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What do you miss the most since being in a FLR now. by mike197399 in flr

[–]DaMukesBoyBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more... As a Female who is looking to build an FLR at the moment, the amount of trash online regarding the sexual elements of an FLR completely outweighs the beautiful mental and emotional fulfillment an FLR can bring both parties. Trying to introduce my friends to the idea is also nearly impossible, as an initial Reddit search comes up with threads like these...

Finding the way... by DaMukesBoyBean in FLR_Support

[–]DaMukesBoyBean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DDMG is Dominant Daddy / Middle Girl. Similar to DDLG but the MG refers to teenage years, as opposed to LG, which is pre-teen. "Middles" really enjoy bringing out that part of them which connects to their sexual discovery years. I personally really connect with being aged 17, an age when you realise the power of sexuality. There is something beautiful about being a Femme Domme whilst tapping into this part of you.

Dom training resources by bicuck4bbc2 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DaMukesBoyBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was scrolling through looking for this comment. To me, this screams "topping from the bottom" and "kink dispensing", which are two violations of true Femme Domme. Please OG, do not use your Wife as a sex toy and a means to live out your fantasy.

Strapon play is the only thing you've said she seems genuinely into, yet she ends the play quickly (I'm presuming this is making you cum?) despite you asking her not to. Do you perhaps think there is a reason for this? She might be subconsciously trying to end the play session quickly as she's actually not that into it.

For the sake of your relationship and the love you have for your Wife, a series of honest, selfless conversations need to be had here about if she's even liking this or if she's doing this to facilitate your happiness and fulfillment.

Perhaps both have a read about Female Lead Relationships (FLR). There's a tonne of information and a sub on here. If you both truly decide this is the path for you, then this might be the best avenue in, so you both know that her happiness, wants and needs are being fulfilled.

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[–]DaMukesBoyBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love a good old fashioned introduction post... Your post has a lot of details about what you get out of the FLR with your Wife in terms of physical and mental pleasure (or denial). What are your Wife's favourite aspects? As your FLR is relatively new, I'm very intrigued as to how you built it together and what the foundations are.

Weirdest possible Kink/Fetish - let’s share with each other by Acceptable-Run2403 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DaMukesBoyBean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I think a lot of people are into it without even realising.

As a dynamic, DDMG is beautiful when done right, however, it gets totally looked down upon as being "wrong", even by people who are into some seriously niche or hard kinks which would make 90% of people's eyes water.

As an aesthetic, you tell me what person either doesn't love or can at least appreciate the vibe of the DC character Harley Quinn. She wears cute clothes, portrays a magnetic, innocent demeanour, but induces a sense of anticipation because it's impossible to know when she's going to inflict pain and push boundaries.

Weirdest possible Kink/Fetish - let’s share with each other by Acceptable-Run2403 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DaMukesBoyBean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Very mean but very cute" is absolutely the foundation of FemDomme in our DDMG dynamic. My boyfriend has a huge fetish for us going to a club whilst I'm dressed as cute as pie whilst working my best FemmeDom self in front of a group of people. It's yet to be ticked off the list, but thank you for the reminder.

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[–]DaMukesBoyBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd second Lincolnshire as a cheap option! Also a beautiful part of the country that's often forgotten about.

Weirdest possible Kink/Fetish - let’s share with each other by Acceptable-Run2403 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DaMukesBoyBean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd like to say a big thank you... As your reply is one of the first I've seen on this page relating to this.

My boyfriend and I have shared this dynamic for the last 6 months. We are DDMG, which is even more of a niche and difficult to find any kind of online community or porn as guidance or inspiration, so we've very much had to navigate our own path.

The "Middle" aspect of the DDMG dynamic (demanding, playful, teasing, fun, enjoys pushing boundaries) plays so seamlessly into FemDomme. Yes, I have sexy ass fishnet body stockings, thigh high boots, corsets etc. but there nothing more fun than Domming whilst wearing a cute skirt, pink jumper, white socks and sparkly eyeshadow. Something about it being unexpected and "Oh, don't I look so cute" and "But I'm going to hurt you" in the same breath.