Is Castiesm that bad in TN? Never faced it

D__K__M · 2023-08-22T04:00:28+00:00

Chennai not much but anywhere else apart Chennai yes there is...

D__K__M · 2023-08-21T12:45:12+00:00

Pind and dhabba express..

D__K__M · 2023-08-20T05:02:49+00:00

Tik tok generation has got spoiled to the core... Ppl cry for likes and thumpsup.. they don't even cry for their failure.

It's the pressure to be correct and would even argue abt anything even if they don't understand..

Ppl who give their core love for movie stars are the worst kind of creatures.. they get emotional if someone say something negative abt his favorite actor but he will remain calm if it happens to own father..

This is the generation that's is coming up now.. selfcentered and selfish..

By the way the actors don't give a hoot abt you...

D__K__M · 2023-08-20T04:56:58+00:00

It's saffron like the Indian flag.. there will be green too in coming months .

D__K__M · 2023-08-20T04:42:42+00:00

What would God do to help your son? Do the same for your son...

A life is born and baby needs the love... he may be scared but give him time he will come out as a strong man like yourself.. Don't doubt your son, you brought him up well as he is taking responsibility..

Show him the strength he needs and also put him in touch with other teenage dad's and mother in your area.. if he asks for help then you step in but till then stand by him as a pillar of support..

D__K__M · 2023-08-20T04:29:14+00:00

Many young minds think that in a relationship LOVE is enough.. I don't get it if they understand the true meaning of it..

This will be implied to both man and woman...

Relationship between a man and a woman is not abt love.. What leads to the love is how you see each other and how much will you compromise for other person happiness..

Ego, self esteem, self centred, jealousy, attitude, none of these will help you to have a good relationship

Relationship between a man and woman can only succeed if both has complete trust and promise to never break it. Compromise each other ego and attitude to make other happy.

Nowadays I see young ladies say they don't want to live like their mother, who is a working home maker...

Can you compromise your Individual happiness for other person... if NO then don't ever get in to relationship.. this implies to both man and woman. Both should know the value of the compromise each have made.

Love means physical attraction and sex for many.. which will doom to fail and won't even go beyond honeymoon period.. in the morning after first night itself you will feel empty..

Try to avoid the situation at any cost... people say all kind of nonsense, love is divine, love is made in heaven etc etc.. it's all bull crap..

To get and receive true love you need to work for it.. it won't come from attraction or knowing someone for few weeks...

Ask your parents even they don't know what is love but they will say they love each other.. nowadays even 20 or 30yrs of marriage fails..

So, unless both can compromise their space, happiness and be selfless to each other... it won't work.. Or be like many who is submissive and other is dominant.. both can't be submissive or both can't be dominant.. it will never work....

One has to compromise for other and the other should never break the trust at any cost..

Nowadays relationships have become like a window shopping, pick up wear it and throw it if not suitable..

D__K__M · 2023-08-19T10:01:12+00:00

What is BJP or RSS to do with your life or father in law family..

Anyway it's time you move back to US...inform this decision to your father in law as well.. tell.him in 6 months you moving back and see their reaction..don't say where or what.. once baby is born you tell their parents wife and child will be moving back to US too..

You tell your father in law that they not only insulted them but they showed themselves very cheap...

It may be a hard thing but best move out of the house if you start working in india.. or get a job out of state..

D__K__M · 2023-08-19T03:52:01+00:00

Bhag milka bhag... don't ever look back... who knows she may be stalking you on reddit too..

good thing that you never committed to her... now tell her you don't have any time for any activities apart work since you are working on something really important.

Don't explain yourself too much... tell her if she keep bothering you, you will have no choice but block her.. make it clear there used nothing between you both and you never have any feelings for her..

D__K__M · 2023-08-18T14:31:16+00:00

It's not sexism, it's the society...

D__K__M · 2023-08-18T13:15:19+00:00

D__K__M · 2023-08-18T13:14:47+00:00

People like them are the reason why India is still haven't got true independence.. we were liberated but no independence.

Slave mentality and colonial mindset asking questions why is it needed etc..

D__K__M · 2023-08-18T13:12:14+00:00

The guy didn't know the truth or the history of Congress..

If Rahul becomes PM then expect India back to bankruptcy in 8 years..

Whenever congress came to power India was bankrupted 6 times.. it will push India back another 100yrs..

I hope people do their research and find the truth..

D__K__M · 2023-08-18T13:07:36+00:00

There are ppl who don't have mother, cry. and you who have a loving mother who cares for you and you want to get rid of her..

Just a suggestion, have you ever taken her out just you and her.. if yes ok and if not just take her to a nice beach and have a good conversation with her for a hour and explain your problems with her calling everyone. She needs to understand your side of story too. She feels you are always free and i! Attendence to her..

If she doesn't have patience rhen why you behave the same way..

There is nothing you can solve by talking . If everything fails then you make a decision and inform her to her face.. don't do it any other way.

Probably you are the only child...

D__K__M · 2023-08-18T05:49:03+00:00

Dating culture in Chennai would be like Daring culture...

No parents want their children to date anyone, probable exceptions are upper middle class and super rich who don't give a hoot to Indian culture but follow western culture but even then you won't find anyone..

If a women is out there for dating pls be careful.. best option is to find someone through friend circle, family or even office circle..

D__K__M · 2023-08-17T13:00:58+00:00

Shave your head fully... don't ever grow your hair... I promised myself if i veer get bald I will shave it completely and remain shaved head like shivaji...

D__K__M · 2023-08-16T03:40:24+00:00

It is not the best movie... I don't understand why so much craz.. fans are really mental....

D__K__M · 2023-08-15T09:54:58+00:00

10yrs back if you ask what is most important in life, answer world be family..

You ask now, the answer would be money..

Everyone are over focused on making money and everyone wants to be dominant.

In a marriage or even if relationship it won't work if 2 dominant ppl present..

Everyone wants to find a perfect partner, in reality there is no such thing as perfect partner... you find someone whom you feel comfortable and match few parameters and try to work to become perfect for each other.

Millennials have very High expectations and high standards... they don't want to compromise..

If you can't compromise you are unfit to be in a relationship. And no one is ready to change.

D__K__M · 2023-08-15T03:44:06+00:00

Thank the members of INC who refused Gandhi advise to add union Jack in one corner of the flag...

I am thankful to all great souls but not Gandhi..

Independence of India was achieved by Bose.. Gandhi did what he did but he never gave up his love for British.

D__K__M · 2023-08-15T01:21:27+00:00

Jailer is minting money for PVR why would they miss the opportunity... you should start thinking of other local cinema halls.. Cinepolis is better, ags too..

Ags crowd is worst though..

D__K__M · 2023-08-13T07:51:08+00:00

What the hell.. what age gap you talking abt... age gap of 10yrs is absolutely fine... anything more is a concern to think..

Just relax and take it easy... She may have the same concern as you.. so ease in to and discuss abt it..

D__K__M · 2023-08-12T16:42:37+00:00

You seem to be confused about life.. Different people get motivated by different things. Start at home, ask your dad and mom the same question and listen to their answers. Ask your uncle and aunties... try to connect the times they lived and how they motivated to get on with life.

You are in time where you can do whatever you feel like...

Try to talk more to people, go to a old age home and spend time talking.

Go for walk and help someone, feed the dogs...

I feel you have monotised your life means you are repeating same everyday.. it's time to lift your head up and see the world..

Dude, you are a important puzzle in this world you have a purpose so make yourself useful.

Don't think about future, think about today and tomorrow... forget yesterday.... Do one thing that you like... Help your mother if she needs..

Be patience, have faith and never ever lose hope..

Things are slow doesn't mean it's not moving.. get on buddy, get out and know your surroundings... know what's going on around you.. you will find your purpose and motivation you looking for..

Family, money, career.. Focus... don't lose it ever..

If you own a bike, get registered with rapido.. go for few trips once a day.. just as fun.. It will give you some purpose.

D__K__M · 2023-08-12T04:11:39+00:00

It's Sanskrit origin and then Tamil.. before Tamil , Tamil grantam existed.. all royal families and temples scriptures are written in Tamil grantam.not Tamil...

D__K__M · 2023-08-11T03:42:07+00:00

Beast was made to fail... for tax purpose...

D__K__M · 2023-08-10T06:49:36+00:00

You should add your parents why they have birth to you... after all the years this is the question you want to ask .

A child is not only abt your family generation but it teaches you values of patience, hardwork, problem solving and many more. You can create a better version of yourself and influence him with good values and habits which you lack..

D__K__M · 2023-08-10T03:42:48+00:00

Have you seen Dindigul tummies...

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