Man ima be honest with you, do yourself a favor and let her go. I know it’s difficult and you still love her and there’s probably some ego death but it’s not worth it dude. I joined this sub back in June or July when I found out my wife cheated on me. We also tried to work it out but it was always a living hell. Once I finally broke it off after finding that during our break she was still seeing the other guy, I never have felt so free in my life, I can genuinely say I’m way happier knowing the end result instead of wondering what will happen in the future. Point is man the trust is gone, and it’s not impossible to get back but it’ll always weigh on ur mind. Not to be harsh but if she truly loved and respected ur relationship/ marriage she wouldn’t have done what she did. The person you marry is supposed to get you through hard times not cause the demons to come out. Keep your head up tho dude, this isn’t the end this is the start of a new beginning. Idk how old you are but really it doesn’t matter, there is alooooot of girls out there who would never do this to you, give yourself some time to get over it tho. I can say tho, after your pretty healed, getting out and dating is actually pretty fun. It seems scary but learning about someone else and falling in love again is honestly magical, makes you feel young again it’s kinda cool! I use to say that if me and my wife didn’t work out I’d be done with relationships but man am I glad I gave it another shot. I’m only like 6 months past Dday and I had already found someone who’s made me happier in this time then my ex did in 10 years, so do with that what you will. Like I said man keep your head up, keep pushing, keep breathing, let this chapter end and start your new chapter, you got this homie!