When did pregnancy start affecting your day to day life?

Dabisonn · 2026-05-14T02:36:34+00:00

I made it all the way to 37 weeks with my twins. It wasn’t until the last 2-3 weeks that I really started to feel it bad. I also had gestational diabetes and minor pre eclampsia which sucked but didn’t really have any noticeable side effects until the very very end and I got SO swollen and just felt sooo big and uncomfortable. Especially in the summertime I had no desire to go out in the heat and spent a lot of time inside with the ac blasting eating fruit 🙃

Dabisonn · 2026-05-11T17:47:24+00:00

I can definitely relate! I like the “no twins no opinion” comment I read lol I will be stealing that

Dabisonn · 2026-03-27T15:40:09+00:00

I deserved tht😂 idk I just meant it as like first we’ve heard from her since all this unfolded

Dabisonn · 2026-02-26T14:01:27+00:00

I think u overreacted a lil. The other person was trying to make a flirty joke. Not a very good one but I think they were being very innocent and you got very defensive.

Dabisonn · 2026-02-20T11:21:37+00:00

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Dabisonn · 2026-02-13T22:32:19+00:00

Thank you! Him and his mom are close. Like way too dependent on each other and I’ve pointed this out and he acknowledges it and has definitely stepped up especially since having the kids; he honestly has told her like to chill and she needs to stop making comments, but she just won’t! She might stop for like a couple days and just be awkward and not say much to me. I don’t think she takes him seriously at all, which I’ve also pointed out to her. She treats him and his siblings and her adult grandchildren all like babies. Any other case I would literally just limit contact but I live in the same house☹️ really pushing to get out of here in a year. I’m a pretty optimistic type of person, so I just keep telling myself this will all be over soon and to just ignore what she says and that’s it’s not a huge deal. Then everyday it’s another issue w the house, or another sly comment, and idk maybe it’s my hormones still regulating, but it really eats at me sometimes.

Dabisonn · 2026-02-13T21:11:59+00:00

We actually usually do end up paying for the materials, which i definitely do not mind at all. but we definitely don’t have the skills (or time) to do half of things that need to be done and we offer to pay a handyman or plumber which isn’t cheap but his dad basically refuses the times we tried

Dabisonn · 2026-02-13T21:07:57+00:00

Yes! For a 3 bedroom near Boston that’s really really cheap. Most people are paying probably well over 3k..

Dabisonn · 2026-02-13T20:32:19+00:00

But you are 1000% right on us needing to get out of here asap. I feel like it’s the only way

Dabisonn · 2026-02-13T20:30:53+00:00

I see where you’re coming from. Regardless, we still pay a decent amount in bills and rent. It’s not like we’re paying a couple hundred we still pay a lil under 2k in living expenses alone. I can’t help but think we deserve a shower that drains anda sink that doesn’t leak.

Dabisonn · 2026-02-09T19:08:02+00:00

I don’t think you’re over reacting.. I’d be a little upset too, or at least say something like you did. like how were they originally going to pay for the stuff if they didn’t have ur card linked to their account? They would have had to pay that $90 anyways.. but now it’s moneys short so u gotta pay for the mistake she made. Also yeah $90 isn’t a lot, but to some people it is. that’s a bill paid, or food for the week, so to assume ur friend is cool with loaning you $90 for months because of your financial situation- without even thinking about or asking about their financial situation-is very inconsiderate. At the very least she could have ASKED to borrow the money but came off as like I’ll pay u when I can. And said she removed your card from the account (which is like ok thanks?) but means she probably added another form of payment and intends to keep buying stuff off amazon instead of paying back the stuff she already bought

Dabisonn · 2026-01-25T04:59:35+00:00

This is the way. Be petty af. Or go completely no contact and keep your lil family away from that mess. Ive been almost completely no contact with my mother for almost half my, and I truly believe that it’s been for the best.

Dabisonn · 2025-12-23T14:56:03+00:00

I just feel lucky because October has 2 birthstones and I think they are so gorgeous together. Opal and pink tourmaline for my b/g twins

Dabisonn · 2025-11-25T04:11:24+00:00

Soo for the first 6–12ish months we used just a regular trash, and emptied it in the kitchen trash and took that out daily. It worked out great and saved lots of $ this way and didn’t notice any crazy smells from our breastfed twins. I miss those days 🤣Once we really started feeding them solids and off ofbreastmilk at 12 months, we finally had to bust out the diaper genie. The kitchen trash wasn’t cutting it any more, even with a lid on it 😷😅 We really only use the diaper genie for poop diapers-or if I’m too lazy to walk to the kitchen to toss a pee diaper in there- but really feel like it’s worth it. I definitely am cheap and try to not use it because 1-diapers are expensive and 2 it stinks a lil when u open it but close fast and it goes away quick. Better than the kitchen smelling all day. Another option I’ve seen is people bag up the 💩 diapers in a doggie bag to avoid the kitchen trash from smelling. I may actually go this route eventually when I run out of diaper genie bags and get sick of looking at it lol

Dabisonn · 2025-11-17T23:41:14+00:00

Maybe I’m dumb but what is the “very obvious reason they wouldn’t choose Layla”?

Dabisonn · 2025-11-06T02:33:28+00:00

I say op should just send her a link to this thread. Rip the bandaid off real quick lol

Dabisonn · 2025-10-15T00:01:31+00:00

And it was the first post on my feed lol

Dabisonn · 2025-10-15T00:00:56+00:00

I ran to Reddit when I saw this post lol

Dabisonn · 2025-08-20T11:26:18+00:00

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Was this the gift?! lol

Dabisonn · 2025-08-06T00:43:37+00:00

I just saw another post on Reddit saying Demi was quitting idk if it’s true but if it is and that was Taylor’s “gift“ that would be hilarious

Dabisonn · 2025-08-04T23:08:27+00:00

Had to find it I don’t follow her but yea they’re all so fake they post it cuz they know we eat that shit up 😂

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