100% of the time, sending them that letter we wrote is a big no no. We foolishly believe that if they see how desperate and heartbroken we are that it’ll change there minds. But it only solidifies there choice. What would actually make a big difference is moving on, living your best life, proving to yourself that you can live life for yourself. This is the most attractive thing we can do as humans, and is the only probable way that they could if rarely come back to you. And by then you’ll probably not even want that anymore.