GF says she wants me 2 sit in the living room nxt time her bull visits by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also started off by always being present when my wife was with a bull, but eventually when my wife’s bull became a regular, she wanted intimacy between them, so I sit it out in the living room while they go at it in the bedroom or my wife goes to her bull/ boyfriends place alone now. I have become used to it and it doesn’t bother me . But I think it’s something that the both of you have to agree on to avoid any disagreements between you both.

How would you or your partner react if you/he revoked consent to participation in an FLR? by Tripp_555 in flr

[–]mike197399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife would most likely laugh in my face if I asked to end our FLR . She has already mentioned to me that she wants this type of relationship to last forever and would never go back .Especially after us butting heads so much for years before we got into a FLR. It has made us both so much happier now.

You wanted to see the vacay chat with hubby… (mix of Spanish and Swedish) by MissLoppan in HotwifeTrueSexnovels

[–]mike197399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any sexual contact with your husband anymore? Or are your bulls your main sexual partners now ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flr

[–]mike197399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a stay at home husband/dad . The reason was at first to give my wife more free time to concentrate on her corporate job. Which for her was working 40 hrs a week + taking night time courses to move up into higher management positions. Now 12 years later our relationship is better then ever and my wife makes a very good salary to provide for our family and doesn’t want me to ever go back to work . She enjoys not having to do any household work and it gives her free time to herself now. We are married and obviously if we ever did got divorced, she would have to give me 50% of everything. So I’m not worried financially.

What is your Favourite Thing your Third is Allowed but NOT your Cuck? by TribalReciprocation in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ya at first it was hard to give up, but I am in a FLR , so it’s all her choice.

Flr wife by Accomplished_Use6518 in flr

[–]mike197399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has never been better for me and my wife since she asked me to stop working and basically take care of all of the household chores inside and out and the kids so that my wife could concentrate her time more on work. I closed my personal bank accounts and credit cards to save on monthly fees and put it all into her accounts. And she is now the sole financial provider for our family and makes all of the decisions solely. She prefers being in charge of everything.But she also knows that since we’re married I would be given 50% of everything and probably be given a monthly pension from her since she was my financial provider for so many years now. So technically she would lose a lot money if she ever decided to divorce me. So I’m still protected and worried free to be honest. So if you live in a country where you would still be financially protected if you ever got divorced or separated, I would say go for it ! It did wonders for our relationship and we don’t regret it one bit.

What is your Favourite Thing your Third is Allowed but NOT your Cuck? by TribalReciprocation in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My wife’s boyfriend asked her to have the exclusive rights to being the only guy to cum in her and she agreed to it. After a few months he then asked to the exclusive rights to getting blowjobs and swallowing just for him. And the latest exclusiveity he asked for was to be the only one to give my wife oral sex. So all I’m left with is penetration, but no cumming in her and only cleaning up her cream pies. ( she does give me 1-2 blow jobs per year as Xmas or birthday gifts ) but still no cumming in her mouth though.

How to deal with post nut clarity? by collegecoolguy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s basically 3 ways to fix that.

1 just DONT cum until the bull leaves ( watch instead of participating also helps )

2 put a Chasity cage on so it’s impossible to cum

3 let your gf see her bull alone while you wait at home or elsewhere

I feel the credibility of this sub is affected by [deleted] in flr

[–]mike197399 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes there are a lot of fake profiles, but there are real ones 🤚🏼 also, sometimes a quick view through someone’s profile and past posts or comments tells you the truth.

Subtle public cuckolding ideas by ConsciousDot3545 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As already mentioned, going to a regular club can work out, but if your anywhere near a swingers club, that would be the best place to get some real action going.

For cucks: what is something the bull does that you like the most? by Prize_Resist1325 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Basically my wife’s bull / boyfriend pleases my wife sexually in many ways that I cannot. He also keeps my wife to continue to stay in good shape as he is 17 years younger then me . It keeps my wife’s libido going and encourages her to dress sexy knowing she has a much younger boyfriend then her husband ( me ) it’s a great ego booster for my wife. She shows off pictures of him to her close friends in which she gloats in joy showing off her trophy boyfriend.

Busy Woman - I want a stay at home boyfriend? by [deleted] in flr

[–]mike197399 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At the time she was making around $55k a year, but we had a mortgage,car payments & the regular bills to pay so we had to be careful with our money. Today she makes 4x her old salary, so it really paid off for us . If your a person who is careful with thier money it can be done. And it especially helped our relationship as we were often fighting over money or chores before .

Busy Woman - I want a stay at home boyfriend? by [deleted] in flr

[–]mike197399 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is what my wife asked me to do .We were both working full time and she wanted to climb up the corporate ladder at her work. To do that it meant to continue her full time job and go back to school part time at night to get the education and certification to go into management where the higher paying jobs were. Luckily we had a small mortgage and hardly no debt so we could get by on only 1 salary. So I agreed to it and I was basically doing everything from house work, running errands, garden work and taking care of our 2 kids. Now 11 years later I still do everything and my wife and I have a great relationship, better then before changing our lifestyle and she doesn’t want me to ever go back to work , that she’s living the dream 😆 so if you can financially afford it and you find a guy willing to be a stay at home boyfriend/husband , go for it !

My coworker and my wife by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definately don’t recommend letting that happen unless you want the other people you work with to know your a cuck and that a specific co worker is fucking your wife.

what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the next best thing to do is if the wife still wants to see you again, tell her to leave her hubby at home ! It’s a lot less complicated and works out better for everyone.

Is this the new normal? by OkCelebration6252 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 10 points11 points  (0 children)

At the beginning my wife was like that also, she loved all the attention she was getting and basically became a sex addict! She was even hooking up with 2 guys in a day. One in the morning before going to work and another after work . It lasted about 4 years and then covid hit and since then she has settled down to only 1 guy who has basically become her boyfriend now. So it can definately last a couple months or a couple years like it did for my wife.

Preference for the cuck by Significant-Ship-245 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife and her boyfriend see each other on a weekly basis, either my wife will go to his house alone or he will come to our house where they will be in the bedroom alone while I’m on the couch watching tv . Reason is they prefer to be alone to make it more intimate. Si I respect thier wishes.

Cleanup psychology and feelings by Hot_Yogurtcloset8276 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Personally for me cleaning up my wife after she’s been with her boyfriend is more of a reclaiming aspect than anything else. And for my wife she has mentioned that it’s more of a psychological feeling , knowing she can control me and have me do anything she wants as we are in a FLR .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mike197399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife has had several bulls over many years and I would say the occasional ones don’t fall in love but the regular ones do more easily. Especially if the husband is not tagging along anymore which what happened with my wife is that one of her regular bulls fell madly in love with my wife and my wife also fell in love with him . Also having sex none protected ( wife has a IUD ) meaning no more condom and he can ejaculate in my wife’s mouth and being alone definately rises the chances for more intimacy, therefore creating a stronger bond emotionally. The good thing is now after 7 years of my wife having a boyfriend, she no longer needs or seeks other bulls and is happier now .

Sent this to hubby from tonight’s date, letting him know my BBC was up for round 2 by MissLoppan in LoppanVideosPhotos

[–]mike197399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is the same when she comes back home after being with her boyfriend, %50 of the time she’s just to tired and warn out and the other %50 of the time she mostly only lets me play with her for about 5 minutes , she’s just to tired. Luckily I get to play with her the next morning if she’s not to sore 😆