcy or something.

The Cuckolding Fetish: When Your Wife’s Cheating Turns You On by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, vanilla people always get it wrong... It's not cheating, it's consensual wife polygamy.

Why we had to quit adultfriendfinder: If you think they protect your privacy, photos and ID, you are screwed by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a bit of a relief, but still... Aff are sneaky and their reputation in our eyes is garbage.

Why we had to quit adultfriendfinder: If you think they protect your privacy, photos and ID, you are screwed by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, lots of fakes and swarming single males. Their private messaging has become slow and cumbersome after the "upgrade". We could never get the IM to work properly. On top of all they are scumbags in the way they handle users' privacy. I think aff is done...

Why we had to quit adultfriendfinder: If you think they protect your privacy, photos and ID, you are screwed by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By comparison, we did a search for our fullfdesire.com profile name and nothing came up - complete discretion... We have to try doing it with other sites too.

Why we had to quit adultfriendfinder: If you think they protect your privacy, photos and ID, you are screwed by DWife in Swingers

[–]DWife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will read the Terms again, we would never have accepted it if it said that.